A few questions...

stonepimpletilists · 2016-06-28T15:47:24+00:00

I'd say jerk if you can't sleep, hooker if you're tired of waiting. And gaming soccer mom's if she's cut you off and you're worth a damn.

But what do I know? I know 0 about you

SteelToeShitKicker · 2016-06-28T13:41:55+00:00

If your batteries take a few days to recharge, get your T checked.

fuzzyface1980 · 2016-06-28T13:44:06+00:00

I came from deadbedrooms too. And you ain't that old. Got three kids too.

That said, get what ever fucking she allows as you improve. I stopped jerking off as it was just placation. Then I got to see all the shit I wasn't getting. Let yourself feel pissed and then take some responsibility for where you are in life. Let the frustration drive your weight lifting.

Do not be a victim here. Let that part of you die along with your deadbedroom...because they are inseparable. So die with it or thrive without it. But get ready for the fight of your life.

Persaeus · 2016-06-28T13:50:23+00:00

Initiate when you want sex. Yes, take the starfish ("obligatory" sex) until you are getting the quantity you want....then focus on quality. Your response to starfish should be to "caveman" her. Ground and pound, don't be gentle. Stop wanking, it will focus your mind both in the gym and gaming other women. Welcome to fight club.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-06-29T03:25:52+00:00

do I ever initiate?

Holy fuck! What...did...I...miss? Why wouldn't you initiate? Are you going somewhere and when you get back then you will initiate? Do you know what the end of this "interim" period looks like?

Do I only have sex if she wants it

What? I seriously have no idea what the Hell is going on.

should it come my way

It just happens?

should I jerk off

If you are not getting sex then why not? If it is going to keep you from performing then perhaps you need to be more proactive in defining when and where YOU get to have sex.

I think your unspoken question is...what if I jerk the Turk and then she tells me we can have sex the next day and I can't perform? Dude, do you have any idea how much dread that gives a woman when her husband can't even get hard for her. If you hold frame you can cuddle her that night and then bang her like a drum the next day.

The_Litz · 2016-06-28T12:32:09+00:00

So how have you been managing it the last couple of years?

Here it is:

1) I think you do not have to worry about your wife initiating at this stage......

2)Initiate whenever you want.

3) If you wank and can't get it up the next day, see point 1) above.

Countpudyoola · 2016-06-28T14:22:44+00:00

Or should I stay the course and let the frustration be channeled into something positive? I ask because I'm older and if I have an orgasm, I can't have sex, should it come my way, for at least a few days.

You answered you own question.

Also treat yourself as your first self-improvement experiment.... see what happens. What you get done with that kind of motivation.

bogeyd6 · 2016-06-28T14:25:15+00:00

What to do about sex in the interim? Lift and read. Initiate sex when you want and remain OI.

screechhater · 2016-06-30T02:36:08+00:00

"I'm older and if I have an orgasm, I can't have sex, should it come my way, for at least a few days"

Quit banging your hand and examine your diet. How old is old ?

You are not reading and internalizing. But, why are you not initiating ? Do you have some kind of mind fuck going on because she turned you down in the past too much ?

Title	A few questions...
Author	emmetfitzhumeglg20
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	June 28, 2016 12:11 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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