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FitnessBumblingBeta/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 06:13 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:01 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:05 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:52 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:26 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:16 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:39 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/MGTOW22/09/20 07:12 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 04:53 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 02:36 PM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 02:37 AM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:21 PM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:23 PM
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Question For WomenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:06 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:28 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:35 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP29/12/18 04:05 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:44 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:37 AM
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Question For WomenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 04:04 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:44 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 11:45 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:16 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:01 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:07 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 03:27 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/19 01:18 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/MGTOW21/09/20 07:59 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/MGTOW02/09/20 12:43 PM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 02:33 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 07:59 PM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:08 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 11:00 PM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 10:13 PM
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PurgeBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:01 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/seduction01/06/19 09:29 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 11:20 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 06:09 PM
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PurgeBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:57 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 08:03 PM
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Question For MenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 05:35 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:39 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:57 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:48 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:49 AM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 11:52 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 06:55 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 02:15 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:55 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 08:42 PM
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Question For WomenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/19 11:07 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:20 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:01 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:42 PM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 02:35 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP12/03/19 10:42 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:37 PM
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Question For MenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 01:07 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:06 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:41 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:54 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:23 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 09:10 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:32 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:48 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 09:56 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:44 PM
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Question For WomenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:12 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP11/12/18 10:48 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/MGTOW04/09/20 09:55 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP16/11/18 05:07 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 03:05 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:31 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/MGTOW31/08/20 01:17 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 11:17 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/MGTOW23/07/19 12:42 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:32 PM
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PurgeBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:56 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 12:33 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 11:16 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP10/01/19 09:14 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 07:48 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 02:33 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:10 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:13 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 11:22 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP29/03/19 03:11 AM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 01:46 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 12:37 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:09 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:09 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:39 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:08 PM
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NYE Purge Post!BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:59 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:13 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:26 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 09:40 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 12:34 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 09:10 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:49 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:39 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 03:57 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 02:38 AM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:57 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:22 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 02:01 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:26 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:27 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:31 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 04:43 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP02/11/18 01:42 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:11 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:53 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:47 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:58 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:45 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 10:44 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 07:30 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP01/12/18 08:23 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP31/12/18 02:29 PM
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Question For MenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:17 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:52 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:50 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:23 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:54 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/MGTOW15/05/19 08:49 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 09:34 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:48 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:42 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 09:07 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:49 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:44 PM
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CMVBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/19 11:32 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 08:56 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP29/10/18 12:55 AM
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ScienceBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:22 AM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 02:48 AM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:16 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:01 PM
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Question For MenBumblingBeta/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 01:40 PM
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Purge - Question For WomenBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:47 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP25/10/18 08:14 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:46 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:51 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:34 PM
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Free For All DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 07:15 PM
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BumblingBeta/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 10:35 PM
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NYE Purge Post!BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:46 PM
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DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:32 AM
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BumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 06:21 PM
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DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:17 AM
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Free For All DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 09:28 PM
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Anyone who has an interest in dating and sexual dynamics can comment. These men want to date but they are shut out from doing so. A huge part of life is cut off to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:33 PM
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thats why i came to this sub. can't stand all the bitterness and anger from middle aged women on purplepilldebate who just want to be a nuisance. wonder what attracts so many middle aged women to that sub, because you almost never come across women in their early 20's or younger on there.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 09:20 PM
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That's true. Most women have never heard no as an answer. They live their life just assuming people will say yes to them whatever they do.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 07:00 PM
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It's because we're always told have "have confidence in yourself" and "believe in yourself" which results in people deluding themselves and thinking they are better than they actually are. It's even worse now we have social media. These messages are fed to people constantly. Especially on the female side, with these silly influencers telling women that they are "worthy" and "queens" and they should "know their worth". It's resulted in a generation of women who feel entitled to everything.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 05:02 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xaqumt/this_subreddit_moving_forward_incelrace_content/ purplepilldebate seems to be reviewing its rules and what you can discuss on the subreddit. maybe because they can see a sub like this competing with it and taking away users from that subreddit?
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/22 04:43 PM
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Of course you don't want that because you're a woman. You could never possibly understand what it's like to be sexless or have raging testosterone in your body. I don't want to hear about women's problems either. But if we want to be accepting of everyone, we can't just stop these things being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:38 PM
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Well that's pretty weird, because the masculine women I see, they want go for men who are even more masculine and turn their noses up at men who they deem as less masculine than themselves. Perhaps we have a different definition of masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:53 PM
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Sounds like a classic case of female projection. You're projecting everything you do onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:45 PM
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You must speak for all masculine women. My mistake, rofl. :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:42 PM
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The Pareto Principle is how any competitive industry works. A small percentage at the top get the vast majority of the wealth and/or success. It's literally how the whole capitalist system works. Sounds like you have no clue how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:05 AM
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What you mean to say is YOU do, masculine women in general do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 01:00 AM
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Why was this thread deleted? I didn't cheat but I assume men who did were because they were bored, horny at the time or a better woman came along.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:55 AM
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It's because they see women sexualizing themselves on social media for likes/clicks/money, then assume if she's sexualizing herself, she must also be having lots of sex. Then they extrapolate that to all women. I said the average was 5-6. Some women who are hypersexual with many partners, others who have only 1 boyfriend, then others who have sex with a small handful of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:37 AM
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The average is probably not as high as you think. Around 5-6 is my guess. There will be a small number of hypersexual women with large numbers, other women with just 1 boyfriend who they stick by throughout all those years, then others in between who've had sex with a few men but nothing huge. But young women can leverage their looks on social media and real life to make money and get men to do stuff for them. That's probably what you're seeing, then you're equating that with them having sex. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 12:22 AM
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Who are the top 20% then?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 11:00 PM
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That's almost certainly a lie, otherwise they wouldn't come to PPD to make the type of posts they make.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 10:44 PM
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Watched the first 30 seconds. Yes that's correct. This is the fault of the rich who got richer at the expense of regular people. No way do people like Gates, Bezos and Musk need 100+ billion dollars. Even 1 billion is an absolutely gigantic quantity. 1,000,000,000 - that is how big 1 billion is and no human ever needs that much in their life, let alone a hundred of those. It's not just those 3 men. There's many rich oligarchs who remain anonymous worth similar amounts. Their money could be put t…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 10:29 PM
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By choice... so it's completely different haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:24 PM
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If you're asking how I observe the world - online, it's 90% black pill 10% red pill. Real life, more like 70% red pill 30% black pill. Clearly online, you are rarely getting anywhere without good looks. In real life, you have more leeway to build status and money and for people to see your social skills and how you interact with others, but looks still play a strong part. If you're asking how I observe other people living their lives, it's a mix. A lot of people preach blue pill thinking to othe…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 10:17 PM
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lmao good to know. that's why no one takes modern feminism seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 12:58 AM
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But you would still like to be treated like a woman when it benefits you?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 12:27 AM
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Why do you want to live like a man so badly?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 12:17 AM
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Well beyond lifting weights, eating right, not consuming t-lowering substances, sleeping enough and avoiding too much stress, your t levels are fixed. So if they're still low after doing everything right, not much you can do other than plead with your doctor for TRT or take steroids.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 11:43 PM
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Eating and drinking the level that is recommended for a man. It's stretching the definition of masculine a little bit, but I still see it as masculine. You're consuming things at the level a man should consume things. Stuffing your face or chugging down loads of alcohol, it's unladylike in most people's view. Tattoos and piercings, again it's open to interpretation, but if you surveyed people whether you believe a heavily tattooed woman looked masculine or feminine, majority of people would say …
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 11:36 PM
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Fair enough. Thanks that's a great explanation! Given that so few women can cook and so many of them are really messy (judging by the rooms I've seen of women, which were always a pigsty), it must mean that women never wanted to do this stuff. They were bound to it through duty/necessity. But something like having children, a majority of women still want to do that in this day and age, even though they don't have to.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 11:28 PM
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Well women want a manly man. They don't want a man who looks or acts like a woman. Norah Vincent, the woman who lived life as a man and recently killed herself, found that one out the hard way. So it's not quite as simple as defining masculinity and femininity in your own way.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 11:13 PM
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How would the mechanism for that work? Surely men are seeing women acting masculine and thinking to themselves "hmmm I need to act even more masculine than these women"?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 10:03 PM
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Interesting. That explains why it happens, but doesn't explain why, when filters are removed, women naturally default to masculine behavior. So why do you think when filters are removed, women default to this masculine type behavior? It must surely mean that women never wanted to act like women in the first place? They like being men, just with female physical parts.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 09:54 PM
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I've been banned about 4 or 5 times because I kept being told to "be civil". It's always some stupid middle aged woman in her 40's or 50's who comes to ppd just to piss men off and be an annoyance, then when I call them out for it, I'm told to "be civil" and "don't make things personal". I wonder what attracts middle aged women to a subreddit like that which debates gender and dating issues.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 09:04 PM
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This is most likely a publicity stunt for attention and to get more clicks and followers on her social media and people here take the bait.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 07:12 PM
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Damn, so many subs are censored to a ridiculous degree these days, to the point where you don't know what people are really thinking, because any views that don't agree with what the subreddit moderators deem as "appropriate" get removed. Subs like AskWomen are the same. Many subs are on a level of North Korea censorship, where only positive things can be said and critical opinions get removed or heavily downvoted. I believe the phrase is "toxic positivity" - I see it all the time on reddit and …
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 03:38 PM
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"you just don't respect women", "you don't view them as people", "you're too selfish", "you're too rude", "you feel entitled to..." Any woman who says this to you, she is 100% projecting. She is the one who views men this way. She needs to accuse you of doing these things to make her feel better about herself. In fact, women project most of their faults onto men. It's just how they are.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 05:05 AM
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It doesn't really matter whether a man is hideous or invisible to a woman, it's all the same. Women find a very small fraction of men attractive. If you don't pass that looks threshold, hideous or not, it doesn't matter. Anyway the idea that men care about looks more is laughable, when there's literally not a woman on this planet (bar some really deformed woman) who cannot get a boyfriend if she is realistic about her standards.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 12:33 AM
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It's more like a sex doll that can say a few different phrases in a weird robot voice. I suppose it's better than a fleshlight or similar toy, but not by much. And far more expensive.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 12:00 AM
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Robot women aren't quite at an advanced enough level to seem real. It will probably take another 10-20 years before they are somewhat realistic to a human, maybe longer.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:49 PM
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Ok but why do women say men care about looks when literally any woman can get laid for free whenever she wants? That's the opposite of caring about looks. Men have zero standards for women in every aspect, from looks, personality, status, money, everything. That's why you see the most fat and hideous women pushing around young children in prams out in public, because men are accepting of absolutely any woman no matter what.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:44 PM
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Why laughing? I know what happened with that, I just wanted to say it in a more diplomatic way.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 05:33 PM
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Interesting to hear what it was like back then. I began mine in August 2018. Even back then, I remember it being quite a bit different. Rollo Tomassi wasn't on youtube. Entrepreneurs in Cars youtube channel was much smaller and had a much better feel to it (didn't feel like money-grabbing/grifting). No Fresh and Fit. No "Rule Zero" where a bunch of men come on and talk about women and other topics. Other youtube channels like Alexander Grace and Darius M were either much smaller or hadn't starte…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 04:24 AM
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Red pill refers to looks in 2 areas - your style (i.e. dressing better) and your weight (i.e. lose excess fat if you have it and lift weights). The idea that men just need to dress better and lift weights in the gym and they will all have success with women is laughable. You can look in the real world and see this obviously isn't the case. There's many thousands of dudes who are in gyms around the world and they're not getting pussy. It depends on so much more than these things. It depends on yo…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 02:26 AM
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What does the black pill say about the red pill?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 01:57 AM
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Well yeah, why wouldn't you want to do what women do in this instance? Women always complain they can't do what men do. We've built a modern society around allowing women to act like men if they so choose. Btw having sex with lots of women is a male thing to do. Many men can't do it, but it's considered a male thing to do. We have this perverse situation in society where women are doing what men would like to do - sleep with lots of people of the opposite sex. Also not sure who is downvoting you…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 01:34 AM
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They can't get laid because fat men are not attractive to women like fat women are to men - that's what you should have said. Instead you made an unhelpful response which helps absolutely no one. Always strange how women say men focus on looks, when even the most hideous of women can get sex but same is not true for men.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 01:29 AM
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Yeah I know but it doesn't mean that's living like a woman. I'm sure men live like that too. Seems a bit of a weird thing to pick up from the opening post.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 09:17 PM
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It's not living like a woman, wtf.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 07:27 PM
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Well yeah but doesn't mean men can't live like that too. It just seems to get more openly discussed by women.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 06:18 PM
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That's living like a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 05:55 PM
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Interesting. You're right. But in the west, why do so many women engage in this behavior if it ruins them and makes them useless?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 05:37 PM
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Interesting how men are told to lose weight and hit the gym on purplepilldebate, then get called an incel and told that sex doesn't matter. You wouldn't ever see a woman get told that.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 05:32 PM
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I mean, for you personally, would you want to explore your own sexuality? If you were living in a different culture which allowed you to do that. Maybe with a member of One Direction? ;)
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 01:46 PM
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When I said I can't stick anything up there, I mean I literally am unable to even if I wanted to. Also it sounds like this is the kind of the thing that secretly gay/bi men would do, getting a dick up there, even though it's a plastic dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:44 PM
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Fair enough. Do you want to explore your sexuality and are you able to?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 04:49 AM
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I don't like the thought of pegging. I can't stick anything up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:21 AM
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Welcome home foreigner? With "foreigner" having negative connotations.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 04:06 AM
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Well that's unfortunate but that doesn't justify being a dick to others who did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:46 AM
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Oh right. Damn why do people have a few bad experiences with the opposite sex and then paint every member of the opposite sex with the same brush?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:28 AM
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I was speaking to a black woman on online dating and she said this to me: I’d like a connection with an ethnic male but that’s because I’m not wasting anymore time and effort on fostering a friendship/ dating / love with white men lol my experience of being used has taught me to go for what I want and what I want is to peg a white guy lol nothing else. Can anyone work out why this is what she wants? Why would she want to peg a white guy but nothing more? It seems so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:46 AM
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As soon as you understand that everything women accuse men of is just projection, that's when you can understand female behavior. In this case, women call men pussies for not dealing with rejection, because women themselves can't deal with rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 01:45 AM
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Fair enough, you might be right. Still I feel like going to see if it's worth it. But damn sex really sucks for the average male. :(
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 01:39 AM
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Really? It's a legitimate swingers club that's been going for years. The only swingers club in my city. Maybe it's a scam but it looks legit.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 12:16 AM
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Ok thanks. Although I just searched swingers clubs in my city and there's one where people are allowed to join, but they charge single men more, and it's a yearly membership.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 11:48 PM
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Fair enough. Well people compare themselves to those around them, so for incels they are in a bad situation in their own country, but obviously compared to someone in a country with war or famine, they're doing incredibly well. Also I think incels want more than just sex. They want a woman to love them and desire them. If it was just about sex, they could visit a sex worker or if that's not allowed where they live, they could travel to a place where it was allowed.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 11:25 PM
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Yeah that's true I guess.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 11:23 PM
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What happens in a kink club? Is that like a swingers club? When you say lower your standards a lot, is it full of old fat ugly women or something?
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 11:16 PM
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Fair enough. I wonder why the incel population has grown in the west in the last 10-15 years? Things sound quite good where you live.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 08:05 PM
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There certainly are. Are they at the level of female sex toys? They have wands, vibrators, rabbits and everything.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 07:49 PM
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That sounds like you need to be decent looking with good social skills.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 07:48 PM
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Hey I was just asking. Hence the question. No need to be weird about it.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 05:21 PM
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Any of them, excluding Japan and South Korea I guess because they are 1st world.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 05:10 PM
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Forget the arguments they use and the words that come out their mouth - look at who is saying these things and what their motives are. It is angry old women who are jealous that a younger woman has more than them.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 04:16 PM
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Maybe if you're a white guy visiting asian countries?
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 04:06 PM
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I agree with you. No one hates the opposite sex that much for no reason. There's always a reason for it - a bad experience, or multiple bad experiences, with the opposite sex, which has led them to think this way. I was having a conversation with a woman in the plenty of fish subreddit (plenty of fish is a dating site). I was told that I had to give bitter angry women "a chance" because "you don't know what's happened in their life". Yet when a man is bitter and angry, he's immediately labelled …
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 02:54 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. But if there are no women who will simp for you like this in your own country, it's probably best to go to a different country.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 02:39 PM
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Yeah that comment about male and female sex drive being equal is utter horseshit. But the title of the OP is correct, that men need to be good in bed and make a woman cum.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 06:37 PM
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The thing is, I don't even care what she looks like (within reason) or what age she is, as long as she shows that desire for me. That goes against everything the red pill says that men want hot young women. I have said this in the red pill subreddits before and get accused of being a troll or lying to myself.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 05:00 PM
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Because I want a woman who is really into me, that means I like to dominate them?? :o
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:44 PM
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Oh. You're the one who lives in Asia? I guess it's different there compared to the west. Makes sense how you're talking about being leftover. Those cultures view older unmarried women as leftover. Come to the west and you'll find many old unmarried women.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:40 PM
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Ok. Btw are you white, black, asian or hispanic? I find that women of different races approach these things differently.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:32 PM
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No woman is ever leftover, that's the point guys are making here. Just create a Tinder account and no matter what you look like, you'll see you aren't leftover. Men are the ones who have to worry about being leftover. Heck you could probably DM some guys on this sub and if you lived near them, you could meet them this week. That's how easy it is for women.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:25 PM
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I see. Well you can never be too sure with women. Many of them have zero clue how men work, probably because they grew up in life always being pursued by men, so they never needed to understand men. Men were the ones who needed to understand them.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:19 PM
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I see. What age is that certain age?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:17 PM
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Sorry it makes it seem like I disagree with your whole post. I agree that giving a woman really good sex is very important to her staying with you. The sex needs to be varied as well, not just the same thing all the time, and you got to make her cum, either with your dick or mouth or both. Yes that statement sounds accurate. I think I'm a weird man because I can get more hard and more turned on who shows she really wants me and has great skills, compared to a hot woman who has little enthusiasm …
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:08 PM
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Most women can only get stimulated by males who look like they're 18?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 03:10 PM
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No, you're projecting what women are looking for onto men.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 02:58 PM
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Men fall into a lame sex coma while womens stamina only increases after sex, so much so that some Asian cultures believe that women actually steal mens life force during sex… No, women get tired after orgasm too. She gets sensitive down there (just like a penis does) and wants to sleep (like many men do). If she's still up for it, that means she hasn't orgasmed properly enough.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 02:45 PM
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The wall is a revenge fantasy that red pill dudes create because they struggle to get women to even acknowledge their existence, let alone kiss them or have sex. Like other people have said, getting dates is straight forward for women. Men actually want to speak to you - that's a privilege most men don't have, because they are actively avoided by women. I dated 2 post wall women who were 20+ years older than me and they broke it off with me due to their own pickiness and expectations. They jumpe…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 02:36 PM
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You want to have your cake and eat it. You want a relationship with a really attractive man who will treat you well and never stray to other women, despite being attractive and thus in demand from other women. That's not going to happen when you're post wall. You have to lower your expectations. You can still do far better than average men in dating, even as a fat ugly post wall woman. Just don't expect prince charming to sweep you off your feet and marry you. That's clearly what you're looking …
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 02:20 PM
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Fair enough. How was she granted assisted suicide? Don't you need to have a medical reason for that?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 06:00 PM
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Why did she die? Was it because of the experience of being a man? Because that was 16 years ago.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 04:40 PM
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If only she wasn't such a misogynist and only looking for sex! Isn't that what women on purplepilldebate tell men? Which is another way of saying "I don't care about your feelings or the issues you're experiencing, but I'm going to shift the blame onto you in order to make me look good and you look bad".
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 02:09 PM
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Well feminists will never say that, but that's what they want. It's become about gaining as many advantages as possible at the expense of men.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 04:21 AM
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You want to be taken seriously, not have any expectations on how you look, while still retaining all your female privileges and expecting men to keep all their disadvantages to being men - modern feminisn in a nutshell.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 03:29 AM
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How do men opt out when they have to work for a living? I've never understood that.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/22 12:37 AM
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No it's a biological stat. Look it up - 105 boys are born for every 100 girls.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 11:28 PM
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I’m better at financing than him. He can see where the money is going if he wants. I just manage it, doesn’t mean he’s clueless. It really doesn't take more than a few brain cells to manage a bit of money. Seems kind of strange he can't do that for himself. Not respecting him? Why not? He’s doing all he can to make me happy. This makes me want to do all i can to make him happy. This is how women work. Even though they think they want a man to do everything to make them happy, when it actually ha…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 07:14 PM
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Nah it's called a woman who is attracted to you. Sounds like you've never had that in your life. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:16 PM
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It opens the door up to being used. Giving you access to all his money so you can spend it how you want is insane. You have complete control over all his finances to do whatever you want with them. The dude sounds so naive. Women also don't respect men who go to great lengths to please them. As much as women say they want a man to do this, when a man actually does this in reality, she loses all respect for him. And finally, sexual attraction doesn't work that way. You cannot negotiate sexual att…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 02:58 PM
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You spectacularly missed the point. The honesty is not the problem, it's the fact that if a dude said this on their profile, it would be an automatic swipe left by women. Many men are still prepared to give a woman with mental issues who has an attitude a chance of a meetup. Women are actually the ones who are judgemental, not men. Women just project their own bad behavior onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:34 AM
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If you think all men on dating apps are like this, why are you on a dating app? Delete the app and don't use it ever again if you believe all men are predators and just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:32 AM
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That's sad. I don't understand why women cry that men just want a quick lay off a dating app. If they believe all men on dating apps want that, and those women don't want that, why are those women on the dating app in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:29 AM
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She's not listed her height on her profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:27 AM
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Interesting how that's your first thought. Not that any of them want to genuinely meet for a date. Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 04:11 AM
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I've met up with women after less than 10 text messages. I also created a catfish account with a hot man and plenty of women made it very clear they wanted to meet him in just the first message. Anyway I've reported you for trolling. You're obviously posting this as troll bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:45 AM
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I just saw this written on an online dating profile from a woman: I have a borderline personality disorder and I’m autistic I never write that on profiles because I was afraid it would put men off but I’m not afraid anymore I will not be defined by my mental health or my disability there is so much more too me if your judgemental or ignorant don’t bother contacting me cause I will never reply I’m only here too chat. I’m not here for a hook up of any kind. I’m In. A dark place right now so I’m on…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:24 AM
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Easily, my most controversial opinion is that there are too many men in the world, and that having a relatively 1:1 ratio of women to men is detrimental. And I'm saying this as a man... It's actually worse than that. 105 men are born for every 100 women. People always say "well men have higher rates of mortality in their younger years" but how? We have advanced medical care and relatively few wars, so how can 5% of men die off before they reach adulthood? It's impossible. Unless I'm missing some…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:03 AM
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And I fall more on the female side as a male, is that what you're saying? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:59 PM
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Red Pill youtubers? Yeah sort of. I agree with their general assessment of women, even though they take it to extremes a lot, by analysing TikTok videos of highly emotional, mentally unstable women and then painting the entirety of the female population with that same brush. They tell men to spin plates and never marry and have sex with hot young women all the time, but these red pill youtubers are either miserable MGTOWs who find it hard to find meaning in life and have mid-life crises, or they…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/22 03:22 PM
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Fair enough. What are we all doing here on reddit then? :P
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/22 03:07 PM
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I must have more of a female sex drive because I get turned on by being hot to a woman and being desired by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:14 AM
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I'm pretty sure she's married. She's definitely with a man twice her age, or more than twice her age. What people need to understand is these red pill youtubers almost never practice what they preach. These red pill beliefs are what I like to call "luxury beliefs". This explains what luxury beliefs are: https://medium.com/@austinjcerny/what-are-luxury-beliefs-6088f8a16197 What these red pill youtubers are doing is screwing over their audience by telling them to live a certain way, while they liv…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 10:32 PM
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I don't follow any of them anymore. Rich Cooper used to be good a few years ago, until he became all about money-grabbing, recycling old content for clicks, creating BS supplements. Rollo Tomassi was ok to listen to for a bit, but his youtube live streams are him rambling on and on for 3 hours or more and after a while, it was repetitive and boring to listen to. I watched some of Fresh and Fit, but every episode is the same, inviting some really dumb, thick women on from Instagram so they can "d…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 03:08 PM
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I find that the debate is so heavily censored on purplepilldebate and a lot of other subreddits, it may as well not be debate, because you don't know what people are really thinking. I remember there used to be a lot more free speech on the internet years ago. This wasn't on reddit, but I was on other discussion forums years ago that allowed you to discuss issues of race, it was ok to make sexual comments as long as they weren't too explicit, it was ok to banter with women and say comments like …
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 02:53 PM
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The woman in the video is a 27 year old married to a man twice her age, who tries to make a living by posting triggering videos to women who don't agree with her way of life. She's equivalent to a red pill grifter like Rich Cooper and Fresh and Fit who only want your money.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 01:31 AM
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I thought I was the only one lol. No idea what she's saying.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 01:26 AM
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But why is it both of their problems? Is it so difficult to admit that the woman is entirely in the wrong here? She's the one acting like a child and not cleaning up after herself. If it was the man doing this, the blame would be squarely put on him. When she's doing it, suddenly it's "both" their problems and the man is equally to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:30 PM
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Yes, we should call them fucking losers because that's what they are. Too many people are afraid to hurt people's feelings, but people need to call it as they see it. That way these men might change their behavior and women's entitlement might go down. No one should be able to earn thousands of dollars just to hang around someone and pretend to like them for a bit, what a joke.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 02:22 AM
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I think men should figure out what they really want, and ask for it nicely. "Ask nicely" wtf since when did that ever work? "Hi please can I have sex with you?".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:50 AM
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I personally could never do that. Each to their own, but this is why women have such high standards, when you've got sad dudes like this paying a fortune just to pay someone to pretend to like him.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 01:48 AM
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Incredibly sad thing to do, and yes I am judging. Spending thousands to get someone to pretend to like you. Even if I was worth a billion dollars, I would never want to give that sort of money (or indeed any money at all) to some ungrateful woman. I think he's kidding himself when he said "I really did enjoy every second I spent with her". He has to tell himself that otherwise he'd fall into deep depression, on top of the depression he's already got of being alone.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 12:50 AM
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Reddit is a bit different because it's an anonymous messaging board. I'm talking about somewhere where you can show photos of yourself like Instagram. Most people view reddit as a place where weirdos congregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:41 AM
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Yeah I don't like social media either but it seems like the vast majority of women use it and judge you by it so you kind of have to :/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:02 PM
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You have misconception about black pilled men. Black pilled men are ones who tried the red pill and it didn't work for them. The red pill already states that it's for roughly average men. It's not for men who are in the bottom percentiles, such as men who are very short, have high functioning autism, a very ugly face and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:49 PM
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Why does "he" have bigger issues? Is it too difficult for you to admit that the woman is in the wrong here? You would say the man is in the wrong if the genders are reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:44 PM
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Wow that's ridiculous. People these days have become so vapid and stupid, just chasing some internet likes and numbers on a screen to validate their existence. Fresh and Fit is hilarious because you will have hundreds of guys in the chat insulting women, saying how awful they are, then they will go and follow those women on social media and simp for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:39 PM
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Cool thanks! Do you suggest men should have their social media pages public or private? If they're public, surely an employer can search for you and maybe reject you or fire you for a job because you posted some topless pics online?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:51 PM
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Do you think you should have your social media pages public or private? Someone made the point about employers googling your name and seeing your instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:23 PM
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Well it has nothing to do with your gym work then! You changed your behavior and also you're tall.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 01:20 PM
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Damn I never thought about that! That's a legitimate concern. It's sad if an employer does that though. They've decided you've got the skills for the job, they like you in the interview, they're about to give you the job, then they google your name and see that you posted some shirtless pics of you working out on your instagram page... they don't like that so they reject you. Pretty dickish move. But surely you can mitigate that a bit by not using your real life name?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:16 PM
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I think you're lying to yourself. I would. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:22 AM
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The majority of MGTOWs never did that. That was BigTech propoganda used as a pretense to ban the subreddit as BigTech often does in order to remove male spaces from the internet. Did some of the sub do it? Sure. But it was only a minority, no where near enough to justify your characterization. But that's just the elites getting us to fight eachother as they always do. You could be right. That minority sure was very vocal about it then, because about 90% of the threads were bashing women whenever…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:02 AM
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But you would have sex if any of them offered ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:57 AM
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2 weeks into working out? hahaha you can barely build any muscle in 2 weeks. You're a very obvious troll. You didn't hide it very well.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/22 02:56 AM
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That's all well and good, but we are designed as a species to seek out sexual and romantic connections of some kind, so all you're doing is deluding yourself into thinking you can turn off that desire within you. The fact that most MGTOWs were bitter and constantly shit-posting about women, until that sub got banned, pretty much says it all. As hard as they tried to forget about women, they just couldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:49 AM
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But isn't the red pill all about accepting the reality we are in and adapting to it? And that reality is all about social media these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:32 AM
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Actually, women's biggest concern with sex is "can the man get hard for me" and "can the man cum". Women lose their mind if you can't get hard for them and also if you can't cum. They get really insecure, thinking they're not attractive and there's something wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:57 AM
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Well what I'm saying is that we're used to porn asses and ones that are photoshopped on Instagram, would these asses be average ones that most women have? Not photoshopped or surgically enhanced or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:54 PM
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No I'm not being sarcastic, I was just curious about the part where you talked about promoting your body on social media. I will create a separate thread asking about that instead.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 10:53 PM
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Interesting. So you're saying I need to set up some social media pages, take lots of pics of my body, lots of progress pics, videos of me lifting, and hope some women take notice? Does that actually work? Because I don't take steroids, so my body looks somewhat decent but far from amazing, even though I'm stronger than most dudes in my gym. Anything else I need to do?
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 10:33 PM
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Do these look like typical butts that you would see on the average woman in western society? NSFW image: https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/61853525bd2d3.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:24 PM
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I agree with you if you hang around these pill subreddits for too long, it fucks with your mind and makes you nihilistic, defeatist, bitter and completely untrusting towards everyone, especially the opposite sex. People label is as "the truth" you are just coming to find "the truth" which is true to an extent, but it's actually counterproductive to wallow in harsh truths for more than a short amount of time.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 03:17 PM
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Anyone who has demonstrated the appropriate skills for a job should be hired, regardless of gender. That will probably mean a lot of jobs that require physical strength are off limits to women, because men are stronger than women.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 01:04 PM
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It does go both ways, but the difference is that one of them is celebrated and encouraged while the other is ridiculed and censored.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:54 AM
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Any woman can sleep with many men, it means absolutely nothing about their desirability.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:47 AM
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it's not going through because you've used a bunch of words that will trigger the filters and make them review it. feminists, mgtow, black pill. put spaces between the letters in those words. although they might notice that, because i'm guessing it would have been reviewed by a moderator there already and rejected.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:15 AM
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it's like that in a lot of subs. these places are overrun by silly rules that censor far too much. i've noticed the more female dominated a sub is, the more rules that are there. somehow they need a lot of rules to protect women it seems.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:14 AM
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A woman could say the equivalent thing about men and no one would bat an eyelid. They'd probably even be congratulated and celebrated for having standards and "knowing their worth".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:08 AM
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An incel is someone who wants sex with anyone of the opposite sex, but can't get it (for whatever reason) without paying directly for it. Yes you can start stretching the definition and say "well what if this, what if that" but I think it's quite clear what an incel is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 03:59 AM
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Well you can always get to know me and we can do it haha :P Why the need to know them first? Men can do women they never even spoke to before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:53 AM
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usually it's certain words which get the post flagged. words like "incel" get the post flagged for approval by a moderator. i dont like the way so much of the debate gets censored and watered down on that subreddit. far too many silly rules.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:52 AM
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She has many options, she just doesn't believe they are good enough for her. Women are almost always single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:34 PM
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You're again an exception and for some reason, exceptions love to make themselves known. The majority of people aren't like you. They come here to impose their views onto others without ever changing their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:01 PM
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No one starts out as a misogynist or misandrist. It develops after repeated bad experiences with the opposite sex. A bit like those women who cry all men are trash. Anyone who is blamed as a misogynist for their dating problems, they would never be successful even if they weren't a misogynist. It's irrelevant. They were unsuccessful for other reasons (eg. autism, ugly, short) and then developed misogyny after that.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 02:36 PM
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Why were previous inceltear subs banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:32 PM
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No one actually changes their perspective here though, lets be honest. They are here to impose their view onto others. I've never seen a woman here say "yes you are right, I now see that from the male perspective and I understand where you're coming from". Never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:16 PM
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It shouldn't do. Previous inceltear subs were banned - why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:11 PM
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Because they lived in a different era and things are vastly different now. People who give advice from dating in the 90's is like people from 2022 advising people in the stone age how technology works. It's 2 completely different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:40 PM
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No because the young men here want young women, but the old women here are advising them on the basis of what old women want. Also all the gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:34 PM
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Strange how I observe it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:33 PM
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Ok. Do you know how I can report a subreddit? If previous inceltears subs got removed, this one surely should be removed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:31 PM
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Why did you jump from one extreme to the other? I never said I wanted an echo chamber, but it's also useless to have 2 completely different groups who want 2 completely different things in life, giving advice to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:28 PM
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Oh ok. Do you know the reason why it was removed in the past and why it hasn't been removed now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:40 PM
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I can't comment on separate posts, but all I'm saying is the sub in general is spreading unnecessary hate against a particular group. Just doesn't seem right that subreddits like that should exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:39 PM
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Ahh so if even dumpster level women charge for sex, men can't just dumpster dive and find women. Well if they hand over their cash, yeah sure, but any man with a spare bit of cash can do that and it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:32 PM
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That's how many people live their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:31 PM
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On what grounds would you say a subreddit can be removed from reddit? I just looked at r/inceltear and as far as I can see, it's a toxic environment that is shitting on those who are struggling and less fortunate. I'm not sure if that's sufficient grounds for it to be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:29 PM
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You don't have to look in a female office. There are female spaces online that showcase these things. Look at sex worker forums and you can see the way women view men. Or look at femaledatingstrategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:27 PM
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is there any way to get a subreddit banned? not this one obviously but r/inceltear basically its just shitting on people who are struggling and in less fortunate situations than themselves. not sure if that qualifies as grounds for getting it banned, but it looks like a horribly toxic environment.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 12:18 PM
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Good for you but you're the first married man I came across here. All the top female posters here are old women, possibly married or separated. The dudes here are predominantly 20's, maybe early 30's. So the dynamic of the sub is old women debating and giving advice to young men. 2 different ages, 2 different sexes, 2 different groups at vastly different stages of their life looking for different things in life. No wonder everyone disagrees here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:10 PM
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Well you just said you wanted to separate love from sex and do what men are allowed to do. Not sure how else you're going to do it - shrugs-
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:05 PM
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For a large percentage of men, they can't dumpster dive because even those in the dumpster don't want them. The idea that all men can drop lower and lower to find someone for sex is nonsense - that is female thinking, because females can do that and it will actually work. I just looked at a local escort website in my area and even dumpster level women are charging for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:02 PM
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Incels don't have standards either, they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 12:00 PM
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Strange how all women go through these experiences with the good looking players early in their life, then settle for the less attractive more "boring" and "stable" men later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:58 AM
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That's what women do. I swear women just project what they do onto men. Everything they accuse men of doing is just projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:53 AM
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So what's the point here exactly? You had sex with lots of people, now you don't because you're bored of it and afraid of STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:48 AM
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Why are ugly men not seen as men? They're men just like all other men, just born with bad genetics in terms of looks. I never mentioned anything about myself so don't bring that into it. Stick to the subject please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:46 AM
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That opinion is there, yes, but it's never been easier for women to have as much sex as they want without people knowing. Just use Tinder. If you really want it, you can do it. Men get angry over it because they're the ones who aren't getting any pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:09 AM
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Oh right. Must be one of those FDS women who blurt out the truth about what women really think. I wonder why every woman on here doesn't say the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:01 AM
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The best thing is to jump from relationship to relationship, like what many women do. Serial monogamy. You get the best of both worlds - great sex with someone who cares for you, but you don't get stuck with one person for life. This might be difficult from a practical standpoint though. Not sure if you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:58 AM
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I just had an argument with a woman on here who said that men can get sex easily. After a bit of back and forth, she said that it's because she doesn't consider ugly men as men, therefore only attractive men count. Is this a troll or do people really think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:54 AM
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You don't consider ugly men as men. Just attractive men. Therefore in your mind all men get sex. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA, never heard such crap in my life. God this subreddit is full of morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:49 AM
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That's because women have a natural in-built disgust mechanism for casual sex and that's difficult to overcome for many of them. The ones who can overcome it are already having casual sex, no one stops them. So yeah, that's all down to you. Men are here waiting for you to have casual sex with them when you're ready! :D Look at the women on this sub - even they say they personally don't want casual sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:14 AM
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But your original point was that it's easy for men to get sex. Clearly you've just proven that's wrong. Glad we agree. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:10 AM
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Finally someone else sees what I see! You're right, I don't see them admitting to that. If a married person is consistently coming to this subreddit to argue and post bitter angry comments to complete strangers, how happy can they really be in their marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:36 AM
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You're not seeing the 80-90% of men who find getting sex difficult. 30% are sexless in the last year. Women would lose their minds if they didn't have sex for that long! I saw a program the other day about a woman who said she didn't have sex for 1 month and developed intense feelings of loneliness and went out to buy a sex doll to cure that loneliness lol. That's just 1 month. Imagine 1 year, 5 years, 10 years. This is the dry spell a significant portion of men go through. Not that you care, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:21 AM
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I never said they weren't. Can't tell if you're intentionally missing the point I'm making or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:58 AM
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I wasn't referring to her personally but the married women here in general - I'm saying that if marriage is such a great thing, why do married women come here to argue and post the bitter comments that I often see? It makes no sense if marriage is such a great thing that's supposed to make you really happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:43 AM
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I know it isn't, but many of them come here. I'm not threatened. You're not reading or understanding my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:33 AM
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So it's not easy for men to get sex. It's easy for attractive men to get sex. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:15 AM
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I'm fine. I'm just curious why, if so many women here claim to be married and marriage is supposed to be a happy time, why they have to come here to argue and generally be a nuisance to young men who are struggling? Instead of enjoying their happy marriage. It's one of those cases of look at what they do, not what they say. So many people have contradictory actions and words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:12 AM
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Yeah nor am I. I also found it didn't help me.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 01:00 AM
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Sigh, no point debating. you cannot see things from a male point of view. Your last sentence pretty much sums up how clueless you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 11:00 PM
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Yeah technically it's a debate forum, but I've seen the comments here from women and most of them are either gaslighting saying that things like sex doesn't matter (when it obviously does) and just generally being a dick to young men who are clearly struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:58 PM
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It's called making the best of the situation you've got. It's either that or men die alone. Most men would prefer to take the bad woman than die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:41 PM
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It's easy for certain attractive men to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:39 PM
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Old relative to the men here. You realize that the men on this sub are mostly in their 20's, right? I've heard the "entertainment" argument but why this place of all places? You could pick any number of places to get entertainment from, but you happen to choose a corner of the internet where men are asking for advice on dating struggles. Seems a bit dickish to get entertainment out of other peoples struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:38 PM
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What do women want to experience that they're not allowed to currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:30 PM
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Seems kind of strange that so many old married women come to this subreddit then, don't you think? If marriage was such a joyful thing, I would have thought coming to this subreddit to post bitter comments, which is what I see many of them doing, is the last thing you would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:17 PM
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Any man can overpower you. In that case, you shouldn't be having casual sex at all. Why have casual sex at all in that case? You've already decided that contraceptives can fail and all men won't stick around in the event of a pregnancy. Any man who wanted to do this would come off as friendly and charming as possible to deceive you.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 03:17 PM
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I know that, but we all know women don't mean that. They believe they are entitled to what they want and deserve to get it, while men must meet their standards. Meanwhile they don't believe men are entitled to have any standards for women. We even have this fucking joke movement called "body positivity" which means "fat women must be accepted and loved for who they are". Fat men... no, just fat women. Fat men must go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 01:30 AM
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Why can't women just be on their own instead? I thought they were "strong and independent" and "don't need no man".
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:25 PM
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Like someone else said, it was already like this with women sharing Chads. It's just getting worse and more and more open and accepted now. That's why I asked about visiting different countries. At least you can go and live this kind of life as a man in other countries, if you can't get it in western countries.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 10:00 PM
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Not sure how you drew that conclusion from my post, but ok.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 08:30 PM
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Why can't she admit that?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 07:55 PM
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I don't think you understand what I'm saying. With birth control and abortions, you never need to have a child, regardless of if you have sex with Chad or Joe Average. I'm not talking about actually having a child. Although if you went ahead and had a child, your risk of dying would be equal, regardless of if you had sex with Chad or Joe Average.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 06:34 PM
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Wait, how did you find this sub? I saw you on purplepilldebate.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 03:47 PM
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I just find the idea of a woman wanting my sperm so much really hot! :p But I don't want a kid so it's not a good idea.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 02:12 PM
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Oh :( How can I experience lots of women in asia then? Use condoms?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 01:52 PM
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Do you have to pay child support in asia or would they be fine with getting impregnated and then you leave? :p
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 01:42 PM
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Very few people have careers, they have jobs. Not many people like their jobs. Ideally we'd all love to be in a career we really enjoy, but reality doesn't work like that for most people. So they need things like love and sex to get them through life. Meditating did jack sh*t for me personally, I see it recommended on the red pill but I tried it a few times and didn't feel anything. Hitting the gym never gave me the confidence boost that everyone talks about.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 12:44 PM
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It's slightly complicated. You're right that JUST sex is not going to do much. If I went out and visited an escort to have sex for 1 hour, that won't solve any problems and might just make you feel even more like sh*t, especially if you could tell she was faking her enjoyment, which I hear most escorts do. But if you're actually desired and wanted, that's a different story. That will increase your testosterone, increase your confidence and feed into other aspects of your life. If you need to be …
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 11:52 AM
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You have to travel abroad for it though. Women of color in the west are just as picky as any other woman.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 11:51 AM
2

