I say this as a man who has lots of questions and is looking for the best RP response to many situations. I've read the sidebar, hundreds of posts and their responses, and yet I still feel the urge to immediately ask other guys on here what they would say or do.
Almost every time I start laying out my question I think of what the responses will be, and much more importantly, how I would respond to the same question. 99% of the time I'll get my answer.
Removing yourself from the outcome of the situation and applying reason and experience as you would if your best friend asked for advice will always give you the best answer. After all, this is your life, no one is responsible for it but you. Answers given by others do not carry the same weight that self-realized conclusions do.
tl dr; The best answers come from within