High school 14 year old freshman

Flamethrowa21 · 2019-01-29T01:48:09+00:00

•Read the sidebar •Play sports and lift weights •hang out with the most popular kids you can tolerate •get good enough grades for university

IWantAllYourMoney · 2019-01-29T01:46:59+00:00

Im 14 too and nerdy black kid.Its over for me

rad_dynamic · 2019-01-29T02:17:49+00:00

1.) Start developing your social skills. NOW.

2.) Try to regularly go out of your comfort zone. Doesn't have to be by much. If you are stuck at what you think your comfort zone is, try doing things that you're afraid of / don't know.

Say yes to every single opportunity. This is the most important. A girl asks you to go to a party but you're afraid of looking like a loser? GO ANYWAY. The old lady at church offers you free piano lessons? TAKE THEM. Saying yes opens doors:

You go to the party > You bond with a guy you didn't know before > He introduces you to his friends at school the Monday after > You get invited to more parties > The loop continues

Edit:

Oh, also avoid drugs as a regular thing. If you're going to do them, do it sparingly. Always say no to cocaine, meth and Xanax.

throwinghthisoneaway · 2019-01-29T05:39:32+00:00

Join the wrestling team if you have one. Ideally get really good at something you love to do. Get good grades as well for the OPTION of college. In my opinion college is on its way out so look for other ways to make money right now and pursue what fulfills you most.

Heres the biggest, most crucial piece of advice I have for you. Be nice to EVERYONE. Not “nice” but be fun. Just dont be a dick and burn any bridges. Lots of the hot girls in HS peak in sexual maturity in HS and then youll start to see all the ugly or under developed girls really blossom in college and boy did I fuck up by being mean to them.

xx-Rain_Maker-xx · 2019-01-29T08:35:39+00:00

Two things. Focus on learning, yes learning, and lift. That'd be enough to do at 14.

spider_1337 · 2019-01-29T01:51:25+00:00

Dont take everything too seriously, learn to let go and live in the moment

AltrumViritas · 2019-01-29T16:29:16+00:00

Always focus on improving yourself. Talk to everyone, even those in other groups/clicks. Do sports.

Dont do drugs/alchahol till 16. If if you think people will judge you for turning it down, then fuck them, you did not want those as your friends anyway.

Likewise if friends try to pressure you to regular alchahol sessions then they are shitty friends.

You are #1.

Title	High school 14 year old freshman
Author	Fwellgot
Upvotes	6
Comments	26
Date	January 29, 2019 1:43 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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