White men and Indian women get arranged marriages?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 03:32 AM
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No it's fine. You can't help who you're attracted to. :) Makes me want to impregnate some asian women. Then again, it would be difficult to be a father to all of them at once.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 03:25 AM
1

Why do you and other women of your ethnicity like white men?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 02:29 AM
2

Ok thanks. What about South America or Africa? South East Asia always gets suggested but never these other continents.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 12:50 AM
2

Ok. Assuming you're white, what are the best countries to go to?
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 12:24 AM
1

The men in the red pill sub will larp as some 6'3 Chad who worked out for just 1 year and now gets stares and giggles from girls everywhere he goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:59 PM
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Yeah. It's still strange how they can't even be honest on an anonymous internet message board. There's no repercussions to them being honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:17 PM
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Probably. I'm just confused how waiting for sex = showing you like him and respect him more? It's actually the opposite. Men will think you don't like them and don't respect them if you do that.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 05:58 PM
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Because this sub would be so much more productive if women told the truth. They are on an anonymous internet forum, so there's no fear for their safety if a man doesn't like what she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 05:57 PM
1

But those hot guys wouldn't even need to lift, because they are hot anyway? Makes you wonder why any guy lifts at all, unless it's specifically for a sport or competition.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 05:52 PM
1

What is it whispering?
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 04:29 PM
2

Fair enough. I'm waiting for some women to admit to that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:29 PM
2

All three of them, but technology has really ruined things in recent years for the average man and put massive amounts of power in female hands. Now we have a situation where women are monetizing male thirst like never before, by getting income for clicks on their social media pages from desperate lonely guys and many of them getting into sex work. Even if lots of women don't make much money from this, the fact the option is there and so many try to get into it, just shows how women view men in …
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 04:12 PM
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Why can't women have sex early with the second guy AND do things with him which show she likes him more than that? That's what I never understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 03:53 PM
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What life risking pregnancy? We have birth control and abortions.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 03:47 PM
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Why can't she have sex early with the second guy AND do other things which show that she likes him more than that? That's what I've never understood.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 03:46 PM
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I asked the question first and you're avoiding it. I'm done with you. Middle aged women come on this sub just to be a dick to people and to young men who can't get laid. So sad to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 01:15 AM
1

