Just got outta serious relationship...

liftedhabits · 2014-09-05T16:24:44+00:00

I rented three horror movies my gf would never have watched with me and watched them in one lenghty session. Gotta start small.

Next thing was buying guitar/music equipment with all the excess money I suddenly had.

Magn3s1um · 2014-09-05T20:44:07+00:00

Go no contact of course, and make sure you go no contact forever.

First thign I did was lift.

Second thing I did, was take some time to myself to understand what I wanted my future to be. The end of a relationship, especially if you weren't RP during it, is a significant thing to bear. Remind yourself that in the future, you won't allow it to impact you like this anymore, meaning, never make someone as important as you made your ex (if this is effecting you negatively/you have resentment/have oneitis).

Third thing I did was start working on my career, which shouldn't have taken a back burner during my relationship.

Fourth thing I did was start spinning plates/meeting people/hanging out with friends all the time.

Good luck; I was there after 4+ years. Its hard the first time (wasn't first relationship, but was first one before I found RP).

Lifting is the most important thing though, without a doubt. Science backs this up.

doubleknee24 · 2014-09-05T15:43:53+00:00

You're either in the wrong sub or you haven't read the side bar. My suggestion, read.

le_king_falcon · 2014-09-05T20:54:38+00:00

Avoid women for a while. Revel in all the free time and spare cash you have. Lift, eat well and enjoy your hobbies.

It's very liberating and also helps with the the abundance mentality. Knowing just how much you lose whilst chasing and spinning plates means you'll be less likely to tolerate shittyness when you know you can make better use of your time.

Its not grade A dread like having chicks lining up to gobble the baby batter. It is however useful for any girl to know she can be dropped for something more productive or fun if she stops being worth your time.

Of course you can also go the "bang all the sloots" route if oneitis has any hold over you still.

If you are over the chick though the first route has more benefits as it allows you to refocus your life and recharge your batteries a bit.

kempff · 2014-09-05T22:43:22+00:00

I scrubbed my environment free of any trace of her.

Title	Just got outta serious relationship...
Author	liftedhabits
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	September 5, 2014 3:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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