Interesting findings that certainly help explain the kind of behaviour we see on reddit (/r/DarkTriadWomen, /r/FemaleDatingStrategy)
Rejection by an attractive man makes a woman more likely to subsequently not only turn down advances from unattractive men but also to see them in a negative light and develop cruel attitudes towards them.
https://preview.redd.it/pv47tcvhp8l51.jpg?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=880b0054f05d8feacf15314a84fcb547b6bf010e
Now why does this happen?
"In order to cushion the psychological blow of a rejection, distanciation from unattractive males reinforces a woman's self-assessment of her sexual market value."
The rejection by a high-value male (to use the FDS jargon) poses a threat a female's sense of self: if she were to accept the advances of low-value males, it would only mean that she is a low-value female herself.
Cruelty, Disgust*, aggression, bitterness, bitchiness, are buffer strategies used to protect a female's sense of self and her self-assessed sexual market value post rejection.
[*regarding Disgust: "Women have consistently higher levels of disgust than men. This sex difference is substantial in magnitude, highly replicable, emerges with diverse assessment methods, and affects a wide array of outcomes. If women consistently report higher levels of disgust in general and sexual disgust in particular (FDS subreddit is an illustration of this, feminism as a movement is a generational expression of this), this will undoubtedly colour the way they view men.
Sources: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1754073917709940?journalCode=emra, https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0106-8, Disgust as a decision making mechanism (insight on how the mind of a woman works): https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Femo0000389) ]
"Researchers found that, rather than being grateful for the fall-back option, being rejected by an attractive man actually makes a woman more likely to turn down an unattractive one, and to describe him harshly."
Sources:
Resisting Connection Following Social Exclusion: Rejection by an Attractive Suitor Provokes Derogation of an Unattractive Suitor: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1948550615584196
Derogating those who choose us last: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1010661825137
If you can't join them beat them: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2001-05428-007
Interpersonal Rejection as a Determinant of Anger and Aggression: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1207/s15327957pspr1002_2
The causes, phenomenology, and consequences of hurt feelings: https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1998-01923-009
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3081480/Hell-hath-no-fury-like-woman-scorned-rejected-attractive-man-makes-women-cruel-men.html
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