I would never trust someone else with my finances. That would be mad! Letting someone else have control of my money so they can spend it how they want, you've got to be kidding! Why are most people saying they give their wife full access to their money? That's not very red pill. That's about as blue pill as you can get.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 12:21 AM
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No. How old are you? I'm guessing 40's or older. What brings you to a subreddit that has men in their 20's complaining about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:41 PM
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Exactly! Can't believe it took so many replies for someone to finally get it! The old women here are too busy trying to disagree with any man they see on here, just because they are bitter and don't like men. You're right, these affirmations just signal you are soft and mentally weak and have no self esteem. It's also a bit of delusion saying things like "I am worthy of love" especially when women here say that men are not entitled to sex, by logic that means women are not entitled to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 09:29 PM
1

I already said in a previous post that we all need some validation, but not with childish quotes like these. Anyway how old are you? Guessing 40's or 50's. It's so strange how old women just come to this sub to tell men that sex is not important and they shouldn't need it. I don't understand why the female userbase here skews towards older women who come here just to say stuff like that to young men, knowing full well that these women got sex easily in their youth and young men are at their horn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:40 PM
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Why do the old women on this sub always shame men for wanting sex and say sex isn't important? Just because the old women here got it when they were younger, now they're bitter that men want it too. Very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:13 PM
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Oh, I train for aesthetics. I don't think I've ever seen anyone train like a powerlifter in my gym. It's filled with people putting on muscle to look good in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:09 PM
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Well they're complaining because they get zero validation at all. They go around life as invisible people and people avoid them because women believe all males are predators and can't be trusted (just read stories about women who transitioned to become men if you don't believe me https://www.reddit.com/r/Damnthatsinteresting/comments/tvt6t7/trans_man_discusses_how_once_he_transitioned_he/ ). I believe we all need some validation, but not excessive amounts and not these silly patronising quotes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:02 PM
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I know I don't. Just making an observation. There you go again with the snarky comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:57 PM
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I stare around me, usually at either the females in tight clothes (in before "you're a creep" yeah I don't mean actually stare, I just mean take a quick glance of their butt or something while they're facing away) or at the males and see how much they're lifting compared to me. If you're almost puking and gasping for air, sounds like you're going too hard. Maybe not good for your body in the long run. Try breathing more during the lift and don't constantly go to failure on all your sets. Researc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:55 PM
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Fair enough. Although as I get older, I'll probably not be around young women so often and I'll want to appeal to older women. What do older women like? Mid 30's to mid 50's sort of age. Do they like bulkier physiques? Yes red pillers love to say that women that age are past it and "why would you want to fuck old women?" But realistically when you're that age yourself, that will be the age of women you will attract.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 05:50 PM
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I know I bitch a lot about purplepilldebate here, but does anyone find there are a lot of old married (or maybe divorced) women on that sub who just come to post snarky, unhelpful comments all the time? There are female several users on there who I see regularly who never make a useful contribution, they're just there to post something smug and generally unhelpful. I hope this subreddit doesn't become like that.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 05:45 PM
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Really, what like?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:39 PM
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Yes. Do you just come here to make snarky comments? Seen your username a lot around here and don't think I've seen you make a useful contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:36 PM
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I know what vibes are obviously. "I only want positive vibes" = "I don't want anyone to criticize me, I only want people who say how awesome I am all the time". Also in dating "I'm looking for a guy I can vibe with" = "I'm looking for a tall, handsome man who I can have a good time with in the bedroom".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:30 PM
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Sigh, another person in PPD who takes everything completely literally. I can't call you autistic because I get warned for that. But the constant need for validation shows you still have the mindset of a child who needs constant approval from people. It's pathetic. I don't see men needing these quotes, they just get on with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:26 PM
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Yeah it seems that way. I guess we live in an individualistic, selfish society where people have this passive aggressive attitude and completely ignore you. So you need to provide yourself with some sort of motivation to get through life and these quotes are the way they do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:21 PM
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I look around the gym in between my sets. There is always this misconception that if you're somehow looking on your phone or looking at other people's workouts, you must somehow not be putting in enough effort into your own workout. You can lift heavy, then in your rest period you can do this stuff. I read their whiteboard and see these silly quotes that are written.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:19 PM
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Where did I say I go to these classes? I am lifting my weights, but there's a part of my gym where they do the classes which is near where I do my weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:17 PM
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What is "vibes"? Is that some gay word that people who grew up in the tiktok generation use?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:42 PM
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If you need constant validation like that, you will never be able to function as a proper adult. This is the stuff you say to encourage a 5 year old perhaps, not a grown adult. It's cringeworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:41 PM
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Why do women always need those silly "affirmation quotes"? (not entirely sure what they're called). I see it all over social media. Things like "you are special just the way you are" "you are unique and able to achieve your goals" "just a reminder that you are awesome, don't forget that". I see it at my gym too, with the exercise classes that are run by female personal trainers. The female personal trainer will write some silly quote on the whiteboard to make the women doing the exercise class f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 02:28 PM
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Thanks for sharing your experience! I would love a workout buddy. I tried getting one once but I always felt like I had to alter my schedule just to suit him and like he didn't really want to work out with me. So I just do it on my own. I had a very similar experience to you with the rest of it. I am questioning myself why I'm going at the moment because it's not helping any other aspect of my life.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 01:35 PM
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What about those paintings from Victorian times where the women are naked and have hair on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:22 AM
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What is the reason that body hair is seen as unattractive on women? In places like their armpits, arms, legs, ass, stomach. The "hairy is unhygienic" myth has been dispelled years ago so it can't be that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:14 AM
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I like your analysis. I particularly like the analysis about women. Women have this entitlement and you can quite clearly see it when they say "everyone is entitled to their standards" (everyone meaning women), then they also say men are not entitled to anything. There are clearly a lot of bitter women on here too, you're right. It makes me wonder why these bitter women don't get with the men here. It would make logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:44 AM
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Yes it does seem that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:33 AM
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You can be bad at a lot of things in life, and even have physical defects that can be cured (eg. bad vision with glasses), but when it comes to social skills, you pretty much have to be good at them otherwise your life will be immensely difficult and low quality. It's quite depressing and something which a lot of people are ignorant and don't understand, because they were always comfortable around people and love socialising.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 10:43 PM
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Yes exactly, I agree. If physical strength no longer seems to be important in our environment, what qualities do you think help a contemporary man to have a satisfying life? In terms of women? I notice the men who do well with women are tall, decent looking face, great social skills, able to have fun (not really intense or serious all the time). As far as muscles go, good visible abs are all that's needed. You can be muscular all you want, but it seems that women don't give a crap unless you hav…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 07:19 PM
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The stuff that men say is mainly just counteracting the high standards of women. They think that by saying these ridiculous things ("women hit the wall at 30", "women hit the wall at 25" etc.) it will get women to lower their standards. It's fighting fire with fire, if you see what I mean. But look at men's actions - if you watch porn or see the different onlyfans models, you'll see men's tastes are massively varied. Even fat old ugly grannies are sexually desired by men. Every type of woman is …
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 05:06 PM
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Which stage are we at currently and how far away are we from the final stage?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:16 PM
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Ouch! So the men are here to vent their frustrations and the women are here to belittle and mock them and feel superior. That doesn't sound very good. But thanks! Good to hear some opinions on why people are debating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:15 PM
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What is the point in debating things that aren't going to change? The idea of debate is you want things to change. That's why we debate things like politics, climate change, cost of living, war, religion. If there are no solutions to these problems, it's a waste of time to debate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:11 PM
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Many people here appear to take it dead seriously. I rarely see any actual trolling. I've tried trolling myself and it gets removed pretty quickly, so clearly people want to report others for trolling and want this place to be about serious debate. Now you're saying it's all a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:38 PM
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You're what these red pill guys always wanted - a virgin. I always differed from red pill opinion on this. If you want just sex (not relationship or marriage), it's better to have sex with a woman who knows what she's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:18 PM
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Yeah. Sex without a condom is better! Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:12 PM
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I already do or don't do these things. The first one is difficult without a woman haha! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:02 PM
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Do you advocate men should pay sex workers for sex instead of debating and worrying about all this dating stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:00 PM
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Nice. You're an extremely rare species around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:54 PM
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Fair enough. I was just pointing out that you said "TRP is the solution" and then you don't follow TRP's advice of using a condom for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:50 PM
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From what I have gathered, the problems that women here say about men: - no clue about how to please a woman in bed - lazy, porn sick, always play video games - can't be fat, can't be obese, although they've never specifically said they like muscles so just being not fat is enough for them - can't expect a mommy bangmaid Maybe I missed some other stuff. Caveat - this stuff is heavily biased towards opinions of old women because this sub barely has any young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:47 PM
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You don't follow the red pill properly then, because they always recommend using a condom with sex, otherwise the woman can get pregnant and put you on child support for the next 18 years. Did you read that part of the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:42 PM
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I see. Well I'm not from "the hood", I have no clue about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:40 PM
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I see. There must be an end goal to all this debate? Or do you just get a kick out of trying to impose your view onto others and tell others they are wrong? I always thought there should be some sort of end goal or solution to these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:35 PM
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I know using the english language to write sentences to mean what you want them to mean is a bit difficult, so I'll elaborate further if you need me to: "Nothing is ever fair, especially in correlation to attraction and dating." You just said right at the beginning NOTHING is fair. EVERYTHING in your mind is unfair. EVERYTHING results in a situation where one person wins, the other loses. That's just factually incorrect, even in dating. A relationship is compromise. Each person gains some things…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:31 PM
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Why are they stuck debating and complaining here then? You can read the sidebar material on the red pill in a couple of days, then off you go into the real world to do all your self improving and gaming women for sex. Or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:26 PM
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Yes it's interesting. The demographic of this sub is primarily men in their 20's/early 30's and old married women. The men are talking about young women in their early 20's, who don't exist on this sub. It's a bit of a weird dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:23 PM
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I think we're perhaps discussing 2 different things. I thought you were talking about legislating against casual sex or making it socially unacceptable. Which I can't see ever happening because you're taking away people's freedoms to do what they want with their own life - that would be regressive and a form of control. You are actually discussing the mechanism behind sex and pair bonding. Specifically female bonding because that's not how it works in men. Men are designed to feel somewhat disgu…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:02 PM
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No, life does not work like that. Countries trade with each other and both mutually benefit. It is not always a zero sum game where someone has to benefit and someone has to lose. There are scenarios where both can benefit, even scenarios where both can lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:46 AM
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Assuming a bell curve, that means there is a 50% incel rate at a minimum. Women get into relationships with men they find disgusting, their skin crawls at even the thought of having sex with them. With women's financial independence and freedom, women still get into relationships with these men for some unknown reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:42 AM
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Oh right, there's no solution then according to you and others. Why are we discussing this? What a fucking pointless thing to be discussing any of this stuff if it can't be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:39 AM
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Well it was mainly advancements in birth control + breakdown of religion as science has explained the origins of life + a move towards a more liberal society where people believe they should be able to do what they want, as long as it doesn't harm others. Yeah you don't have to act on that desire, but it seems like most people do, because they are animals who can't control their desire to have sex and feel like they are missing out by not having it.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 04:25 AM
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Online dating is 75% men, 25% women, so it's already rigged against men. Anyway see my post further down the page for a real solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:20 AM
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The best sexual setup is realizing that there is no risk of pregnancy for women in a world where we have birth control and abortions. So they can have sex with any average man they want, without getting pregnant. The men can learn how to please a woman through a mixture of learning online + asking the woman what she likes. This satisfies men because they get sex and it satisfies women because men are good at pleasuring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:14 AM
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Why? It doesn't have to. Both can mutually benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:11 AM
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It's a bit like those MGTOWs - they didn't go their own way, they were forced to go their own way. It's like someone who is about to get fired saying "I quit". It doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:07 AM
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I don't see how hookup culture can stop. The natural course of events over history is for humans to gain more freedom and rights. With that comes the right to have as much sex with whoever you want, in whatever context you want (as long as the other person agrees to it). The genie is out of the bottle and by preventing casual sex, you'd basically be regressing people's rights and liberties. You would face huge resistance, largely from women. The only way I can see it stopping is some sort of gov…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 03:52 AM
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Yeah but if you're improving and no one notices or cares even a little bit, it does make you lose motivation somewhat. There's only so much you can do "for yourself". I don't need lots of external motivation. A little bit can go a long way. That's why sports teams do better when playing at home, because they have the home crowd as their external motivator.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 01:46 AM
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A lot of tall handsome men can still be quite beta and blue pill. I see it myself in the real world. This can turn off a lot of women after a while. It also makes me wonder if many women these days actually get bored with one specific Chad and would rather try out multiple different Chads. Do you think that's a possibility?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 11:48 PM
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The youtubers are largely in it for the money. When I see gullible fools sending in $200 superchats to fresh and fit streams, I feel like getting into this business myself. There's a lot of money to be made off male sexual frustration.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 11:29 PM
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I see. Well sounds good either way!
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 11:24 PM
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People who say they lift for themselves probably jack off to themselves in the mirror. I admit I kind of do this. Well not jack off specifically to myself, I have porn on as well lol. If women aren't going to appreciate my body, I'm the one who will have to appreciate it. I wouldn't have to do it if other people appreciated my body. Aren't we always told that if you can't love yourself, no one else is going to love you? So that's what I have to do. It's the only way I can find the motivation to …
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 10:46 PM
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2-3 per week, wow. I guess it worked if those are not prostitutes and you're not lying. That's a lot of sex with lots of women.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 10:25 PM
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Fair enough. I'm stronger than most dudes I see in the gym but I look worse. I'm already 13-14% body fat according to several online calculators. This one puts me at 12%: https://www.bizcalcs.com/body-fat-navy/ I already train in appropriate hypertrophy ranges. So not sure what I can do to change that. Can it be changed or do I just have shit genetics?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 10:24 PM
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"You're not entitled to sex you stupid incel! No one owes you anything!" "We want what we want, that will never change, you must meet our standards!!!" See the double standards there? You believe you're entitled to something just for existing, but you're telling others they are not entitled to anything.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:12 PM
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What is at risk? You have birth control and abortions, you never need to have a child. So please tell me what is at risk.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:05 PM
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Fair enough. I always discover that the guys with good bodies took drugs. :(
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 03:34 PM
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Also mind if I ask what is your height, weight and body fat percentage currently?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 03:01 PM
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I'm not what you would call "shredded". I have some ab definition but it's more overall muscle bulk. I am 13-14% body fat according to a few online calculators. This matches roughly with body fat pics I see online comparing 5%, 10%, 12%, 15%, 20% body fat and so on. Still, the muscle has never helped me with women. It's just extra muscle. I even prioritize the aesthetic muscles like side delts, lats, biceps, abs and still makes no difference. Have you ever take steroids or other drugs or are you…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 02:39 PM
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Mainly because it's part of the culture these days, makes you feel like you fit in, makes you respected and admired by your peers. Yes, girls giggle with each other when one of their friends gets laid with an attractive guy, a lot of girls enjoy being slutty. Guys like it as well, unless they're not getting laid, then they will say sluts are bad and rage on red pill, incel and mgtow forums.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 02:32 PM
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It's not something that gets discussed a lot because women get offended + men are horny and want sex with anything, but a lot of women are terrible in bed. They either don't know what to do or are too lazy. I've experienced the same as you (although I never took drugs to make me hard). It's rare to find a woman in bed who is proactive, not lazy, knows what she's doing, values intimate foreplay and doesn't expect you to be instantly hard. I only found 1 myself and the sex was very nice, far bette…
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 02:28 PM
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Men cheating is a different topic. I don't know how this topic entered the conversation. It always enters the conversation with women on these gender debate subreddits. That and r ape ("all men are r apists!!!"). They will twist the conversation onto a topic where they can make men look as bad as possible and women as good as possible.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 01:46 PM
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https://www.okcupid.com/profile/7988383134174209910 if anyone can see this, do you think she's legit? 18 years old, massive muscles. even if that is real and not photoshopped, that must be a lot of steroids she took. i wonder what her training routine looks like as well. the same as a natural lifter do you think?
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 12:19 AM
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Ok. But if it's in their biology, why are women telling men on PPD that women sleeping with lots of men is no different to men sleeping with lots of women? It's in men's biology to avoid huge sluts for commitment and marriage.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 06:27 PM
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The chances of pregnancy are very low with birth control. If you use 2 forms of birth control, the chances are extremely close to zero. Then you have abortion if you are unlucky enough to get pregnant even after following those precautions. Women can easily have lots of sex and never have a baby. Many women do it, it's not difficult.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 05:29 PM
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Can someone tell me why people come onto the internet just to say "life is cruel" "life is unfair" "no one owes you anything" "no one is entitled to anything"? I've noticed it a lot in this comments section and I notice it a lot on PPD. It doesn't achieve anything. To me, it just seems like a way of telling someone to shut up and that their problems are insignificant and not worthy of being addressed. It also says a lot about the person who says it themselves - it says to me that this person is …
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 05:12 PM
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Oh right, I thought you were saying you personally thought it was acceptable. I find it sad that once women got the equality they wanted, they use it to screw over men as much as they can.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 01:27 PM
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That seems to be the case. I'm going to move my postings to this subreddit now. I got sick of PPD and all the silly rules which make no sense and all the idiots there with opinions that don't match reality. Currently serving a 3 day ban there because I said to a woman she needs to improve her performance in the bedroom if men prefer to watch porn over having sex with her. Apparently that was "uncivil" and "no personal attacks" lmfao!
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 01:05 PM
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And that something that should be acceptable to do and promoted Wow really?
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 01:02 PM
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The female posters on PPD, the vast majority are middle aged, either married, divorced or separated. They basically come to the sub to mock and belittle the young men who are struggling with women. Sometimes offering very basic advice which is of no help, or they gaslight by saying things like sex doesn't matter.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 01:11 AM
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Any female-only sub or sub which is majority female, they have to create huge numbers of rules to overly protect women from any tiny thing that might offend them. If you post anything that women don't agree with or is even mildly critical of anything women do, it is labelled as hate or misogyny and you get warned/banned. The men on subreddits like r/AskWomen have to tiptoe around certain issues and use language that panders to women, because otherwise women will get offended and hit the report b…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 01:55 PM
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Women don't actually want to debate though. They want to virtue signal, gaslight, throw emotional tantrums and dick on men at every opportunity.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 04:10 AM
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Funny how me being a live example contradicting your assertion is not relevant nor are the other people I mentioned. Typical You were probably a crazy FDSer. Yeah women can get banned, but overall I see women get better treatment far more than men do. And this has no bearing here because anyone can literally go to PPD, pick a week, and count how many male posts vs female posts or male antagonistic comments vs female antagonsitic comments and the objective data would undermine what u said But hey…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 03:35 AM
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How do you know when you've become alpha?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 02:31 AM
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Would you advise a man to travel to a different country if he's either sick of western women or he has no luck with them?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 02:05 AM
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You can't make an "affirmative claim" in any thread title, unless it's a CMV thread. Which basically means you can't say anything is true or false eg. you can't ask "why are women's standards higher than men?". You've made a claim that women's standards are higher than men, which is not allowed. You have to put it as a CMV thread: "Women's standards are higher than men" or instead ask "Are women's standards higher than men?". This can be extended to really stupid things like "why is the sky blue…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 01:51 AM
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lol, I admit I spat out my drink reading this :D
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 12:37 AM
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For the most part man can say anything they want about women but the inverse is not the same. As with every major platform it's men get to be who they are and women get silenced Interesting, I notice the exact opposite. It's women who can say anything they want and are protected, while men are the ones who are silenced and censored for their views. In fact, if you just reverse the genders in your post, what you said would be accurate. I saw a very accurate post on PPD a few days ago: "as soon as…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 12:34 AM
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Oh ok fair enough. Maybe you disagree, but it would be better for you to put on a lot of muscle. You might repel a lot of women, but there would be a subsection of women like your ex who absolutely love the muscle. Better to have that strong burning desire from a minority of women, rather than be mediocre to all women. If you see what I'm saying?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 12:28 AM
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I'm confused - does she look and sound exactly like a woman, but with a penis? Or is she a man dressing as a woman? I also get liked by trans women on normal dating apps. But they look exactly like men, just dressed as women (and presumably with male appendage), and I'm not attracted to that. Do you think I should use Grindr as a straight guy? Would I get anything decent from it? Obviously I would ignore the men, because I'm straight.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 12:22 AM
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Any particular reason why your ex was into the muscular look, but you say a lot of muscle at your height isn't a good look?
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 10:04 PM
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If you were never fat to begin with and your face still isn't masculine, then what? :P
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 08:30 PM
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That's true. I have made many suggestions for improvements on PPD but no one listens. So the only way is to create a new subreddit for discussion, like you say.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:59 PM
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Sorry I guess I didn't address anything in your OP. I just think PPD needs a lot of improvement.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:56 PM
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In my experience, Chads mostly go out at night, or to concerts, festivals and so on. I've been to nightclubs occasionally on a Saturday night and they are filled with tall, muscular, good looking men. I have wondered to myself "damn where have all these men been hiding during the day?". Many Chads spend quite a lot of time in the gym too. I see many Chads in the gym I go to. They need to lift weights to get their good body. Now with Tinder and dating apps, many of them must be having a lot of se…
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:51 PM
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The way that PPD is set up, it perpetuates the gender war. You can't make a top level comment on a CMV thread unless you disagree with the OP, which causes endless arguments because it forces everyone to disagree with everyone all the time. There won't be any consensus or common ground that is reached if people are always forced to disagree.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:41 PM
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Only because men want to get laid. They think that by pandering to exactly what women want, they can get laid. All that does is play in women's hands - you have these average/unattractive men who are obedient to what women want, while the women can just fuck the attractive men whenever they feel like it. I say average, but average is a bit misleading. Actual average men are considered below average by women.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:37 PM
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how did she find this subreddit? i got invited to post here.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 07:34 PM
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u/zoloftabuser Wow. Well hopefully this subreddit grows. Most of the rules on PPD make no sense.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 05:52 PM
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Also got a 3 day ban on PPD yesterday for telling a woman she needs to improve her performance in the bedroom if men would prefer watching porn to having sex with her. That was apparently "uncivil". If you can't say that, what can you say? It's like we're wrapping everyone in cotton wool these days. Any tiny thing that might offend someone's feelings gets removed.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 12:49 PM
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u/SaltyGeekyLifter I also got a 3 day ban recently for harassment after I questioned someone's age after they made a particular post in PPD. Basically I went through their past posts and questioned whether they were the age they said they were. Apparently that's harassment. I have had numerous people go through my past posts and call me an incel in different subreddits, but they never got banned for harassment.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 12:45 PM
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Their equals don't want them. Women are hypergamous, they want better than they are. Also if you're like a bottom 5% male, it's difficult to even find a woman who is on your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 05:57 PM
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I am kind, but they throw it back in your face. They have been bitter with men and life for so long, they are a lost cause at this point. They even get a kick out of being a dick to men who are nice to them. So best thing I can do is avoid them. When a woman has such a bad attitude, you're wasting your time by even trying to interact with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:56 PM
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Ugly in most people's view. I found her attractive. I could have got hard for her in the bedroom. But ugly women don't want to hear compliments. Even when they get them, they don't believe they are genuine. So there's no point. Ugly women can just seethe in their bitterness on their own while I interact with average women who don't have mental issues, chips on their shoulder and bitterness with men and life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:49 PM
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Did you not read? There are some things that are a waste of time and money to do studies on, because they are so painfully obvious. I'm not sure whether it's because people here have high rates of aspergers/autism and don't understand social concepts, or because they want to argue for the sake of arguing, but some of the things that are debated around here is hilarious. Stuff that people in real life don't give a second thought to because they know it's obviously true, you will get threads with …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:13 PM
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I want a woman whose job/career doesn't make her bitter and angry about life and then she takes out that bitter, anger, argumentative, confrontational attitude on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:06 PM
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That's a lot of words to say men have a higher sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:25 AM
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I tried complimenting an ugly woman and she threw it back in my face. Ugly women don't even want compliments. They think compliments they receive are false and disingenuous and just trying to have sex with them and there are hotter women out there I would rather talk to. So I don't bother anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:01 AM
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Why do all these incels exist if women want sex as much as men? Why does the market for paying for sex cater almost exclusively to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 03:12 AM
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Well it would be a guarantee with me. But maybe not all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:43 AM
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You can ask some female posters here what their ages are. I've done the same and youngest I found here was 28. Oldest was in her mid 50's. I found this link and it shows the common subreddit overlaps: https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/purplepilldebate Subreddits that attract older females are all near the top. But yes, it's 2 different groups who want 2 completely different things from life, with vastly different life experiences, who grew up in different eras. I don't understan…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:29 AM
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Fair enough. Although according to threads on here, women become more entitled as they grow older, not less. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:17 AM
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Yeah. The vast majority of women on this sub are in their 30's-50's. The top female posters are 40+ and married. If you're talking to a woman on this sub, she almost certainly isn't in her teens or early 20's. I thought this was common knowledge? Did people not know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:14 AM
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No, feminists have bastardized the term equality. It now means things like giving women top positions just because they are women and punishing men for being men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:14 PM
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Certainly they know its not real love and affection Why bother waiting all those years to pay a woman to pretend she likes you? I'm not sure if you're agreeing or disagreeing with me. But that is where the attraction is for older men. Do you think men would be more successful dating wise if they didnt base attraction solely on how young and naive a woman is. Not really. Old women are just as entitled, if not more so, as young women but come with worse looks and a lot of mental baggage. Why do yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:07 PM
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Ok. Well either way, a 50 year old woman struggles as much as a 20 year old man. Strange how when I open up my age range to older, those 50 year old women still don't want me. They "struggle" but will still reject most men. Not the actual struggle a 20 year old man experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:52 PM
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Yeah you're right. I also remember when you used to be able to say the r word on the internet and no one batted an eyelid. Now you can't say it without people getting really offended. Not sure why. Over time, the stuff you're allowed to say on the internet has reduced. Definitely more freedom of speech years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:49 PM
1

Why do those women want you now compared to 20 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:46 PM
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Yes, that seems to be the case. Their attractiveness comes from their wealth. They reach an age where they simply buy women's love and affection with their money. Women's attractiveness is from their youth, young looks, naivety and not mentally damaged from life/other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 08:30 PM
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And also a 20 year old man (at his sexual peak and close to his physical peak) is just as desirable as a 50 year old wrinkled hag going through menopause. That's messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:47 PM
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It explains why this subreddit is dominated by women in their 40's and 50's and men in their 20's. 50 year old men aren't posting on this subreddit, nor are 20 year old women. A 50 year old woman is just as desirable as a 20 year old man, lmao. A man at his sexual and almost physical peak is as valuable as an old wrinkled hag who is going through menopause. That's just tragic on so many levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:43 PM
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Why do we need studies to prove things that are already obvious? I say many obvious things on this subreddit that people in real life just automatically know are true, but you have weirdos on this subreddit denying it and needing "studies" and "sources" to confirm things that are painfully obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:39 PM
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Well this just goes to show that men and women are very different. We're not "equal" at all, like so many idiots believe we are. You need connection for someone to give you oral, I just need a woman with a mouth. Heck it could even be a man I suppose lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:04 PM
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I wouldn't care what woman it was. Well that's why you set a limit on the number of people you can see in a day if you can only cum once or twice a day! Durrr!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 04:13 PM
1

Sounds like someone needs to improve their performance in the bedroom!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:35 PM
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Getting paid to be pleasured? Sounds like a great job to me! I'd pay to receive a good dick sucking, not that I would ever be able to do that, but I would if I could!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:57 AM
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I'm not sure you understand how men work - porn is a coping mechanism for men who can't get sex and/or good sex in real life. If you think a porn watcher will always watch porn regardless, that's you lacking accountability for your poor sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:55 AM
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You either have someone else teach you those things, or you look up the instructions online, or you do it through trial and error. So: You need a woman to teach you. If a woman doesn't want to be near you, like most incels, none can teach you. You can look up the female anatomy online, but in every sex thread I've seen, women are determined to say that "all women are different, what gets one off doesn't necessarily get another off". So online instructions will not get you far. Trial and error on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:15 AM
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Perhaps don't think of sex in terms of a computer programming language and then you won't be a virgin!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:11 AM
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But I've looked in the sexworkers and escort subreddits and they absolutely detest men who care about their pleasure. They say they hate such men and cringe whenever a man tells them this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:09 AM
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You're not taking accountability. No one owes you anything. You must self improve if you don't want this to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:07 AM
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Sounds like you need to improve your sexual performance! No one owes you anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:54 AM
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"But but but the bar is on the floor for men!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:53 AM
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Porn - there you go. It's not a bad word. You sound insecure that men watch it. Men wouldn't need to watch it if they got plenty of good sex in real life. But women don't give that to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:15 AM
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It is wishful thinking. Therapy is talking to a stranger and then hoping your problems magically vanish. It's fantasy land in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:42 AM
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You realize you can write the word porn without starring part of it out, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:02 AM
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I was trying to prove that your numbers are wrong. But yeah, clearly they are overweight. Just not by as much as you said. Those numbers are quite something though. 170lbs for an average woman and 200lbs for an average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:35 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_body_weight Average weight of a woman in the US is heavier than me lmao. Wtf is up with Tonga and Saint Kitts and Nevis?? Those are some very heavy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:33 PM
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But you're missing the point that whatever these men do, women don't want them. At least with simping, the woman acknowledges his existence in some way, even if it's just to give a shoutout to his username for donating $100 to her Twitch stream. I agree that simping is wrong and it's incredibly sad that men do it, but this is what I've heard from simps when they're honest about their behavior. They tell me it's the only way that women will even acknowledge they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:11 PM
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Where do those women exist and how can I tell if she is that type of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:07 PM
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But don't all PPD women know a short, fat bald bloke who gets laid all the time? That's what I keep reading anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:01 PM
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You don't understand why simping occurs if that's what you think. Simps are ugly men who aren't wanted by women regardless of what they do. At least with simping, they give themselves SOME chance of being noticed by a woman. If they didn't simp, they'd be 100% guaranteed to die alone. Simps aren't simps because they want to be. Simps are simps because they have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:58 PM
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What's the answer to my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:52 PM
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So now can you answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:51 PM
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Does anyone know if you have a sex change, are you still attracted to the same sex that you were before the sex change? eg. a straight man getting a sex change to become a woman, is he still attracted to women? I don't want a sex change, just curious. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:57 PM
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Yeah no shit 25 is less than 35 and I also stated in the last line of my post that it's an issue if you want kids. But apart from that, the woman at 35 or 45 or even 55 will have more options than your average man. She will always have choice. Look at the incels on this subreddit - they're in their late teens, 20's and 30's. Physical prime, looks prime, and can't even get one woman to talk to them. You can have your revenge fantasies all you want, but women are out there dating men and having se…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:32 PM
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Ok. I'm not going to convince you whatever happens. Both of us have entrenched viewpoints like most of this subreddit. So why are we bothering to have this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:07 PM
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How do you know what is good and what isn't? If I went to my doctor, I wouldn't know the correct diagnosis or treatment for something. I'd trust them to figure it out for me. So you need to be with an expert to begin with, if you don't know what is good and what is bad. Therefore I don't see why we can't scrutinize the source of the information on here. I started questioning someone's age and background (because their advice appeared to be biased towards that) and I got a 3 day ban for harassmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:42 PM
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You absolutely can expect that. Men want women to be sluts for them only, not with other men. Also there will be a large number of sluts in society who men have sex with, but those sluts get judged for it. Not that it bothers sluts anyway, they'll have sex regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:37 PM
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How do you know what is good and what isn't? Unless you already have an opinion on the subject and are just looking for people to confirm the views you already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:35 PM
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It's a legitimate analogy and you're just angry because women are held to different standards than men on this. We're not all equal. Women who have sex with many men are treated completely differently to men who have sex with lots of women. If you don't like that, tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:21 PM
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Ok go take financial advice from your average broke person out there, see how that goes for you! :D And while you're at it, ignore your doctor and take medical advice from someone on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:09 PM
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The implication is that women's physical attractiveness suddenly falls off a cliff in their 30's. If you look after yourself to a reasonable level, this won't happen. You can still look physically attractive into your 30's and 40's and even older. If you put a 25 year old woman next to a 35 year old woman, you can often not tell who is the older one. It's only if you want kids that this is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:05 PM
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When you're assessing whether a message or advice should be taken seriously, you look at the source. You're not going to take financial advice from a broke person, for example. This seems perfectly reasonable, I'm sure everyone would agree. I questioned the source of an opinion on PPD from someone who started a thread on here, and I got a 3 day ban for harassment! :o I tried contesting the ban but got no reply back, so I just waited out the 3 days. That's insane how we can't question who is givi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:00 PM
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Yes I have noticed this too. It seems to be very common among lower socio-economic classes. Most women now have the mindset that men must reach their standards, and if they don't, they're not going to take a hit to their ego and drop those standards. They'll just remain single, raise any kids in a single mother household, and claim that there aren't enough "real" or "good" men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:54 PM
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haha 15 years old and asking about this. you're in fucking high school, why do you care about single mothers? go and study, play with friends, talk to boys. hahaha asking about single mothers at 15, hilarious. people discovering these pill subreddits at 15 is equally worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 12:39 AM
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It's such a weird topic to be interested in if you're only 17 or under yourself. How old are you exactly? Do you have kids of your own? Is your mother a single mother herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:16 PM
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Any race related content gets automatically deleted on PPD. Not sure why, because race is a big issue in dating. Studies have shown certain races do worse. I don't see how it benefits anyone to sweep those statistics under the carpet as if they don't exist. As long as no one openly attacks a particular race or someone for their race (none of which I ever see happen), I don't understand why topics on race and dating getting immediately shut down.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/22 06:47 PM
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There were no laws preventing women from succeeding, that's feminist claptrap. Just like feminists made up the fact that all men had the right to vote 100+ years ago, whereas it was just rich men who owned land had the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:37 PM
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If you are telling the truth, it's mightily weird to be asking what people's opinions are on middle aged single mothers when you're 17 or under yourself. Of all the topics you could be interested in, it's the topic of dating for someone over twice your age. Also young people are normally seeing friends or studying for exams or going to parties. This is the last place I'd expect a young teenage girl to be hanging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 06:27 PM
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Women couldn't succeed hundreds of years ago, society had to skew things in women's favor for them to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:48 PM
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People who aren't experts or haven't been through your specific issues, either give advice from their own experience or they give generic advice. Also when you're seeking advice, you're doing it because the standard generic advice didn't work and you've exhausted all options. So when people give you generic advice in return, they're wasting your time and their time. However I do find it funny how red pill youtubers have monetized giving very basic life advice. They've created channels with 100,0…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:37 PM
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What is more likely - you are "curious" about middle aged single mothers when you're still in high school and asking what people's opinions on them are, or you are actually a middle aged single mother yourself? Hmmm I wonder. There's no shame in being a middle aged single mother. What I find sad is that you lied about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:06 PM
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She could be a minor, but don't you think it's a bit weird for a girl under the age of 18 to be asking what people's opinions are on 40+ women with grown children? That's not exactly the sort of thing someone under the age of 18 would ask a subreddit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:13 PM
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Looking through OP's posting history, I'm pretty sure she's not a minor. She posted this: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wctcf9/do_you_classify_older_women_with_independent/ Bit weird to be asking this if you're under 18. Also looking at some of her other posts, she appears to have quite a lot of life experience for someone who is supposedly under 18. My verdict: she's lying about being a minor and is most likely a middle aged single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:03 AM
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Why are you talking about this stuff as a minor? Bit weird. Anyway men aren't homoromantic. They just don't want to be romantic with you. Perhaps because you're not a nice person to be around beyond sex. I would fix that if I were you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:57 AM
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Wait, you're a black woman calling men gay? Who rejected you? I'll have sex with you and show you I'm straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:05 AM
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Oh my. I think that's enough internet for me today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 10:00 PM
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Oh I thought you meant "I wanted you to put in more effort". That's what I was told. And it was because she was going out of her way to make plans to see me and visit me, while I just turned up in a creased, un-ironed t-shirt and some jeans and it looked like I couldn't be bothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 09:49 PM
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Yes I have and I've had it said to me by a woman before. But that was after she showed interest in me and didn't play hard to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:53 PM
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I said things like "you're an idiot if you think that" or a couple of people who were arguing about the little technicalities and semantics of the language I used, instead of arguing the actual issue at hand, and I told them to "stop being autistic about the little details of the language and focus on the point I'm making". Got a 3 day ban for saying that.
/r/AllPillDebate06/08/22 02:49 PM
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There is no "playing hard to get". That is a phrase that men conjured up as a coping mechanism for why they have no women interested in them. She either likes you or she doesn't and she will make it obvious if she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:44 AM
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Damn, has it got to the point where even 6ft does quite a lot worse than taller heights like 6ft4 or 6ft5? Barely any difference between 5ft10 and 5ft11 which is interesting. Big jump from 5ft11 to 6ft. Big drop off from 5ft10 to 5ft9. Basically: - if you're 5ft7-5ft9 as a man, just put 5ft10 - if you're 5ft10-5ft11, just put 6ft - if you're 6ft-6ft1, put 6ft2 - if you're 5ft6 or under, you're probably screwed :( Might be able to get away with putting 5ft9 if you're 5ft6. 5ft5 and under, it's be…
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 10:08 PM

Well go for it then!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:58 PM

Do any of those women want you though? That's what you've got to ask. There's women in every major city, doesn't mean shit if they don't want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:11 PM

If you have to ask this, you don't understand what marriage is really about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:44 PM

When you're applying for a visa just to visit a foreign country for a few days, maybe a week, do you have to give "biometrics"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:27 PM
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I'm here because someone invited me. I keep getting warned on PPD, with my posts deleted and told to "be civil". I can't help it - when you have people trying to deny that obese, heavily tattooed, loud, obnoxious women who do drinks, parties and drugs aren't promiscuous, I sometimes wonder if anyone on PPD has any life experience at all, or if they're all just a bunch of extreme mentally deficient autists who have no clue about human behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 07:30 PM
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Exactly, you're not going to spot every promiscuous woman, but if you look out for certain signs, you will spot most of them. But people on this sub are stupid and think you can't ever tell if a woman is promiscuous, no matter what she looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:49 PM
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I'm not sure. I guess I am what they call "low value"? It's just something I've observed through my life. The women who have been interested in me have been black and asian women.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 02:13 PM
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Because if you take everything everyone says completely literally all the time, you are. You don't grasp language and social skills if you do that. I have met people like that before and they're fucking weird. You'll say something to them and instead of understanding what you mean, they'll start picking apart the technicalities of the language you used. Safe to say those people have no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:41 PM
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I said visible tattoos in conjunction with other characteristics. Of course not everyone in the world who has a visible tattoo is guaranteed to be promiscuous, it's just one indicator that makes it more likely (I'm talking about a big visible tattoo, not some tiny one on the wrist of course). This is the problem with this subreddit, they want to deal in absolutes for everything. It's either everyone or no one, nothing in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:33 PM
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Hard to say without posting a photo. I look kind of young. I do work out but that's never made a difference. Non-neurotypical? Yes I think I am.
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 12:27 PM
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I'm white. Black women and asian women (far east asian, not indian asian) have by far been the most interested in me on dating platforms. Even though I live in a country where the black population is less than 5%, half the dates I've been on from online dating have been black women. Interestingly all the dates I went on with black women, all of them messaged me first. White women are not interested in me. They never message me first and they put in the least effort in any responses. On dates, wh…
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/22 12:09 PM
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It wasn't just women who were arguing against it. There was a man who said "there are no signs to spot a promiscuous woman". I can't tell whether these people actually believe this and have zero life experience, or they are arguing just for the sake of arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:37 AM
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No point in me engaging in debate about this because you've clearly come to disagree and you also took offense to my post above (hence your downvote), so you're already feeling angry and not in a position to agree with anything I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:02 AM
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I'm not going to go into a circular argument with someone who is denying everything I say. Don't take my comment dead literally next time. You thought I literally meant EVERY woman with a visible tattoo MUST be promiscuous. That is not what I meant and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:58 AM
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This is just as dumb and shows you have no grasp of people and reality either. There are also signs that a woman isn't promiscuous. Many of them won't have high n counts. Many will have slept with 4 or 5 men at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:55 AM
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Does this sub attract people who have zero grasp of people and social skills, or just people who are looking to argue and disagree for the sake of it? Because I had an argument with a couple of posters who say that "you can't assume a woman is promiscuous" even if that woman is obese, has big visible tattoos, is loud, obnoxious, likes to drink, party and do drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:45 AM
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Don't play dumb. You took my comment dead literally "if you have a visible tattoo, you MUST be promiscuous, NO exceptions". I clearly didn't mean that, and you must take other factors into account (it's not a black and white issue), but you don't have the brains to figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:41 AM
1

Well how else am I going to get the experience to give this opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:26 AM
1

What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:24 AM
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I judge on looks and first impressions and most people do, whether they are consciously aware of it or not. That description is a classic case of a woman who's slept with many men. Sure she might not have, but the odds are very likely she has. You have to go by probabilities. But good luck with your strategy. Sounds like your love life is a disaster waiting to happen if you're never judging on looks and first impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:28 AM
1

Yeah sure. Nice backtracking to try to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:24 AM
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Guess that obese tattooed woman who acts loud, rude and confrontational is not promiscuous. Sounds like you've got this one figured out, good job buddy. I swear this subreddit is fully of total morons who have not spent a day in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:17 AM
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It's a mixture of relative and objective. Which is why some people are attractive to far more people than others, but most people can usually find someone at some point who finds them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:14 AM
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You're amused because you took my comment personally. Good job if this doesn't apply to you, I'm giving general guidelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:11 AM
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Yes exactly. But men don't know this until they gain some level of experience with women, which most men on PPD and TRP don't have unfortunately. Hot women are good as status symbols, to make other men respect you and other women take notice of you. That's about all hot women are good for. Exceptions can exist, like you say. These are general rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:06 AM
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I am serious. Which part do you disagree with? If you're a male who genuinely can't spot a promiscuous woman with a reasonable level of certainty, and you're not disgusted by women like that, then I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:00 AM
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How can you not spot promiscuous women? Yes you won't always be right, but most of the time you can spot them quite easily. Feels like I'm speaking to a bunch of dummies on this subreddit. Anyone in the real world knows a promiscuous woman when they see one and interact with one for like a few minutes. Most of them don't hide it very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:57 AM
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Sexual frequency reduces the longer you are in a relationship. How can you not know this??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:43 AM
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Once a man gets some experience with women, he realizes that it's better to pick an average looking woman who is fun and can fuck really well, than a hot woman who has no good conversation and lies there like a bored starfish watching the clock waiting for him to cum. The exception to this is if he wants a hot woman to make other men jealous and other women more attracted to him. Men also care what other people think of their girlfriend, which is why you rarely ever see hot men with ugly women o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:38 AM
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You can't read. It's not a black and white rule of "visible tattoo = automatically promiscious". It has to go hand in hand with other characteristics too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:41 PM
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Yes I judge people based on how they look. Just like most people do and just like you do. It's how we evolved. Well done, you figured out how humans work. How much of your life did it take you to figure this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:38 PM
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It just so happens that millions of women are attracted to tall, dark, handsome Chris Hemsworth, while there's millions of incels out there. Because attraction is all relative according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:36 PM
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Good for you. I didn't say you can always spot a promiscuous woman with 100% certainty. This is the problem with internet forums - you always get one or two people who are exceptions who are desperate to point out they are exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:33 PM
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Claims about what? I know I'm going to end up in another circular argument here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:28 PM
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Sigh, you're either utterly clueless or you know the answer and you're intentionally looking for an argument. You think if an obese, heavily tattooed woman who drinks, parties and takes drugs walks up to you, you would think she is a virgin with an n count of 0? Of course not. You'd think she's a complete whore who's had sex with potentially 100+ men. No offense but how can you not know this? You can't be this incapable of reading people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:27 PM
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Yep, you're clueless. You really think it's impossible to spot promiscuous women. Even if an obese, heavily tattooed woman who likes to drink, party and take drugs a lot comes up to you, you still can't determine if she is promiscuous. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it is a duck. Only on this sub have I come across so many people who are absolutely clueless about basic aspects of social and sexual interaction. Quite remarkable. Either that or you know the answer and just want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:20 PM
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I can. You must not be very observant. The signs of a promiscuous woman are quite obvious in most cases. The male brain evolved to spot promiscuity in women and be repelled by it. It's because we need to guarantee paternity for our offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:13 PM
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This is why I said it's not a strict black and white rule. It's not just "visible tattoo = promiscuous". You have to consider the size of the tattoo, where it is on the body, how many of them they are, her personality in conjunction with the tattoos, her weight. This is why it is utterly pointless to argue with you because you're taking everything very literally. Men have a pretty good idea when a woman is promiscuous. We evolved that way. You clearly don't understand by the way you are arguing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:09 PM
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Then anyone can make a claim about anything and it can't be verified. I remember when people used to say "pics or it didn't happen" regularly on the internet. Have we really got to the point where a phrase like that is not allowed to be said? Wow. Everyone has to be wrapped up in cotton wool these days. I remember when you had more freedom to say stuff on the internet and people didn't get offended at every tiny little thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 10:02 PM
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I see. What was the point in your original post then? Was it just supposed to piss people off or bait people? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:02 PM
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Sigh, you cannot surely be this stupid. Visible tattoos is an obvious sign, although it has to go hand in hand with other characteristics too. Anyway no point discussing this because you will deny anything I say, especially as you're a woman. Men just know when a woman is promiscuous. We have a sixth sense on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:01 PM
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So we just have to take your word for it, even though there's no proof. And I'm Santa Claus! Because I say so. I'm not providing any proof. You just have to take my word for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:56 PM
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They way they look and the way they act. It's just obvious. Only on this subreddit do people not understand how to spot a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:55 PM
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Yeah the reality is kind of depressing, I just don't understand why redpill and femaledatingstrategy both live in these weird delusion fantasy worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:27 PM
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Post pictures of him and you then. Anyone can claim anything on the internet, doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:19 PM
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No wonder Rich Cooper (Entrepreneurs in Cars) is so bitter and angry all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:19 PM
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That's true but you can usually tell which women are promiscuous. They don't hide it very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:17 PM
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Ugly and/or obese women tend to sleep with lots of men, as a coping mechanism for not getting as much attention as hot women. It's a very common thing. Men can smell their high n-count from a mile off and are rightfully disgusted. It reaches a point where the woman has been involved in the casual hookup and swinging scene so long, it's impossible for her to pair bond. She also reaches a point where she is unwilling to compromise "well this is who I am, take it or leave it" she says to men, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:13 PM
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Oh I didn't say you had to find a woman like that. I'm talking about general motivation for life - going to work, making money, achieving things. Just don't expect this fantasy where you reach 50 and hot young women will be tripping over themselves to be in your company and have sex with you. Aside from a tiny minority of celebrities, that isn't happening. When you get to that age and want hot young women, you will almost certainly have to pay out of pocket for it. This is where red pillers are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:33 PM
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The women here say that they fear even going out their house because all men are rapists who are out to get them and they're constantly fearing for their safety wherever they go. When you read such hyperbolic, over-dramatic drivel, it's impossible to take anything a woman on here says seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:05 PM
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Personality is not as changeable as you think. No one's going to go from an introvert to an extrovert, those things are embedded in our DNA for the most part. Muscle can be gained but it will do little to attract women in most cases. The main things you need are height, face and be the right race - all genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:01 PM
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Ah right, so you want the relationship with the attractive person who is also desirable to many other women. While you are nothing special yourself. You want to have your cake and eat it, without even putting in the work for the cake. And then women say that incels will only date supermodels? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:33 PM
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Well that's weird. Each to their own. I think you represent an extremely tiny minority of women who get into the BDSM and fetish scene. Usually the people who get involved in that stuff are pretty weird and "out there", usually social outcasts, who have strange and very niche tastes, and don't conform at all to normal society. Those are my observations anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:28 PM
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Don't motivate themselves through some far-fetched fantasy they create in their head. Motivate themselves in the way that normal people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:25 PM
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They believe that even though they won't date shorter men personally, there must be women out there who will. They come from the female perspective where every female can get a man to spend time with them, even if it's just for sex, so they assume men must have that same privilege as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:15 AM
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I get your point, but in that case why does this subreddit even exist? We're debating things when we have no clue what it's like to live as the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:11 AM
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I'm not gay, I'm straight. Another of the many moronic things I read on this sub "yeah bro just become gay".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:20 AM
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The fact you need to find extreme outliers to demonstrate that it's possible just proves his point even further.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:19 AM
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Well to me, it's pretty obvious when I have no chance of sex with a woman. I have enough life experience to broadly know which women will and won't like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 01:00 AM
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It's not over, they can get sex whenever they want and relationships with ugly men. Not an ideal situation but better than the male equivalent who must take the long, arduous and risky process of acquiring a lot of money and then get a golddigger wife, or remain an incel for life. I know which situation I'd rather be in. A woman can also use her income to attract men, it's just that most women don't even consider that as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:57 AM
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No I'm not spending time and money on a woman when there's no chance of anything sexual happening at some point, regardless what she looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:22 AM
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Try telling that to women on this sub, who think that a short man is equivalent to a fat woman, even though the former can't change his height but the latter can change her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:16 AM
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Any idiot can strike lucky and get momentarily hit on by a drunk girl at a club if they put themselves in that situation enough times. That's probably what he means. Or he's playing out his sexual fantasies online, which seems more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:38 PM
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There's no point in arguing this because you have your experience, I have mine, we're wasting time even discussing this. If making an observation about you = attacking you, then you're very soft. Grow a thicker skin and get some self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:33 PM
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They have to use that as a coping mechanism in order to motivate themselves in life "well I don't get laid now, but I'm going to convince myself that when I'm 50 years old and successful, women will finally be attracted to me". Inevitably it never works, but they have to tell themselves that otherwise they'd spiral into depression and lose the will to do anything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:29 PM
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The term "misogynist" has lost all its meaning unfortunately. Just like the terms "racist" and "sexist" have lost all their meaning. If people actually used these words in the right context, they would be taken seriously. Now when I see someone get called a misogynist, I laugh. It's like a badge of honor, people throw around the word way too often at things which aren't misogynist at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:25 PM
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It's a way of shaming you and getting you to stop saying things they don't like or don't agree with. You will be called an incel or virgin or "you don't get laid" or "you have a small dick" if you say something they don't like. Then in the same breath, they will say that dick size doesn't matter, it's how you use it that counts - but this only applies to men who haven't said something they don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:05 PM
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Not literally every woman. Geez. I called someone autistic for taking language far too literally, but you can't do that because I got banned for 3 days lol. I remember in the past on internet forums, you were allowed to call people idiots or autistic or similar words for saying obviously stupid things. Now we're not allowed to do that anymore. You can't even call someone a retard anymore without getting warned or banned. So much of what I read on this subreddit is retarded but you can't call it …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:52 PM
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I'm not sure where you're disagreeing with me buddy. We said the same thing but in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:31 PM
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You have to pass the looks barrier at the very beginning in virtually all cases, otherwise you get ruled out for anything romantic. But of course every woman on PPD knows a short, fat, broke, bald man who constantly gets laid with supermodels, so what do I know!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:12 PM
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Lets face it though, you don't get older women, do you? I'm reading between the lines here, it's pretty obvious that's the case. It's a rather unusual subject to be interested in if it doesn't affect you directly. I also did say that your experience is not true universally and you could find a woman who is fine with a younger man. Might be a bit more difficult but it's possible. Not a 30 year age gap, you might struggle there, more like 10-15 years. edit: I will say that I have dated 2 older wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:05 PM
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Good for them if they do that, they sound like idiots who desperately want a hot woman to pay any scrap of attention to them, and they're willing to pay a lot of money for it. I wouldn't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 05:02 PM
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I'm well aware how distributions work. Women who are fine with a younger man aren't THAT rare lmao. Unless you're talking about 30 year age gaps or something ridiculous. Anyway sounds like you made up your mind that women don't want younger men. You should consider whether women don't want younger men, or whether women just don't want you. It sounds like the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:59 PM
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Would I? I think men know when a woman is way out of his league and would just use him. Well if other men can't, then I certainly can.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 03:58 AM
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That's true, but there would be women open to it if you dated enough women. Also I just wanted to point out that OP was talking about his own experience, but framed it in a way that applies to "all women" and "all men" :P I notice people do that a lot on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:45 AM
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This is for long term relationships right? So only in the context of long term relationships and even then, you could find some women who were fine with a younger man, it might just be harder to find those women, but possible if you searched enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:43 AM
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The post should be renamed "I'm a younger man and older women don't want me". I wouldn't say your own personal experience is true universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:29 PM
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The income made by OnlyFans women follows the 80/20 rule. Who knew! Most things in life follow the 80/20 rule, which is why it's laughable when women here shrug off the 80/20 rule as some fantasy created in men's heads. No, dating works exactly like that - a small percentage at the top get a large proportion of the women, then the bottom 80% have to fight over a minority. You reach the point where the bottom 40-50% of men basically get nothing. That's how the Pareto Principle (80/20 rule) works …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 01:32 PM
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You can do both at the same time. Doesn't have to be one or the other. Only difference is you need enough people to support you in order to change the world. But culture can change quite quickly with social media. Mental health was barely talked about 10 years ago, now it's a big topic of discussion and it's all thanks to women driving that social change. Men did absolutely nothing to make mental health an open topic of conversation. They would prefer to keep their feelings to themselves and say…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:17 PM
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Maybe it's not an ideal solution to talk about it, but it's better than keeping silent about it and just saying "well this is how the world is, can't do anything about it". That's such a defeatist mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:04 PM
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So men are partly to blame for this? You only have yourselves to blame then when women act like this and you continue to perpetuate their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:59 PM
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But I don't want to keep it to myself. Maybe if more men actually spoke out about these things, culture would change and women's behavior would change. Women changed the way fat women are viewed through the body positivity movement, which was entirely socially driven. Now fat women are accepted and celebrated. Maybe men should learn a thing or two from that and actually talk about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:35 PM
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I've said that before but I just get called an incel and misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:44 AM
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Or you could just move abroad permanently and work there? haha
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 06:34 PM
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How do we, as men, reclaim our birth right of strength; inner peace; hard, loving sexuality; and a society where both men and women share love, peace, and equanimity? I just told you the answer. I re-read your post twice and I think the answer is find women and give them an amazing time they won't forget. Is that the right answer?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 06:32 PM
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Why do people still follow these red pill gurus? They're all a bunch of frauds, scammers who don't practice what they preach. For example: - John Anthony fucks hookers in Brazil. He's a general fraud. - Rich Cooper divorced a single mother and now is a bitter angry MGTOW who doesn't get laid, sells his overpriced supplements and $200/hr coaching calls and just repeats the same stock phrases like "chase excellence" and "do the work" - Donovan Sharpe is a former criminal who is now with some old l…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/22 06:08 PM
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Women here are mostly 40+ year old married women who have been done with their party years for at least the last 15 years. The female opinions here will be heavily biased against sex and towards commitment for that reason. 18-25 year old women are on TikTok and Instagram, they have no need to debate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:14 PM
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I'm going to assume he isn't because a 40 year old single woman in a western country is not passing up the opportunity to spend more time with a man who is very good looking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:11 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about? No one mentioned rape haha. Go away troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:09 PM

Cool. Does it give you any advantages in life other than being lean? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:09 PM
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That's your assumpton. Reply to some of them, meet them, you'll see that plenty of them don't want just that. And if you really can't get a relationship, face up to the reality that you're only good enough for sex. It's a better reality than many men, who get no sex, no relationship, no woman even prepared to touch them with a barge pole. So I wouldn't complain. You're in a privileged position.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:06 PM
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Because the idea that you just need to not be fat and you are already top 20% is stupid. I'm 12% body fat according to this: https://www.bizcalcs.com/body-fat-navy/ which is accurate to within 1-3%, where are all the women for me?? I'm top 20% easily if this is all it takes to be top 20%. "But but but it doesn't count if you're skinny but have no muscles!!!". I work out regularly, so that blows that theory out the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:01 PM
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Women degrade themselves lmao. When you've got women who are prepared to open their legs for a man on the first night, but then make another man wait months for a bit of starfish sex, you can see why men stop taking women seriously and use such language.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:59 PM
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I'm 12% body fat according to this calculation from the US Navy for body fat: https://www.bizcalcs.com/body-fat-navy/ which is accurate to within 1-3%. I work out too. Where are all the women I was promised?? I'm top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:57 PM
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Lower your standards. No woman should ever struggle to find a man. I could take a couple of low quality selfies for you, set up a dating profile and you would have 20 messages in the first week. That's 20 men who want to spend time with you. You might even get more than 20 messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:40 AM
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Yeah bro, you just need to not be fat and you're top 20% already!!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:39 AM
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What's that? Is there a subreddit for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:49 PM
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No idea, but I'm referring to the title. To demand more from someone for a worse quality product is stupid, no business would ever do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:43 PM
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Of those 3.7 billion, we're only referring to those in US, UK, Canada and maybe a few other western countries. Therefore your 3.7 billion figure is total horseshit. We don't care about women from Cambodia or Nigeria for instance, we're referring to North American and Western European women. Second, if you need such huge samples of entire country populations, we'll never get that. May as well close down the whole subreddit in that case, discussions are pointless according to you because not every…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:38 PM
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Which communities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:26 PM
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If you want data, look at online dating. Set your age to be higher and look at what the older women demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:21 PM
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Try telling that to the people here who refer to men as "low value". Only women can be beautiful whatever they look like. Men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:19 PM
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No one said they have nothing of value. They have less value than someone younger, yet they demand equal or more from a man. I don't know any business that charges more for its worse quality products.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:56 PM
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Because they have boundaries only after they've had all their fun with chads in their younger years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:53 PM
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Going from criticizing a woman for her delusional standards to shooting up schools... you've made a big jump there. If you have to talk about that, you know you lost the argument haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:05 PM
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There was no mention of offering sex in the OP, you have assumed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:02 PM
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If she accepts the offer from a more attractive man, does she still have the self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:01 PM
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I've also had very similar experiences to the OP. I also find that older women still have the same high standards of young women, often higher standards. It doesn't need to be proved for absolutely every woman on the planet, exceptions will always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:57 PM
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You can be interested in someone and annoyed they rejected you. They don't have to be 2 separate things lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:54 PM
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Sounds like women need to vet men better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:50 PM
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This is how life operates in poor areas of the western world. Sorry to burst your bubble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:50 PM
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If older more ugly women have just the same standards as younger more attractive women, what's the point going for older more ugly women? Just like women here who say ugly men and attractive men treat you the same, so why not go for attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:46 PM

I see. Well I personally never thought being a normal weight or low body fat guaranteed me female attention. I don't feel special being the the weight I am. I see enough normal weight people around to know I'm nothing out of the ordinary. It was only after I kept reading on this sub that being a normal weight automatically puts you in the top 20%, I started to question why it's not got me women. Because that's the logic the people on this subreddit use. "Just stop being fat bro and you're top 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:27 PM
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Your normal weight is underweight then. But it's probably no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:49 PM

Nice! If you're a woman, that's quite lean. For a man, it's still decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:43 PM

Oh no, you're very underweight :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:41 PM
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That's really low for a woman. Do you have really defined abs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:35 PM
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But we're told to "self improve" and "level up" all the time. The internet is filled with all these motivational quotes and people love to show off their good results to others in order to be liked, accepted and validated. People don't work on this stuff just to hide it from others and keep it to themselves. This goes for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:32 PM
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Well you're a woman so it doesn't really matter. You can find a man whatever you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:29 PM
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Ok. Why do people on this sub bring up obesity and say that you just need to not be fat and you're already in the top 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:12 AM
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Ok thanks! You probably still look better than me even with more body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:57 AM
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Aww but I have got muscle :( Guess I need to add more of it. It's strange how people quote obesity statistics in this subreddit "Well 80% of people are obese so if you're not obese, you're already in the top 20%".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:49 AM
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Btw do you want to try it? You need your height, weight and a tape measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:31 AM
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I work out though. I have decent sized muscles, although I guess they could always be bigger. I'm working on that! I'm only slightly taller than average height though sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:24 AM
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According to this calculator that measures your body fat based on height, weight, waist and neck measurements: https://www.bizcalcs.com/body-fat-navy/ I am only 12% body fat. This is accurate to within 1-3%, so at most I am 15%. You can't enter decimals though sadly (with decimals, it came to 11.81% rather than 12%). Anyone else want to try? Just goes to show that all this discussion on obesity in this sub doesn't apply to me. But where were all the women that I was promised? I am in the top 20%…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:17 AM
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I created an almost identical thread to you: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fln5ty/despite_the_wall_womens_standards_actually/ not sure why yours got taken down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:57 PM
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I created an almost identical thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fln5ty/despite_the_wall_womens_standards_actually/ Which got 600+ replies, 148 upvotes and it was allowed to stay up. How come this one was taken down?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 11:56 PM
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Who says this has to be a long term commitment leading to marriage and kids? It could be a 1 year thing that is largely centered around sex and intimacy, like most relationships are in your younger years. It doesn't have to be something deadly serious lmao. How old are you? I feel like I'm speaking to someone in their 40's and 50's who only sees things as either a long term relationship leading to marriage or nothing, no in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:15 PM
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I point you back to my title. In theory that's a good reason to pay, but not when she gave sex for free to other men and takes advantage of it with free meals and then ghosts you. I'm very firm with this. I don't pay, not after my experience with that woman, and if that means I never get a girlfriend or sex, so be it. I'd rather keep my money than spend it on an ungrateful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:56 PM
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Because they don't get laid in real life, that's why they get hooked. Very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:54 PM
0

Why "of course"? A job rules you out of all sex and all interactions with women? That's rather sad. I've had sex when I didn't have a job. That's quite silly of you to suggest that men can't do these things if they don't have a job. Ever heard of birth control and condoms mate? haha This isn't the 1950's, we've had birth control for years. Sex never has to result in pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:50 PM
0

One of the number 1 requirements women have of men is that they must have a job. If you say you don't have a job, it's pretty much a one way ticket to getting ghosted unless you're both still in school or college. That tells you all you need to know about women's priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:30 PM
0

It doesn’t hurt me at all. I just don’t date porn users. Oh dear, hate to break it to you but all men watch porn to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 09:29 AM
13

I've read the OP twice and I still don't know what the fuck you're talking about haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:48 AM
1

Losing weight is piss easy for me. I can lose weight easily without even watching what I eat. I have never been fat my whole life, so it really annoys me when this sub talks about overweight people like they're so common, when I've never been overweight my whole life. On the negative side, gaining quality muscle is difficult for me. So all depends on genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:40 AM
2

Some men aren't over 6ft, handsome and charming and have to make up for it by getting a good body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:37 AM
2

Ah good to know you're just ignoring all the points I'm making. In summary: work hard if you want top positions. No one gets them for free. If you think it's because companies are actively discriminating against women despite those women having the requisite skills and experience for the role, provide your evidence or fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:08 PM
1

Is that another way of saying I have to pay for dates? also *loser
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:59 PM
2

The man you replied to is in his mid-late 40's, he lived in a different era, this is why his views are different. He doesn't understand modern dating dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:08 PM
2

Oh right. Sometimes it's hard to tell who is and isn't joking on this subreddit. Which is worrying to say the least!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:04 PM
1

Well that shouldn't be a problem, given that the women on this sub say sex isn't important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:51 PM
1

If this thread is anything to go by, average men of all ages would love to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:43 PM
2

See my post further up - put in the work. There are women in higher positions, they just dedicated their life to getting there. That's what you've got to be prepared to do. Most women aren't prepared to do that because they'd rather put more time into raising a family, which is perfectly fine. There is no big conspiracy denying women the right to be in top positions. Men don't get handed these positions, they work hard for them. No one owes you a top position just because you're a woman. So atta…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:24 PM
2

"Historical context" Are you saying we should punish current day men for what happened 100 years ago? I guess you also think we should punish current day Germans for what the Nazis did in WWII? That's insane! Speak for yourself. I'm a man and don't get taken seriously. Your idea of what the life of an average man is like is laughably wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:05 PM
2

Those men worked hard to get into those positions perhaps? You go work hard and you'll also get into those positions. And stop attacking all men over the actions of a tiny minority of men. Why am I getting blamed for the actions of someone else, just because I happen to be the same gender as them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:44 PM
1

Women that age prefer to be left alone anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:36 PM
3

But you do have a right to complain about it. Just like the feminists have complained and got attitudes in society to change regarding women, maybe if more men complained, they would also get attitudes to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:35 PM
2

You probably are. Clearly my efforts to self improve myself are pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:07 PM
2

No, biology creates this system. Men are hornier than women, that's why it happens. Oh and btw, even the most radical feminists love it when men pay for the bill, studies have shown. Look at the entirety of FDS - staunch feminists who believe in "equality" and they want men to pay for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:05 PM
1

Yes. I have only been taken seriously by close family. This idea that all men are taken seriously is horseshit. Tall, masculine, extrovert men and men in positions of power get taken seriously, that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:02 PM
1

Actually the sub is based around the red pill, which is based on the huge advantages women have in modern society and men never being listened to or taken seriously and seen as invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:00 PM
2

Because I want to skip the dates and go straight to having a girlfriend and sex with her. I don't enjoy the nonsense around dates, I feel like it's a total waste of time. I feel like dates is where I have to act like a dancing monkey and "prove my worth" while she gets to sit on her throne (metaphorically speaking) with all the 100's of "peasants" and "scrotes" (women's words, not mine) in her inbox vying for her attention. She can swat me aside at any moment for another of the 100's of men. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:53 PM
1

Women aren't conditioned to be more pleasant, that's a load of horseshit. Not sure why OP said that. If they are conditioned to be more pleasant, they certainly don't show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:45 PM
1

I must have the worst of both worlds because I'm a male and I'm invisible but I'm also talked over whenever I speak and not taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:35 PM
1

I've never been chatted to by a female cashier and I also go to the gym. How come you get it and I don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:34 PM
2

Ok but don't refer to people as low value. What a horrible thing to say about them! I'm guessing all women think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:27 PM
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But they will also say that "not all women are like that", so it makes me wonder if women in real life don't think the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:25 PM
2

The same kind of acknowledgement that women get from other women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:18 PM
2

What it's like being invisible as a man: - People don't acknowledge your existence unless you achieve something extraordinary or act like a class clown - No one approaches you or talks to you. In fact, you often get actively avoided until you've "proved your worth". - Anything good you do is taken for granted - Never receive messages on social media, internet forums or dating sites from women, no matter what you do or what photos you post - No one will ever compliment your looks, no matter how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:10 PM
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She would have kept seeing me if I kept paying for her meals and drinks, but when I did suggest we split or even she could treat me one time, she said "I want to be treated like a lady, that's not how you treat a lady, you're the man" and basically threw a big child tantrum until I obliged. She also said she could "easily find another man who would treat me well". It became clear to me that she was using me as a meal ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:40 PM
1

Exactly, and that proves my point. Not paying for any woman ever again!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:34 PM
0

You'll sleep with Chris Hemsworth after 0 meals and 0 drinks, so that blows your theory out of the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:30 AM
2

I don't enjoy any dates, only the things that can result from dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:27 AM
2

Dates are stressful and annoying on their own, but they lead onto potentially better things like sex and a girlfriend. So to answer your question, yes and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:01 AM
-3

Oh right. Well sex is such a big issue, it needs to be discussed. You can't just leave it out like it's nothing. It's everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:56 AM
0

"Offered to buy the next" means nothing. She can ghost before the third date and she's lost no money, he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:55 AM
-1

I don't want cold, transactional sex with a prostitute, that's disgusting. I want it with someone I have a connection with but without paying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:25 AM
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Ok, all you're doing is proving my point. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:22 AM
3

Well good job they are on the decline! Hopefully they go extinct!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:21 AM
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Fat/ugly women can get sex whenever they want. Fat/ugly men can't. I would say that's a big difference already. "But women don't want to be used as a fleshlight!!!" complain the women of PPD. Many women in the real world are fine with it, especially if the man is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:18 AM
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Good to know that you only pay for the third date. Gives you an easy way to bail on him before that date, while he wasted his money up to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:32 PM
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Ah right, 100's of men but none are attractive. Spoilt for choice. "Low value man" lol these are real humans with feelings, what a horrible way to refer to someone. (yes I referred to low quality women in my thread, but only because women call men low value. it's a disgusting way to talk about someone but if you do it, I thought so should I).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:13 PM

Takes two to tango, so unless you were physically raped (in which case I sympathize), you agreed to the sex. Ever heard of birth control and abortions as well? No sex ever has to result in pregnancy if you don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:10 PM
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Nah man, I'm not broke. I'm careful with how I spend my money. I don't want to waste $50 unnecessarily, that money adds up over time. How is this such a difficult concept to understand? Did no one teach you financial responsibility? No wonder this cost of living crisis in western countries is hurting people so badly. No one knows how to spend money wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:15 PM
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No, your reading comprehension is terrible. I said that because that woman abused my trust, I have to take precautions in future to make sure it doesn't happen again. I know there are trustworthy women out there, but how am I supposed to know who is trustworthy and who isn't the moment I meet them? I either trust all women or trust none of them. I'd rather protect my wallet and trust none of them, until they prove themselves. That's basic common sense. Many businesses operate in the same way, su…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:08 PM
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Yes, it's now even worse than in the past - men are expected to spend money on a woman, but women are not expected to offer anything in return, not even be a good human being and treat him with respect. It goes back to my original post of why men are refusing to invest money in women. There's no point when there's so much risk these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 09:01 PM
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You can't read because it says 23-33% and I said "up to 1/3". Try reading comprehension, we were taught that in school. Sounds like your school didn't teach you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:29 PM
1

Why don't they appreciate me by spending money on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:26 PM
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No, he said treat women how they treat men. If that's doing the bare minimum, then do that yourself. Solution to your problem: each pay for your own food and drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:20 PM
1

That's great if you actually get sex, but what if you don't? Determine in the first hour if she likes you and if not, leave without paying for her share and never see her again? Doesn't mean you're broke at all. I could easily afford those meals and drinks. But I am careful with my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:00 PM

no it’s because for many women it is how they tell apart the men that want to commit to them vs men that want only one thing. one of them is obviously going to make more effort. but women have abused that by using men for free meals and then ghosting them. and by giving sex very early to very attractive men. so how do you deal with that as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:34 PM
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Why would you give up on dating as a woman, when you have all these men scrambling for your attention and you don't have to lift a finger yourself? Doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 06:18 PM
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That's great to hear but you're speaking from a female perspective, where you're able to be picky with who writes full sentences. If I was picky to that level, I would have never gone on a date with anyone haha. Which goes back to my original point that the women on these apps are low quality and clearly uneducated. You can find men who write full sentences on these apps - so already we can see that the quality of men is higher on these apps, at least in terms of education level and ability to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:59 PM
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It would be ok if these women were isolated cases. But they all act like that. It's low quality women, coming online to find their prince charming/chad/mr perfect, expecting to be wined and dined and treated like a princess. It's delusion at its highest level. Overweight masculine single mothers with mental issues do not deserve any sort of special treatment in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:52 PM
0

So what, we're talking about the west, given that this sub is like 99% North American or West European.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:57 PM
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Well as the women in this sub always say, she "needs to add value to my life".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:34 PM
2

That's great but we have a female userbase on here where 99% of them think they want sex just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:19 PM
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Guess in that case, nothing makes anyone low quality. Fat, angry, bitter woman with mental issues same quality as beautiful, mentally stable woman. lmao. That's utter bollocks of course. Me and other men get to decide what is and isn't low quality, because we are the ones who are picking women. The more men who consider an attribute low quality, the worse that attribute is. Clearly those men can tolerate a woman with a mental illness for whatever reason, but most men won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:14 PM
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Because it was obvious what I meant, but she went and described a load of silly technicalities like "autism is a spectrum, so technically everyone is autistic to some extent". You know those phrases that humans say, where everyone knows what you mean, but if you take the literal definition, it means something slightly different? For example, someone saying "I'm starving" in the west. They don't literally mean starving to the point where they're malnourished, they just mean they're very hungry. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:03 PM
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Just admit you're not as horny as men. It's that simple. Then men would stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:02 AM
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Because it just does. Those 20% of women are obviously low quality, unless they make up for it in some other way. You don't get to decide what features are low quality in a woman. Men decide that (as well as bi and lesbian women).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:52 AM
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Please stop explaining silly technicalities like so many people do on this sub. You obviously knew what I meant - observably autistic to the point that social interaction is difficult for them. And even if you would, you're one exception because 99.9999% of women would not. And to be honest, the way you interpreted my post, I wouldn't be surprised if you're high up on the spectrum yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:47 AM
1

but it is hard to meet women if you are a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:43 AM
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so someone with mental health problems is not lovable? they can be. but women would run a mile from a man with autism, which is also a mental issue. don't see why we need to make an exception for women with mental issues. would you go on a second date with someone who had mental issues? yes i have tried it a few times before. never again though. the mental issues get in the way of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:39 PM
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It's my experience. It's not "how I think of them". It's just the reality I've come across and also speaking to other men about it. You obviously didn't read because I didn't say ONLY single mothers and overweight women. I said women with mental issues or extreme entitlement or intense bitterness at men or excessive use of filters/makeup, among other clear red flags which show they are low quality women. You're bi but if you create a profile as a straight man on plenty of fish, you will see what…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:30 PM
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Raising your standards only works if you still have options once you've raised those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:21 PM
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Are you a bi woman? You will only see other bi women. Try creating a profile as a straight man on plenty of fish, you will see what I mean when women are low quality. Fat (often hiding they are fat by not taking full body shots), entitled, photos with excessive filters and makeup. Then when you meet them, which I managed to do for a few of them, they have very obvious mental issues and still expect to be wined and dined and treated well, even though they act like the opposite of a dignified lady…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:16 PM
1

What if he just has a low quality camera? I don't have a top range smartphone with a great camera, so I can't take fantastic photos. However you can still see how I look. It's just not amazing detail. For some reason that puts people off you. They think it's "suspicious" or "weird" which I find strange. I'm immediately labelled as a bad or weird person because of that. I'm being myself though - I don't want a high quality camera, what I have is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:07 PM
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If you're a chad or a man who women deem as a prince charming or mr perfect. Very few men fall into that category. That's the point I'm making. Online dating has low quality women, both in terms of their looks and personality, but it doesn't mean their standards are any lower than attractive women. Plus men outnumber women on the apps, which just adds to the problem. If it was that easy to go online and have sex with a fatty, incels would not exist. Fat women still have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:56 PM
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I'm fine with a post that doesn't challenge my view. Every post is interesting to read for me. Is that still not allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:52 PM
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My reasons for why a woman is low quality - obesity, mental issues, single mothers with kids from several different fathers, angry bitter combative attitudes, drug use, heavy alcohol use. These are genuine issues. Your reason for a low quality man - they take a photo in the "wrong" room of their house. Lmao. That says it all. You are rejecting a man over a complete non-issue. It also says how much choice women have on these sites. You're able to reject a man for this reason. If I rejected a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:47 PM
2

This means I'm expected to date such women? :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:40 PM
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They admitted it about half way through the date, saying they suffered from depression or were taking medication for a mental illness. It was obvious when they acted like a stroppy child and came across as generally strange, like something was off. I can't explain it better than that. Our instincts just know when we're dealing with someone who has mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:37 PM
1

Why though? It makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:32 PM
1

The room of their house they take a photo in determines whether you speak to them or not. LOL! That's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:23 PM
2

Does it immediately disqualify them if they take a selfie in a bathroom? How strange. I never stopped talking to someone for a weird reason like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:13 PM
2

It's hard to tell exactly who has mental issues from a photo. You usually need to meet them in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:11 PM
2

Well that's even worse and just proves my point further!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:09 PM
1

Why are they undateable? Is it because they took a low quality bathroom selfie? That's the main reason I hear that men are undateable, like taking a photo in front of a bathroom mirror with a low quality camera automatically excludes you from ever being a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 07:02 PM
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It lines up with what I've seen, experienced and heard about as well. Every date I went on, they either admitted to mental problems on the 1st date or it was very obvious they had them. This was a random sample of women I went on a date with and it's amazing that all of them had mental issues. I couldn't tell they had mental issues from their photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:54 PM
2

No it doesn't mean that. Men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:47 PM
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Some are, but because there's so many more men that women on online dating, there is also a much wider range of quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:47 PM
1

Waaah waaah victim complex. Work harder, try harder, negotiate better, pick a job better suited to your skills. You have a load of options available to you. As the women on this sub say to men "no one owes you anything in life". Well time to face that reality yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:24 PM
1

Then... don't do that and go for jobs that pay more? haha :D You only got yourself to blame for that one. If it's a question of certain jobs paying more to everyone who works them, I agree. Some people are massively overworked and underpaid. But to label that as a conspiracy against only women is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:12 PM
1

Then work for it. You think men are born into positions of power? No, they almost always have to work very hard to get there. You don't get given the privilege of a rich high status male for nothing. Women ain't oppressed in the west lmfao, they're just lazy and entitled and want the benefits of a rich high status male without putting in the work. Apart from periods and pregnancy, I'm confused what privilege I even have over the average woman. Whereas they get a myriad of social, sexual and roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:40 PM
2

I've been called autistic by Chads before, so don't see how using that term makes someone unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:03 PM
1

"Equality" really just means "maximum benefits for women at the expense of men". Women have equality already. Thankfully most people in the real world can see feminism for what it really is. It's quite ironic that feminists are almost always privileged, upper middle class, university educated women. They live the most comfortable privileged lives of all women in the world, yet they are the ones who hate men the most. Funny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:55 PM
4

Feminism is not seen as a movement for gender equality anymore. It's seen as a man-hating movement that seeks to gain maximum superiority for women. It's sad because feminism used to be a genuinely noble cause that fought for social justice, but now it's been hijacked by a bunch of over-privileged, angry, bitter, mentally ill women who want to get "revenge" against men in any way they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:25 AM
2

~25 years ago when he was 20. No need to get autistic about it, you get the general point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:15 AM
5

Radical feminism... isn't that the movement that openly hates men and aims to get maximum benefits for women at the expense of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:20 AM
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Doesn't matter. Those women believe that's their level, so they will have sex with these men and hope a relationship can occur at some point. If not, they'll just remain single. How old are you may I ask? I remember you saying you were in your mid 40's. With all due respect, you have no clue how 20 year old women operate when you're that age. The internet wasn't even around when you were that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:06 PM
1

Keep trying. It's a numbers game. Also make some friends with people who like partying? I can't think of any other way of doing it. Unless you have a magical formula that you need to use X technique or say Y to them to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:15 PM
1

Go to a club/bar and talk to/dance with a girl? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:24 PM
1

I could never justify spending anything on red pill coaches, let alone $1000. But if you think that's good value for money, go ahead. If $1000 is nothing to you, you don't need red pill coaches anyway because you can use money to buy women. At the end of the day, they are snake oil salesmen preying on lonely men, trying to sell you programs and ebooks of information that you can pick up for free elsewhere. I'm sure most of them don't sell "fake" information, but they sell information that is bli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:11 PM
1

Just post a thread on asktrp. No need to spend hundreds of dollars for something you can be told for free. These red pill content creators have no extra qualifications than your average redpiller, they have just been able to monetize the advice they give. If it wasn't them, it would be someone else doing it. No offense but you're a bit of a gullible chump if you spend money in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:20 PM
0

A career woman is looking for a man who is in an equal or higher status job position to her. She also doesn't share her money, that's for herself. She expects the man to bring the same or more money to the table. "My money is my money, his money is our money".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:45 PM
1

They are not selling groundbreaking knowledge or "secrets". It's all stuff you can get for free elsewhere on the internet. I never gave a single cent to any of these red pillers. There is no need.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:39 PM
1

Well good for them. At least a fat woman can change her weight. Zero excuse for being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:32 PM
1

Blame the huge number of idiots willing to pay these prices. We have gullible fools paying Rich Cooper $200/hour for a coaching call or sending in a $200 superchat to Fresh and Fit. Total waste of money but they still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 04:30 AM
6

Most women are looking for casual sex, what?? That's not what the women on this sub tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:49 PM
1

So they still gotta have a good level of muscle. You kind of contradicted yourself there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:48 PM
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Ah ok, got it. They're entitled to what they want, but I'm not entitled to what I want. lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:37 PM
3

Oh right, I missed that. Well my point still stands lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:22 PM
2

That's why many guys think lifting has a terrible return on investment. You can lift for 5 years and the 6'4 broad shouldered guy who doesn't touch a weight will still look stronger than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:22 PM
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Because it's not something that anyone would bother to do studies on. It's a waste of time. Just look in the real world and you'll see normal weight women are in higher demand than obese women. Obese women are more bitter and more angry than their slimmer women counterparts as a result. We don't need a study on something that is so painfully obvious. Just because you yourself are attracted to fat women, which many black men seem to be for some reason, doesn't mean the overall male population is.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:08 PM
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lol I always thought you gauged someone's strength based on how much muscle they have. Muscle mass and strength are highly correlated. The muscle can be covered with fat. Maybe that's what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:47 PM
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Lmao "sources sources sources, I need sources and evidence to know that normal weight people are more attractive than fat people!!!". It's called the real world. Go put on 100lbs of fat in the next year, see how differently people treat you and how difficult it is to get a girlfriend. There's your source for you, lol. Anyway I'm done with this argument. It's 2022 and still people are in denial that obesity is unattractive. Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:35 PM
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Yes I knew someone would be smug and say "British Broadcasting Corporation" hurr durr. We all know that's not what you meant. You meant big black cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:26 PM
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That’s exactly what fat chicks do. They deal with it, which is why so many upset nerds are left perplexed when they get rejected by someone they wholeheartedly believe is “lower than them”. In case you didn't read the rest of the posts in this thread, fat girls have very similar standards to slimmer girls, but they also come with a huge load of extra fat, bitterness and anger at the world. Being fat is totally within your control, so if you still remain fat despite that, it shows you are lazy an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:22 PM
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Sounds like you need some therapy. That's not a healthy mindset to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:02 PM
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No it's not. I'm stating what it's in his flair. Unless you think BBC means something different. We all know what it stands for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:01 PM
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No, in case you didn't realize we all get treated differently based on looks. Deal with it because it's not going to change. Being fat is a choice too, which makes it a thousand times worse. Just come out and say it - you love fat women. That's why all your posts in this thread are pro-fat women. You find them attractive and want sex with them. You're arguing from an already biased viewpoint because you can't hide your attraction for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:59 PM
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In my experience, every fat woman I've come across has a bitter, combative personality and their standards are just as high as slimmer women. Why would I want to deal with someone who looks worse AND has a worse personality? Especially as I'm a normal weight man myself who takes pride in keeping in shape, I do not want some obese lump who is bitter and angry and is too lazy to look after their appearance and lose some weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:53 PM
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Oh dear. Well if you look worse and it's something completely within your control to change, then don't expect to be treated equally to normal weight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:46 PM
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How do they know how strong he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:41 PM
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He's advertising that he's black and has a big dick obviously lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:35 PM
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But I thought women on this sub say everyone is entitled to their standards and you can't help who you're attracted to? Well I'm entitled to have a normal weight woman, as a normal weight man myself, and I can't help I'm not attracted to morbidly obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:31 PM
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Oh right, I'm expected to never be afraid, nervous or apprehensive of anything because I'm a man. And there are people who still take feminism seriously? Zero consideration has been given to my feelings. They say they are about gender equality but I am not being treated equally in this. edit: can someone explain why this has been downvoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:44 AM
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As a male, I have a fear of going somewhere I'm unfamiliar with, meeting a stranger or walking somewhere alone at night. I can feel my heart beat faster and I'm wary and cautious. I don't understand why this is a female only issue like the feminists always make it out to be. This is why feminism has become a laughing stock to most people. They never consider the male side of the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:33 PM
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Because giving directions is piss easy and takes no time at all. I'm talking about going out of your way to do a lot more than that. If someone invests in you monetarily or invests a decent chunk of their time or effort into you, you can bet that they are expecting something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:22 PM
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Newsflash: everyone is nice because they want something from you. That's how the world works. People aren't going to go out of their way to be really nice to a stranger just because. They are expecting something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:10 PM
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Niceness is valued in non-western countries. In a typical western country like USA, Canada or UK, where women's brains have been fried by too much social media and smartphone use, and most of them have mental issues and need constant stimulation and validation, niceness is considered a boring trait that women don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 08:06 PM
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I guess. Nice deflection though. I was talking about checkout stores and gyms. This idea that random stranger women in these places are throwing themselves at you is laughable. In your dreams maybe but this doesn't happen in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 06:44 PM
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Hahahaha girls throwing themselves at you at the checkout store and in the gym, nice joke! Maybe in your imagination. Or your definition of throwing themselves at you is very different to my definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:38 PM
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Ok. https://strengthlevel.com/strength-standards/dips/lb Am I really that close to elite level on dips? All that requires me to get to elite level is get the max weight dumbbell at my gym, attach it round my waist and do dips for 18-19 reps. I can already do it for 8 reps and I think I could go more. If I've calculated correctly. Sorry not meaning to boast. I just didn't realize I was close to elite level on dips. Not that it means much, unless I try aiming for a dips world record.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:00 AM
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Fair enough. Your link is interesting. I tested it with various lifts. My barbell curl is only stronger than 43% of lifters for my bodyweight and age, but my weighted dips are stronger than 74%. But isn't it possible that a lot of people lie on this? When I do dips in my gym, I have never seen anyone do dips with the weight I do (I know it's a much smaller sample of guys in my gym, but surely I'd expect to see 1 other guy who dipped more than me, given than I'm only stronger than 74%. That's sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:34 PM
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I already go to bed and do it in the morning lmao. Why is it so hard to understand that working out doesn't make some guys feel good?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:25 PM
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Yep just as I thought, you're chatting shit. It sounded like you were fantasizing and I was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:24 PM
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These women who are throwing themselves at you, are they random strangers in shopping malls, or are they drunk women at parties?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:15 PM
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But if you don't feel good from it, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:13 PM
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Myron puts significant effort into lifting. If he is skinny, you are proving OP's point that it's a terrible return on investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:12 PM
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If your numbers are elite level, why aren't you entering powerlifting competitions regularly and crushing the competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:09 PM
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But 1 dude here said that he gained muscle and now women want to lick whipped cream off his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:04 PM
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Many of the fittest hiking guys I've seen just look normal and uninspiring. I don't think you really know what a hiking body looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:02 PM
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But what if you were already quite lean to begin with and weren't getting female attention? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:01 PM
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What benefits do you gain for yourself? Other than improved confidence. Confidence can be improved from a wide variety of other things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:00 PM
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Ouch, that sounds like a bad experience. Sorry :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:55 PM
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Haha looks don't matter, nice joke. Dress like a slob and get obese, see how well you get treated after doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:53 PM
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When you have that much muscle on you, you look fat, whether or not you're a low body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:24 PM
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Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:20 PM
2

Do STIs have symptoms? I heard that many STIs you don't even know you have them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:40 PM
1

Why do you have abundance now you're older and why didn't you have it when you were younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:36 PM
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Sounds like you have no clue, you're just speculating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:23 PM
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I've said the same thing before, but all I get told is "sounds like you want an excuse to be lazy and not put in the work". It is worth it for those with the genetics to put on muscle quickly and with the right muscle insertions. For men with average genetics, not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:33 PM

You're a female right? So you have absolutely no concept of this problem. Your opinion on this subject = irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:28 PM
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You didn't read what I wrote. That is why all girls get hit on to some extent. Can't say the same thing for guys. If you're like bottom 75% of guys, you will probably never get hit on your whole life. Also ugly girl =/= better chance. The ugliest girls are usually bitter and take pleasure in rejecting guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:22 PM

What extraordinary things with huge risks have you done and who is noticing you as a result?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:51 PM

By people being friendly and open to you and willing to start conversations with you and making sure you aren't alone. I see that happen to females but not males. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:59 PM

As a male, I feel like I have to do something really extraordinary or outlandish or clown-like in order to get noticed. Otherwise I'm completely invisible. I'm forced to take huge risks for anyone to even acknowledge my existence. And by noticed, I mean noticed by both females and other males. Do any other males feel this way or is it just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:45 PM
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Women can be as insecure as they like, but men can't show even a tiny hint of insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 06:41 PM
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Those guys think they have a chance with those girls. Pretty simple. It's why all girls get hit on to some extent, whereas a majority of guys will never experience any level of genuine female interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:57 PM
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Men are forced to be more desperate, as your first sentence indicates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:12 AM

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:19 PM

What problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:14 PM

Has anyone else had someone private chat them who claims to be 6'4, 272lbs, 9.5 inch cock, 7 inch soft, and had sex with 700 women? He kept sending me pics of girls who he spoke to online who sent him naked pics. Not sure if it's real or some very elaborate troll fantasizing. He says he has XYY syndrome which is a rare condition which makes you much taller and bigger than normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 07:11 PM
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But according to people on reddit, I thought it's better not to have children because it helps with climate change?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:19 PM
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Guys hit on girls who they think they have a chance with. They aren't like girls who chase prince charming or chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:14 PM
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How do I know what an average girl looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:47 AM
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You dispute the fact that men get treated differently based on how they look? Ok, I guess you don't live in the real world. Women want equality. Now you're saying women must be pandered to and their needs get given preferential treatment because they are women. That isn't equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:20 PM
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So women's feelings get hurt more easily and you have to tread on eggshells around them? Fuck that dude! A Chad doesn't have to worry about that. So it all comes down to looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:58 PM
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Thanks :) I'll have to private chat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:55 PM
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I'm guessing you're from Houston, judging by your name, or somewhere in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:01 PM
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The women don't think it's a casual relationship, that's my point. They're hoping he will be exclusive to her, meanwhile he's having sex with 10 other women at the same time. It's casual for him, not for her. This of course utterly screws up the dating market. There are 9 women who could be having a healthy relationship with a regular man, but they are instead chasing after this 1 man who is never going to be serious with them. This leaves 9 other men forced to go single as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:24 AM
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Ok. Well if you ever want to post pics, I'm happy to see but if not then fair enough. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:05 AM
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But neither do I want to get thin at this point. :O wow! how come?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:50 AM
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It probably can't go anywhere because we live too far apart, but I'd like it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:23 AM
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I see. I feel like this is some sort of subtle brag "oh I am so thin but my boobs are just massive". So I'm going to leave this conversation very swiftly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:21 AM
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I lol'd. In before "who hurt you?".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:43 PM
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Lose weight. Boobs are fat so less fat = smaller boobs. If they still stay large despite losing weight, then I guess you're unlucky. PS. no one owes you anything in dating!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:37 PM
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That sucks sorry to hear that. I'll treat you differently if you let me know I'm cute. Hint hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:36 PM
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These men are having sex with multiple women, while the women think he is exclusive with her. This leads to women calling all men "cheaters" "liars" "assholes" and blaming it on all men for the actions of 10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:31 PM
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This isn't a female only problem though. OP asked for female only problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 10:27 PM
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I would, because I would accept that that is my level and I deserve that. The market decides what you are worth. If those women can only attract those kind of men for relationships, then that is what those women are worth. They can either choose those men, remain single or improve themselves and try to get someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:49 PM
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It's not fantasy, it's reality. Fat ugly women are already being told not to settle, they are entitled to their standards and they deserve the best. You can see this in the statistics of single and unmarried women, which has steadily gone up over the last 30 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:21 PM
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Like someone else said, they are single by choice. They'd prefer to remain alone until a man checks off all the boxes on their laundry list of standards. Some are serial daters, some are having casual sex. Whichever way you cut it, they are single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:13 PM
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It seems that people need to play by a different set of rules, depending on how physically attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:55 PM
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That's true. BMI is more of a grey area with men, because they hold more muscle mass, and height is a bigger factor. With women, unless she's one of those rare women with a lot of muscle, BMI is a lot more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:41 PM
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I see. I wonder why I've seen threads on here saying that if you're not fat, you're in the top 20% as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:56 PM
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It is usually the case though. Personally speaking, all women I have interacted with had at least a couple of other dating options. If I wasn't interested, they could quickly find someone else. And by quickly, I mean in the space of 2 weeks at most. Women will have men interested in them throughout their life. I don't think you understand the abundance they have. The privilege of having at least 1 member of the opposite sex who is interested in you at all points of your life is huge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:47 PM
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But that's how the world works. That's why society desperately tries to hide these things from everyone. If people truly grasped how humans behave and the reasons behind it, many people would lose all hope in life and become nihilistic and defeatist. Society can't afford for that to happen. So society has to create hope among the general population by spinning things in a positive light. For example, instead of your looks determining your dating success, it has to be your "personality" because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:41 PM
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Oh right. From what I've read on PPD, you just need to not be overweight and you're already in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:15 PM
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I have never been fat so I don't know. I have always been a normal weight. I guess this means I am in the top 20% according to PPD, so I should be absolutely slaying on online dating as a top 20% male? Except that hasn't happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:03 PM
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It's because they think they will have to be forced into sex with men they aren't attracted to. Then the debate descends into a "my body my choice" "you're not entitled to sex" "no one owes you anything in dating" "sex is not important" shitfest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:02 PM
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Exactly! You just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:50 PM
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In an ideal world yes, but lets face it, there are gender expectations placed on both genders and if you are going to shirk those responsibilities, life will be tough and you'll probably be unattractive to the opposite sex. Even the most radical of feminists desperately want men to pay the bill - that tells you all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:48 PM
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50/50 at this particular speed dating event.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:44 PM
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A word you used. If you don't know what it means, why use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:40 PM
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From my own experience, putting in the work does not help with women, it just improves other aspects of your life. Going to the gym made me stronger, didn't help with women. You got to focus on getting good with women if you want to get good with women. No surprise there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:39 PM
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Does it "literally"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:40 PM
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So why did you say chores need to be split? Many couples don't do that. You're seeing mainstream feminist media and thinking that's what has to be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:37 PM
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Source: your own ass as well. Or these so-called "studies" which you conveniently haven't showed us and are self reported anyway lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:59 AM
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There is no "should" in this. It depends how the man and woman decide to live their relationship. Your post is quite sexist. There are many women who enjoy being housewives, but have been vilified by feminists who think that all women should be career women and never please a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:55 AM
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Men marry for romantic and sexual purposes. They actually enjoy being with women. Women marry for practical purposes of having kids and financial security. Once they got that, they don't need a man anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:51 AM
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Is that like a speed dating event? I went to one of those, thought I got along well with a few of the women, and then zero of them wanted to see me again. I've heard similar horror stories from speed dating events, where men will put in so much effort, think they're getting on really well with a number of the women, then they get nothing. Waste of time in the end. No wonder speed dating events get a majority of women and the male spaces fill up very slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:23 AM
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Create a thread to ask them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:11 AM
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You end up with a situation though where you will improve your personality in these areas, but it will barely help with women, it will just help in other aspects of your life. You can also improve your personality in all these areas, but there's many women who you will simply never be attractive to, whatever you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:07 AM
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Thanks but I already knew all the things in your video anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:50 PM
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What the hell does "levelling up your personality" even mean and how do I know if my personality is "levelled up"? Such vague wishy washy terms that could mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:46 PM
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Big visible tattoos, loud and incredibly annoying behavior all the time, always seeking attention, extreme entitlement, heavy overuse of makeup and other bodily enhancements.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:47 PM
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For those who it doesn't come natural to (the 80% of men), they have to treat it like an equation or formula. For conventionally attractive men and most women, obviously they don't need to treat it like that because it comes naturally to them. People just gravitate towards them and they always have choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:59 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:00 PM
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as i said no downside to working out There is a big downside. The time and effort you put in, that you could be putting into something else. It's called opportunity cost. why would you not want to gain confidence You don't necessarily gain confidence from it. I haven't. be healthy Don't need to push your body with heavy weights to do that. Swimming and walking will do that instead. Bodybuilding is for vanity. nothing else can make you attractive naturally like packing on muscle and losing body f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:04 PM
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Thanks. But I got told that I was using this as a "cop out" not to go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:41 PM
1

Ok. Why is there a big debate over whether women like dad bods these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:29 PM
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This is the problem with posts like this. It always gets someone who says "sounds like you're lazy, sounds like you don't want to put in the effort". Lifting weights to build muscle is very time consuming process over many years, people want to naturally know whether the effort they put in is worth the rewards, or it's a better use of their time to do something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:09 PM
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But if it doesn't solve confidence problems, then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:01 PM
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How far would you agree with this statement regarding lifting weights in the gym: "Girls mostly just date skinny hipsters that have confidence and talent and don't give a fuck. If you have all those things, you get girls when you're jacked or when you're skinny, doesn't really matter. Being muscular will solve none of your problems outside of getting more muscular." This was my experience down to a T. It blows the red pill theory out the water that you need to lift weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:58 AM
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What if you're not fat but still don't have success? Because I'm pretty sure it requires more than just not being fat to have success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:13 PM
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You could create a thread about it? I might create one myself. It's quite strange that the sub is men talking about the current state of women and the dating market, yet the women giving advice on this sub are old women who dated well before social media was around, and in many cases before the internet was even around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:45 PM
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Yeah, but for some reason that's what the women on this sub say. Although the women on this sub are generally married women in their 40's and 50's and have no clue what young people experience these days, because they were young before the internet or in the very early days of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:11 PM
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Every woman on this sub thinks it's either one extreme or the other. Probably because this sub is filled with post wall women who are "done playing games" and looking to find "a real man" who can "step up to the plate" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:53 PM
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They want anything they can get. You are talking as if most men have a choice in the matter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:41 PM
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Why does it have to either be spending the rest of your life together, or cold unfulfilling casual sex? There is a big gap in between those 2 things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:40 PM
1

I see. Well I find it incredibly hard to have sympathy for any female issues when you see the stuff females post on this sub and on FDS about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:38 PM
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They will say "men who give you attention just because they want to use you as a fleshlight doesn't count and isn't what we want".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:37 PM
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Look it up. It's something that gets said quite a bit around here. This is what they have in mind when they're calling you a neckbeard: https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/stereotypes-of-cliquessubcultures/images/b/b1/Neckbeard_%28man%29.png/revision/latest?cb=20200915174610
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:33 PM
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You will never know the true n count of a woman, so discussions about exact numbers is meaningless. You just instinctively know which women have slept with many men and avoid them for relationships. Women who slept with many men advertise themselves in obvious ways and have very obvious red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:31 PM
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I have seen those words used a lot as well. Particularly incel and misogynist - those 2 words have lost all meaning, they are used way too often. Don't forget "neckbeard" too. And really weird advice like "if you just brush your teeth and take a shower, you would get laid" wtf is that all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:11 PM
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This woman seems to at least recognize the struggles a little bit, but yes all other women don't care. I wonder why the women even post on this subreddit in the first place, if they don't understand male struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:51 PM
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I see. Well if that's really the case (which I doubt, but lets assume its true), it really would not be difficult for those women to find any number of willing men out there lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:47 PM
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It's probably just women who are shit in bed and can't work out why their partner would not want to have sex with a bored starfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:06 PM
1

So why do people say you need to be happy alone and sex and relationships don't matter? If you yourself say that people are motivated by people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:38 PM
0

I thought dead bedrooms were caused by women and men always want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:04 PM
1

Probably because incels have genuine issues. Lack of sex and relationships and social interaction is a genuine issue, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 11:34 AM
1

Could you play the victim card any harder? You probably live a comfortable life with no real hardships, that's the sad part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:12 AM
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It's not just 1 interaction though. Almost all the women on this sub are like that, especially the ones who post here regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:30 PM
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Oh ok. Well imagine being a man here and you get told that by women. Must feel pretty shit, right? You talk about your problems and get met with "herp derp no one owes you anything, you're just an asshole". Not helpful to anyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:07 PM
1

Geez that's never happened to me. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:11 AM
1

It was meant as sarcasm - that's what men are always told on here by women, so I thought I would tell it to you. Not sure why you had to downvote me. Could you not tell it was sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:57 AM
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They are either at work, in the gym, in bed hungover from the previous night, getting ready to go out at night, or fucking some hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:28 AM
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Yes, they can earn CEO-level money in order to compensate. That's really attainable for all short men, isn't it? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:07 AM
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They would still gaslight, because they always have their anecdotes "well I know a short fat broke bald man who gets laid all the time".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:05 AM
0

Maybe it's because men can tell you have a negative attitude? If you just weren't an asshole and had more of a positive attitude, you would get more messages. Btw no one owes you anything in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:04 AM
4

What do they "deserve" exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:01 PM
4

Do you think that women view men talking to them as a "privilege" that men must earn, and do you think men think the same way when someone tries talking to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:52 PM
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Must be why assholes get the most sex then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:45 PM
5

Except when you do a catfish experiment with a hot man on online dating, you realize there are a lot of women who will have sex with you straight away. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:11 PM
2

Kind of, yes. It's not healthy for humans to see better looking faces and bodies all the time. That's why a record number of young girls are on mental health medication these days. Too much exposure to better looking people on Instagram and TikTok does that to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:29 PM
6

Why do you measure average in terms of only one metric - obesity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:18 PM
7

I love how you brush off the ability to get people to talk to you whenever you want as nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:46 PM
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Post it on reddit and I guarantee you'd get a lot of DMs. You social media pages are probably viewed by no or almost no men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:57 PM
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Personality matters only once you pass the threshold for looks. If you don't pass that, you won't be considered. That's what women mean when they say looks don't matter. They've already selected for the best looking men, so in their mind, looks don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:39 PM
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hehe, redacted
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:31 AM
4

When is the next purge week going to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:18 AM
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Well my private messages are open OP, if you want to message me :) It's ok to be like that. You just don't fit the stereotypical mold. With a population large enough, there will always be exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 01:52 AM
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The women who post on this subreddit regularly are in their 40's, usually been married for years. They are out of touch with the current landscape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:43 PM
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You will get told by the women here that it's your "negative attitude" that made them ghost you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:37 PM
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Is that another way of saying OP adds no value to these ugly women's lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:35 PM
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It's easy to be social when people want to talk to you. Any woman can post a picture of themselves on here and they'd get 20 DMs that same day, maybe a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:31 PM
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To me, the whole site seems filled with really left wing people who think women and minorities are deeply oppressed in the west and must be given as many privileges as possible, often at the expense of white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:50 PM
1

Well lets also say that women aren't raped because of their gender. Nothing happens because of gender, ever. Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:22 PM
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You know what I mean, don't be facetious. There are fewer safety nets for men and people won't come to the help or protection of men anywhere near as easily as they will with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:55 PM
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Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:56 PM
1

Why is it always assumed that the men who do this are fat neckbeards?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:55 PM
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There is no bar for women. I can't think of any standard they need to meet for a man. Just being a woman and having a pulse will be enough in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:40 PM
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Most of the females who post regularly on this sub are 40+ years old and married. They are unrepresentative of young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:02 PM
1

If red pill is not mainstream, incels definitely are. And black pill probably is too, because incels believe in black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 02:59 PM
1

Men are career focused to impress women and provide for them. Women are career focused so they don't have to depend on a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:05 AM
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Oh. What is it filled with then?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:22 AM
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Bottom 25th percentile for muscle building. Anyway most guys I see in the gym, even if they've been training for a few years (I know because I ask them) have rather unremarkable bodies. I can tell they lift because I'm a gym goer myself, but they won't get heads turning from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:04 PM
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But what if they're not average? Some people will be average, others won't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:54 PM
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You say you think genetics play a role, then in your very next sentence say they will both start with average muscle building genetics. So which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:52 PM
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You must think genetics play no role in anything. We're all born equal, it's just our hard work that makes the difference, 2 men who train identically for identical time will get equal opposite sex attention. Very foolish view. You are beyond saving if you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 05:21 PM
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Can you post stats for males now? Regarding homelessness, crime, suicide and so on. I'd like to compare the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:33 PM
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A normie can see the differences between the two bodies. You would have to be incredibly stupid not to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:31 PM
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Prove it? Look at the damn photos lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:04 PM
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You really are that stupid, aren't you? Bad muscle insertions on Vin Diesel: https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/scaled/2013/03/07/article-2289899-18820E8C000005DC-714_308x185.jpg Good muscle insertions on Chris Hemsworth: https://i.ytimg.com/vi/4MNc8XU3qxI/maxresdefault.jpg Big difference between the two. Diesel's body looks block-like and unaesthetic. Hemsworth's body looks far better. They will be training very similar, lifting weights for muscular hypertrophy. The difference is purely in the mus…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:44 PM
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Reddit is supposed to be filled with intelligent people and there are still people here who believe in the wage gap? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:38 PM
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You mean it happens to female immigrants who try to enter the country in illegal and risky ways? Yeah no shit! This stuff doesn't happen to your average western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:54 PM
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Just accept that muscle insertions and bone structure make a big difference to how good someone can look, lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:52 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:36 PM
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Oh dear, poor you. Men are worthless at every age unless they create value.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:18 PM
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You're focusing on what happens in other cultures as an argument to make female privilege even greater in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:03 PM
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I'm not talking by bodybuilding standards, I'm just talking by normal aesthetic standards. Why did you assume I meant by bodybuilding standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:39 PM
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Projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:47 AM
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It’s because women aren’t even a fraction as horny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:46 AM
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Nope it's not irrelevant. Muscle insertions mean you have nice looking abs, or fuller looking biceps due to a shorter bicep tendon, or a narrow obliques which contribute to a narrower waist. I should have said bone structure too, because that is just as important as muscle insertions, if not more so. You don't want wide hips as a man. You don't want a narrow clavicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:29 PM
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It's important but the things which make a man's physique attractive are largely out of his control - height, muscle insertions, body fat distribution. None of these things can be changed, barring some highly expensive, complicated, risky surgery. That's why it's often not not talked about. Another reason it's not talked about is because society needs men for their productive value. Society is better off when men are working instead of obsessing over their appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:15 PM
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No idea. If you're attracted to the guy, it shouldn't matter anyway, because you'd be happy with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 08:05 PM
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It's also a weird definition of "acceptance" if it consumes your life in such a detrimental way by that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:00 PM
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Right, so they've accepted it, it just consumes most of their life and destroys their mental health (and possibly physical health) in the process. That doesn't sound like fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:20 PM
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None of these groups have accepted it. They are massive coping mechanisms filled with a lot of bitterness, anger and resentment, that often need to be shut down by internet sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:10 PM
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Judging by the massive growth of incels, mgtow and red pill, I think it's hard for most men to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:39 PM
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Yes, but it's more out of hope/coping mechanism, otherwise they'd have to accept that no woman finds them desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:15 PM
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If a woman wants to talk to you online, especially if she reaches out to you first, that's a strong indicator she likes you. Usually it's the only indicator you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:22 PM
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Guys are more than intelligent enough to understand when someone is flirting with them. You'd have to be really really thick to not understand that. Most guys problem is they mistake women's normal friendliness with flirting, because they get no attention from women in the first place, they have to interpret every tiny thing a woman does with them as romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:13 PM
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I've been working out for years. Why did you assume I don't go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:09 PM
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But that's assuming men and women are the same in terms of their sexual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:12 PM
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I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:23 AM
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Oh dear I should have been more specific! Too many people reading weird things into this. Someone else thinks my teeth and gums need cleaning despite me brushing my teeth every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:03 PM
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A 14 year old girl being afraid of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:00 PM
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Who said my teeth and gums need cleaning? I'm talking about masking the taste of a bad tasting liquid or food.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:54 PM
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bad taste
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:53 PM
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No. Which mouthwash is strong enough to mask a bad taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:33 PM
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I messaged a rather ugly girl on POF the other day (who said in her profile "I know I'm not the best looking girl" so even she admitted she was ugly). She was very overweight, whereas I am not. She set rules in her profile for what people could and couldn't say to her. She gave short, rude answers to everything I said. I put myself out of my misery and blocked her. I had a feeling she would block me sooner or later, so better to do it myself. Don't understand why these girls are on online dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:26 PM
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Most women these days seem to have a fetish for black men and you're athletic on top of that, so those things alone put you in Chad category or very close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:17 PM
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Random question - is there anything I can take to mask a bad taste? Like a strong mouthwash or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:15 PM
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Why do the posts where they say they have experienced 0 benefits with women get buried at the bottom of the thread, while the ones who say they received more attention get put at the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:12 PM
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Didn't notice a difference personally. I'd love for my fitness to make a difference with women but it doesn't. I do it for myself now. I know that women aren't bothered either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:41 PM
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Did this actually happen or are you creating a fantasy in your head of what you hoped would happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:39 PM

You buy that and drink it and it masks bad tastes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:33 PM
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No one owes anyone anything, what's the point in saying that? It's just stating the obvious and helps no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:12 PM
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No woman in this sub acknowledges it though (you are the first woman I have seen acknowledge it). All they do is say sex doesn't matter, stop focusing on sex, no one owes you sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:22 PM
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Ok. That's worrying but still doesn't change what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:20 PM

Really, they would mask the taste of a bad liquid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:18 PM
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Yep, that's what it's like for men. You as a morbidly obese woman can get it when you want. Average normal weight man can't do that. Morbidly obese man certainly can't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:21 AM

This is not related to anything to do with sex or relationships or dating, but does anyone know if there's something I can put in my mouth to mask a bad taste? I am thinking some sort of strong mouthwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:14 AM
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The average guy is not getting casual sex. The average guy gets long term girlfriends or stays single. Difference between average guys and incels is average guys don't complain about it. They busy themselves with other areas of life, with the expectation that a girlfriend will come along eventually. Can you strike lucky as an average guy and get casual sex one time in 20 years? Sure, but it's very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:59 AM
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Don't we need permission from society to do things? I thought that was how society worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:06 AM
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Me? I'm not bothered. I'm talking about incels. Women don't want sex with them, so these incels will have dramatically worse quality of life, with worse mental health and that feeds into worse physical health too, possibly with reduced life expectancy and maybe even suicide. But that's ok, sex doesn't matter, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:11 PM
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You realize most women are fine with sex before marriage? Guess you've never interacted with any young women in a big urban city before.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:59 PM
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So you believe sex is only a need in a marriage?? hahahaha oh boy, I've heard it all now!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:39 PM
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Why are you telling incels in the same breath that sex doesn't matter and you don't need sex? Sex has been shown to have positive health benefits and make you live a longer life. By telling incels that it doesn't matter, you're telling them to have a worse quality life and potentially knock years off their life expectancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:31 PM
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No, it's called bad faith when you won't answer a question directly. You're doing what a politician does when they lie. Waste of time arguing with someone like that. Why bother coming to reddit if you're going to argue like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:11 PM
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You are arguing in bad faith. You don't address my question with another question about a separate issue. Good day, arguing with you is clearly pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:57 PM
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I get that we have to adjust to our circumstances. But to just tell incels outright "you don't need sex to be happy, stop thinking about sex" is disingenuous. And while we won't die without sex, we also won't die without social interaction. But your quality of life will be terrible and you'll probably cut years off your life, because loneliness has been shown to cause stress on the heart. Sex also has a number of positive health benefits that help us live longer. So by telling people that sex do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:21 PM
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You do realize male and female sex drives are very different? I don't know if you realize that men have a far greater urge to have sex which is linked to their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:11 PM
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I'm not talking about you, I'm talking about in general. Either none of us need sex or we all need it. To tell incels they don't need sex, then to be having sex yourself, is immensely hypocritical. This isn't even considering that male sex drive is totally different to female sex drive and men have a far stronger urge to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:08 PM
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So why are you telling incels they don't need sex if you'd be miserable without sex yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:59 PM
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I don't know if you're intentionally avoiding my point, so I will say again. Incels are told they don't need sex. Therefore you don't need it either. Either we all need sex or we all don't. It isn't one rule for incels, another for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:48 PM
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So don't get married? Be happy on your own. That's always the advice given here. Those single people would often like sex too. It is an issue for those who don't have it and feel a burning desire to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:45 PM
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Why are you avoiding the point I'm making? If incels are told they don't need sex, then everyone doesn't need sex. We either all need sex or we all don't need sex. It's not one rule for incels, another for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:37 PM
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Incels are told they don't need sex, therefore married couples don't need it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:34 PM
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Or you can just not have sex, like the incels are being told to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 05:30 PM
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Most women would disagree with you. They want men who have experience and are desired by many women. You're angry because it's a double standard that works against you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:39 PM
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How is that trolling? Women who sleep with lots of men have low value in the eyes of men. Men are biologically wired to be disgusted by it, which is why women consistently understate the number of men who they have slept with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:17 PM
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Because men and women are not equal. A woman sleeping with lots of men lowers her value. At worst it keeps a man's value the same, maybe even raises his value.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:04 AM
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Why do you and other women go for them if you don't want them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:22 AM
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Isn't this happening already? That is why Jennifer Lopez and others still look like they're in their late 20's despite being mid 50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:20 AM
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FDS is evidence. Most CMV posts have no evidence, they are just opinions from an OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:25 AM
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So what do I need to change it to? Another CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:21 AM
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It doesn't make logical sense. You would expect an uglier, older woman to have developed her personality (she can't rely on her looks as much), but the ugly women seem to have the worst personalities and most entitled attitudes. Why do you think that is? Men know they must compensate for their lacks of looks with something else (usually money) but women don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:09 AM
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This must be a reason why fertility rates are so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:36 AM
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That doesn't mean they don't like older women if they are given the chance. Any older woman who is open to date younger men will have 100's of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:32 AM
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That's very sad. I wonder why they develop that attitude. It repels men. At least a hot woman could get men even with that attitude. A fat middle aged woman must compensate with a good personality and they don't even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:26 AM
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Why did women fight so hard to get into these corporate roles, at the expense of men, then cry when there aren't enough men in these positions or higher? Doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:39 PM
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Why don't they just live their life instead of crying so hard that they can't find a good man? Doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 07:38 PM
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If older women didn't have such an entitled attitude and come with huge baggage, do you think men would go for older women more often? I often wonder why older women (who look worse than younger women, on average) have higher demands from men than younger women do. Doesn't really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:54 PM
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I've never actively searched for one like my mom. Maybe I want one like her and don't realize it? Not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 02:47 PM
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Oh right. If only you had said that to begin with! I am not sure I have found a woman like my mom yet (or maybe I have and didn't realize).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:26 AM
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just a quick explanation about your initial comment of freud would be rolling in his grave would do. doesn't need to be lengthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:02 PM
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Why don't you just explain yourself instead of making all these snarky, holier than thou comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 08:34 PM
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Someone who studied human behavior and psychology. That's as far as I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 12:24 AM
1

About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:10 PM
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Why is he rolling in his grave at this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:00 PM
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Yes if that's what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 03:40 PM
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They're against traditional gender roles when it suits them. They want to be a cheating whore who does no cooking and cleaning, but they want a man to wine and dine them and open doors for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:58 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:34 AM
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Those things are what a mother does as well. What YOU are saying is there is no difference between a mother and wife in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 05:02 AM
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You're saying you wouldn't make breakfast for Chris Hemsworth, do his laundry and also have sex with him? I call bullshit!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:11 AM
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There are women out there who will care for you like a mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 01:10 AM
1

You don't agree that the world would be overpopulated with 50 billion people if women wanted sex as much as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 10:24 PM
1

I occasionally watch some of Rich Cooper's (Entrepreneurs in Cars) videos and he's been coming out with a few videos recently about "the end of the west" and how the west is "going to hell" or "going to shit". But in all the videos, he is really cryptic and doesn't explain what will actually happen or how it will "end". He doesn't explain how to prepare for this "end" because he doesn't want to "give his strategy away to the opposition". Has he gone crazy or am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:42 PM
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My idea of a woman is someone who cares for me, almost in the same way a mother would, and has strong desire for me sexually. This is the idea of a woman I like. But women never fit this idea for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 08:38 PM
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also you mention they masturbate less which total bs, they actually masturbate MORE No they don't: http://www.catherinehakim.org/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/2015-IntSoc-MaleSexualDeficit.pdf Please can you explain to me how, if women wanted sex as much as men, we didn't overpopulate the world pre-birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 02:01 PM
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Why do people say "unpack"? Is this a new word that people started to use. I have seen it a lot, whereas a few years ago it was a word I never saw used.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:39 PM
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I get that. But the topic will be about one issue (eg. women cheating) and then some woman will come in "well what about rape and assault?". Just disregarding the topic of discussion and talking about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 05:42 AM
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Not totally separate issues and ignoring the issues being raised. No point debating at all if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:30 PM
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Those are a tiny fraction of the experiments and data that are provided. But now you mention it, those chadfishing experiments are a great way to see how large numbers of women operate on online dating sites. It was a real eye opener to me, as I'm sure it was to many other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 10:00 PM
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The general idea with debate is you're supposed to debate the topic at hand, rather than constant deflection and emotional outrage, which is what I mostly see on this sub. This is after the OP usually provides studies and data to back up their points, yet it is always disregarded for "what about -insert unrelated issue-, what about -insert unrelated thing men do-". To me it is disappointing to see such a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 09:56 PM
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These men provide plenty of data and studies to back up their points. Are you saying all that data is a load of nonsense? I see no data and studies provided by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:00 PM
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I noticed that the responses on most threads in this sub are posted in an angry tone. OP will say "women are like this" with plenty of data to back it up, and all he is met with is anger/vitriol or "what about X" where X is something unrelated that men do, which shifts the focus of the topic away from its original focus. Why is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:14 PM
1

It's because women are not attracted to men who use women for validation. They use men for validation, but they don't want men to do the same to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:45 PM
1

It is how it works. That is the definition of alpha widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:35 PM
5

I am not discussing men. The question was about women. You have not addressed anything about women here yet. I'm waiting for you to do that. Why do women feel entitled to a high value man who pays for them? All I see in FDS is entitlement after entitlement "men should be this, how dare these low value men even look in my direction, I know my worth". No self improvement, nothing. They feel as if they are owed everything and must extract as much as they can from a man. Very sad to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:36 PM
1

Bullshit. Stop blowing things out of proportion. Can't argue with idiots like you who take silly extreme views and use them as an argument. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 08:33 PM
3

This is being told to men on reddit who are not imposing anything on women. I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 07:32 PM
4

When women tell men all the time "you're not entitled to sex, you're not entitled to a girlfriend, you're not entitled to anything in dating", why is FDS filled with women who feel they are entitled to a high value man who treats her like a queen and pays for everything, just for existing? I don't understand. Women are guilty of everything they tell men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 06:53 PM
10

Now ask an unfortunate looking lesbian why she isn't buying women's OF. Chances are, she'll tell you that she does not feel truly desired when she's paying a woman to pretend to be attracted to her. I must have a female mindset then, because I also do not feel truly desired when paying a woman to pretend to be attracted to me. I visited escorts twice before and the experience was terrible. It feels weird and wrong to pay someone to pretend to like you. It's not something I want to do ever again.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:26 PM
1

Probably after he spent way more on you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:44 AM
2

Just ghost the whole person because they do something tiny "wrong"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:58 PM
2

It's a legitimate question in this age of equality. Why can a woman be insecure things and it won't affect her attractiveness, but it's an attraction killer if a man is insecure about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:47 PM
8

Why the use of silly manipulation like that? Pretending that something is wrong when it isn't. That's like the boy who cried wolf. We all know how that story turned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 11:37 PM
-5

I should have said in my OP "have children or raise some children". Because typically in caveman days, women would collectively raise all the children of the tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 08:03 PM
2

Are you going to spend any of that money on him? No, thought not. "I bring money to the table but you're having absolutely none of it. You must earn 56% more than me in order for me to find you attractive and fulfil my hypergamous desires".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:11 PM
2

So I just have to care about women's money and women will want me?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:10 PM
1

I saw an interesting thread a couple of weeks ago but I forgot the link to it. However, with this post, I know that you won't believe any data that's shown to you and just discredit it and continue believing what you want to believe, so there's no point showing you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:08 PM
9

They also destroy the climate by eating more and putting more strain on resources and production.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 02:05 AM
15

Men don't care about the money you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 12:26 AM
4

Yes there is data in the r/dataisbeautiful subreddit which shows that that inequality has got even worse. Now it's something like 95/5 on Tinder rather than 85/15 which was the case 6-7 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:28 PM
1

Interesting how we tell men to control their urges and learn self control, but when women have sex when it feels best and disregard the consequences, well it must be the man's fault for getting her pregnant. Lets absolve her of all responsibility because she must always do what's best in the moment! Anyway I'm done arguing here. If you're not going to use any sort of birth control or protection whatsoever, and have sex during the most fertile time and not abort or use morning after pill, well no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:12 PM
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Interesting how you covered the first 3 points of what I said but not the last 3. Even if you don't follow the first 3, it's still difficult to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:28 AM
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- Numerous forms of birth control for the woman (in before your list of excuses not to use them) - Condoms for men - Pull-out method for men - Morning after pill - Can only get pregnant for ~5 days per month - Abortion if you are desperately unlucky to follow all these precautions and still fall pregnant What part of that is easy to get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:43 AM
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You're missing the general point, which is that it's difficult to get pregnant. This subreddit has a habit of being autistic about everything and analyzing every tiny detail, rather than seeing the bigger picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:35 AM
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Sounds like you don't want to take birth control. Even if you don't take any birth control, there is a) condoms b) morning after pill c) abortions in extreme circumstances d) avoid having sex on those 4-5 days when you're ovulating. It's difficult to get pregnant, all things considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:17 AM
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The women I've spoken to all say they know their cycle pretty accurately. If in doubt, if you feel very horny for about 4-5 days each month, that's when you're ovulating. Then there is birth control, condoms, morning after pill. All things considered, it's difficult to get pregnant unless you're actively avoiding all these precautions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 01:12 AM
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Modern birth control makes it almost impossible to get pregnant. You can also only get pregnant for about 5 days a month. If you know your own cycle, which most women do, just avoid having sex on those days as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:28 PM
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But modern birth control means you never have to get pregnant. Getting pregnant can only happen for about 5 days a month + if you use the pill + a condom, it's virtually impossible to get pregnant if you choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 03:19 PM
1

You can usually just tell by looking at a woman and observing her behaviour for 30 seconds whether or not she's had a decent amount of casual sex or had Chad boyfriends. The obvious signs are: - any masculine, extrovert woman - any woman who loves using heavy makeup on a regular basis - any woman who uses instagram in a big way to flaunt herself - any woman with a decent number of visible tattoos
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 05:08 AM
1

Most guys go months or years without sex and not through choice either. They have to masturbate instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 05:42 AM
3

A drunk girl has to get off her face on alcohol to have sex with you. She wouldn't do it with you when she's sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:19 AM
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The only sex that's worth having is sex with an enthusiastic woman, otherwise you're better off masturbating by yourself. If you have to put in mountains of effort to get some sex with a woman who doesn't really want it with you, you're better off not bothering at all. The prize at the end of it is underwhelming and not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:30 AM
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Well if you want to go to all that effort (and big discomfort if you're an introvert) just to get some sex with a fat ugly drunk girl, go ahead. Seems pointless to me. I've had sex with a couple of fat escorts before (the type of girl you'd see at a party or club) and it wasn't that enjoyable. Not worth going to all this effort over. If you actually enjoy partying and clubbing, it's fine, but just doing this to get laid seems sad. You'll get to the point of getting laid and realize it's underwhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:08 AM
3

All that just to get a bit of sex with probably a fat ugly drunk girl lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 09:26 PM
4

Why do men even choose that? Being with a woman who lies there and doesn't want to be there is not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:31 PM
1

What is a hooker level amount of desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:10 PM
3

There are guys who I see pay $200 just to send a superchat into shows like Fresh and Fit. They pay $200 just to parrot some red pill quote. Why do they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:10 PM
1

Which jobs bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:51 PM
1

The aspects of a man's looks that determine his success are largely genetic. You can't change height - over 50% of CEOs are 6ft or taller, the vast majority of US presidents have been 6ft or taller. You can't create a masculine face. You can't change your muscle insertions (good muscle insertions are crucial for a good looking body if you work out). All these things are genetic sadly, or require extremely expensive and risky surgery. Women just need makeup, hair extensions, padded underwear and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 02:17 PM
1

Ok. What do you want a man to do for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:28 PM
2

Well there are things you want a man to do for you, right? Men likewise have things they want a woman to do for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:46 PM
2

I have seen several posts on here saying that men want a woman who is their "mommy bangmaid". Basically a woman who looks after him but also has hot kinky sex with him. It seems like women don't want to be this for a man. So which of these would she prefer to be for her man - the mommy or the bangmaid? Or does she want to be something else entirely?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 08:33 PM
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Personally if a woman makes me wait months for sex, I lose interest. If I get sex early, I don't have any less interest in her. In fact I like her more. This is what women fail to understand. If he likes you, he will still like you after sex on the first/second date. By making him wait and wait, you just make him annoyed and frustrated. It shows that you don't really like him that way, but you want to string him along to get him to do favours for you. He can still ghost you after sex, even if he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 05:30 PM
1

No they don't though. They can't afford to because they have so few options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:45 PM
1

Women treat men as completely disposable these days, as if they can just discard them and another one will be waiting for her. And it's true - they can do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 02:42 PM
1

why hopefully?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:48 PM
1

That's incredibly depressing. On the other side of the coin, men can be physically attracted to almost any woman. Even grotesque landwhales.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 09:24 PM
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So stick your head in the sand because you can't face reality? Not a good way to live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 03:20 PM
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I was wondering that too. I don't think we will get an answer from him. I think he's chatting sh*t lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:28 PM
1

All women or just a subset of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:14 PM
1

I'm not just referring to Tinder (didn't think I had to spell that out but clearly I do). I am referring to the whole of online dating - all sites - as well as real life sex and dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:13 PM
2

Why are they terrible company?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:27 AM
2

Companionship maybe? Although not sure how many people get with each other for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:52 AM
2

When you say guys, do you mean all guys or just those who are part of the manosphere and red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:48 AM
2

Ouch really? 99% of women going for 1% of men. If it is that bad, well I don't know what to say. It surely can't be this bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 04:47 AM
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Why are they even using online dating in that case? Because it's impossible to tell their aura in a static photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 02:35 AM
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The attractiveness of the woman doesn't matter. Men will have sex with anything. A 6/10 is hardly unattractive either. It sounds like you don't understand how male sex drive works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:30 AM
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Because I want to know the truth? What a silly thing to say! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 01:16 AM
4

What is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:07 AM
7

Really? Wow. Do we have the data anywhere? It must have been posted somewhere on this sub or elsewhere in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:06 AM
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Then that would mean there is no interaction at all between anyone. But the pandemic is clearly an exception and I'm talking about normal life. I got them from this subreddit and the manosphere. The idea is that the majority of the women are chasing after a minority of the men. No offense but do you even frequent this sub? 80/20 rule is talked about here almost endlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 12:04 AM
2

Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:51 PM
2

Why would that change things regarding the 80/20 rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:49 PM
1

Women who take anabolic steroids for bodybuilding have had their sex drives increased to be on par with men. They are still hypergamous and picky about who they have sex with. So no, all that increasing women's libido would do is increase their sexual desire for men they're already attracted to - which is a very small percentage of men (80/20 rule or 90/10 rule, whatever you want to call it).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 11:30 PM
1

Does the money turn the woman on sexually? She gets more aroused in bed if the man has a bigger bank account?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 06:27 PM
1

But does money make the man more SEXUALLY attractive? That's the OP's point. If a man looked ugly, could the money be used as a substitute for sexual arousal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:39 PM
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So you DO need to be physically attractive. Kind of proving the OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 02:48 PM
3

The only avenue to realistically pursue it is going to bars, clubs and parties and finding drunk girls. Online is impossible unless you're really attractive or strike incredibly lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 01:53 AM
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They should have sex for pleasure and/or making babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:27 PM
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And the dudes who pay female Twitch streamers $$$ just because they are pretty and want their name mentioned in the biggest donators list. That's just incredibly sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:25 PM
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Men will never turn down sex if they're not having any already. It's not in a man's nature to turn down sex. Male nature is to have sex and spread their genes. So if there is a rise in sexless men, it is being forced upon them by someone or something. We just have to determine what that thing is. That thing is obviously women. Then we have to ask why women are causing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 08:39 PM
2

Yes it's extremely sad to see great replies get deleted because "lol automod please". You have to "disagree with the OP" otherwise your comment is not "worthy" of being posted as a separate comment. Utterly ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 07:47 PM
2

Why is it banned "for good reason"? Looks are the most important thing in dating and arguably the most important thing in life in general. Good looking people have an easier time, generally speaking. While you can improve looks, you have a genetic limit to how far you can improve them. I don't see why this is controversial and banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 11:56 PM
1

So the message content doesn't matter, just how good looking the guy is. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 10:16 PM
1

People over-analyse things because they're forced to. A genuinely physically attractive person doesn't need to come to this subreddit, let alone analyse these things in great detail, because they attract people naturally as they live their life. For the ugly introverts, they don't, so everything needs to be micro-analysed so they can have at least a little bit of dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 09:33 PM
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People are naturally more friendly and more open to women - both other women and men. People view most men with suspicion until they prove themselves. There are many genuine male loners in society, who no one even wants to associate with or be around. Women will always have someone who wants to be around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:39 PM
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I created a fake profile of a female myself. The majority of men sent respectful messages and didn't just say "hey bby wanna fuk?" or similar. Although if you advertise yourself in a way that makes you look slutty and trashy, you should expect those messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:13 PM
1

How do you inspire it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 08:35 PM
1

Women never have lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 05:15 PM
1

Women just need to have enthusiastic sex with a man. The bar isn't very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:52 PM
1

I would feel sad that I can't fill that void in her life of good sex that she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:33 PM
1

It happened because of modern feminism - women want the benefits of being a man, but the privileges of being a woman. Men see this is a shit deal for them. They are still expected to adhere to their gender roles, but women don't have to adhere to theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:02 PM
1

How many women actually watch porn? Whenever threads about women and porn come up, the responses are either "women aren't into watching porn" or "women read erotic literature". It feels like women don't need to watch porn, because they can get plenty of male attention and boyfriends in real life. Men watch porn because they have to. It's men who can't get laid in the real world who watch the most porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:54 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 05:08 AM
2

The ridiculous prices they pay just to pretend to be liked. It's really sad to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:49 PM
1

It isn't happening to any able-bodied guy on this subreddit though. If this is true, it is a hugely rare exception that is equivalent to winning to lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:15 PM

I know, but some people enjoy certain aspects of their job. Just thought it might make SOME difference if the guy was attractive or he made you orgasm. But you are telling me there is no difference at all and it's all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 01:13 PM
2

Definitely attention seeking and chasing fame. No way that's actually real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 02:15 AM
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I try asking giving this logic to men in the real world who visit strippers and pay for sex. They say that it's fun for them, they are doing it for their own pleasure and they are paying for the fantasy. I know it's a sad way to look at it. Paying all that money so a woman pretends to like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:07 AM
1

So all the sex is exactly the same, you never enjoy one guy over another?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 12:00 AM
1

Thanks. I'll try but I can't imagine getting a much higher rating than I already did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:51 PM
1

Does it make a difference fucking an attractive guy as an escort?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:52 AM
1

Does this mean male 3's and 4's can't get anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:51 AM
1

How do you find a way out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:48 AM
1

I did 6 tests on there, getting 3 votes each time (except for one which I got 7 votes for). My average was 4.55. Do you think that's accurate? I was only smiling in 1 of the photos (that photo got the 3rd worst rating).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:45 AM
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I did 6 tests on there, getting 3 votes each time (except for one which I got 7 votes for). My average was 4.55. Do you think that's accurate? I was only smiling in 1 of the photos (that photo got the 3rd worst rating).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:44 AM
1

What would it take? I imagine going out to bars, parties and clubs every weekend, approaching as many women as possible. Constant swiping on all the online dating apps. Also being in fantastic shape. Even then, I can imagine you'd only be having sex with 3's, 4's and 5's at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:11 AM
1

Or perhaps he had a good attitude and realized women were not any more attracted to him compared to when he had a bad attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 11:49 PM
0

Why do they try to conform to unrealistic beauty standards? We all know men will fuck fat ugly trollops with no makeup, so there's no point in them wearing makeup when they can get male attention whatever they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 02:55 PM
1

Men don't have any power in the dating market. Women are the selectors. That's why they can demand things but men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:41 PM
1

Red pill tells men to ignore women as a strategy to get women. Haven't you heard that? They tell men to stop focusing on women and women will come to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:04 PM
1

It's not about how old you are, it's about how old you look and your life experience. But mainly how old you look. If you look young, you can date much younger. If you look old, you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:01 PM
1

Nothing. But use proper english please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:57 PM
2

Can you speak normally please
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 04:15 PM

Why do women feel "empowered" by selling naked pics online to random lonely men, or charging men in the real world to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:48 PM
1

Ok fair enough. I love how we're always told not to judge a book by its cover.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:47 PM
1

Do you know why? I've literally never seen a good looking autistic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:30 AM
1

Can you sum that up for me? I can't be bothered to read it :P
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:29 AM
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I'm curious - why do you never see beautiful looking autistic people? All autistic people I've seen looked physically average or worse than average. Never good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:03 PM
7

All love is conditional, even your mother's love. It's conditional on you being her child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:58 PM
1

Cool thanks! Interesting how you would want to fool around as long as your biology and life allow for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 03:57 PM
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