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How can men "explore" their sexuality?

September 4, 2022
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We often hear in this day and age women talking about "exploring their sexuality", "discovering themselves", "learning things about themselves", phrases like that. And for the most part, they are able to do this these days, at least in the west (not sure about in other countries).

However, what about for men? Are they able to explore their sexuality and if so, how? We are living in the age of equality between the sexes, so I assume they can somehow.

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Title How can men "explore" their sexuality?
Author BumblingBeta
Upvotes 1
Comments 36
Date September 4, 2022 7:15 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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[–]250umdfail 2 points3 points  (22 children) | Copy Link

Join a kink club. Every major city in the US has a thriving scene. Just be prepared to lower your standards, like a lot.

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (21 children) | Copy Link

What happens in a kink club? Is that like a swingers club?

When you say lower your standards a lot, is it full of old fat ugly women or something?

[–]250umdfail 4 points5 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Swingers events are usually invite only, mainly rich men and their trophy wives. As a man you get invited for only two reasons: you have a hot wife, or you're hot and hung yourself.

Kink community is far more accepting. The initial events are usually a casual social meetup at a bar, and you'll have to work your way up from there by making friends and connections.

And yes, the kink community tends to be fat and unattractive. If you're an average man you'll get opportunities to explore your sexual side, but with way below average women. Attractive people usually avoid these public events, and have their own exclusive parties.

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Ok thanks. Although I just searched swingers clubs in my city and there's one where people are allowed to join, but they charge single men more, and it's a yearly membership.

[–]250umdfail 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Those are scams, usually a sausage fest. Use FetLife to find the good ones. Many of them are free, or require a ticket per event, no membership fees.

[–]ElectricBugs 2 points3 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Hey us old fat ugly women deserve sex too

[–]BumblingBeta[S] -1 points0 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

Interesting how men are told to lose weight and hit the gym on purplepilldebate, then get called an incel and told that sex doesn't matter. You wouldn't ever see a woman get told that.

[–]ElectricBugs -1 points0 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

Probably because we aren't whining about not getting laid and being violent towards men as a result

[–]SDW137 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sex tourism (without engaging in human trafficking) either abroad or visiting escorts here in the states. Or going to a brothel in Nevada.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

by having a homosexual sexuality

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 2 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

Men already do it.Hire prostitute.At least some women are willing to give you sex early because " empowering or whatever" so enjoy it

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough. Do you want to explore your sexuality and are you able to?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

Lol.It is just for man

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I mean, for you personally, would you want to explore your own sexuality? If you were living in a different culture which allowed you to do that. Maybe with a member of One Direction? ;)

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

I am not going to do because it ruin and makes you useless.At the end of day,guy will leave you and you will watch him being good partner you dreamt of to someone else.

[–]SilentFroggy 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

I think it’s just an excuse for women to rack up their bodycounts and not feel ashamed for it.

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah that's true I guess.

[–]Comfortable-Unit-897 -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do your thing! Buy some high end male toys, wear sexy underwear, do yourself. You may find that having a woman is a pain. If I let another woman in my life, she will be incredible.

[–]RStonePTRedPill -1 points0 points  (13 children) | Copy Link

Why do you want to live like a woman so bad?

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 1 point2 points  (12 children) | Copy Link

That's living like a woman?

[–]RStonePTRedPill -1 points0 points  (11 children) | Copy Link

We often hear in this day and age women talking about

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 1 point2 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Well yeah but doesn't mean men can't live like that too. It just seems to get more openly discussed by women.

[–]RStonePTRedPill 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

Why do you want to live like a woman so bad?

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 0 points1 point  (7 children) | Copy Link

I mean by sex right ? Like I come from a very sexually conservative country (read Muslim country) and like some guys especially in college do flirt with girls and even have sex ( only anal because of the holy loophole) so I can't imagine it is harder especially since western women are far more romantic and less materialistic than middle eastern ones

Like the people in my country who "explore their sexuality" are by no means chads they are at best average I got a few compliments from women here and there and I am 5,7 with a bit of muscle and a nice face and a kind personality so if I wanted I could too ( but my family will literally cut my balls if they found out my family preach equity in this regard)

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

That sounds like you need to be decent looking with good social skills.

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I suppose so but not a requirement it is ( this is in my country) about knowing the right crowd and just being out there naturally being decent looking is a plus but most of us are average looking so there is that but I will say having good social skills is important

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough. I wonder why the incel population has grown in the west in the last 10-15 years? Things sound quite good where you live.

[–]darksoul1622NeutralPill 3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Trust me they are not between war economic recession and being on the verge of civil war things are definitely not good

and in general people don't have casual sex where I'm from and it could be quite dangerous for the woman honour killing is still a thing in my country unfortunately Plus most men can't afford to get married which is how men get sex in my country

honestly when I read through this subreddit I just realised how first world problems are so ridiculous and miniscule compared to ours, all due respect to you and the incel community give me a fucking break you are always going poor me poor me man pour me a drink my brother I wish my biggest problem is that I can't get my dick wet and evil feminazi not fucking isis but sorry about the rant it just to help you put things into perspective

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Sorry dude.

You can’t put the words “anal” and “holy loophole” in the same sentence and not expect immature sniggering from idiots like me…

[–]Super-Peoplez-S0Lt 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women in the "west" (whatever the fuck that is) are no more romantic or no less materialistic than any other women around the world.

[–]Siukslinis_acc 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

There are a lot of male sex toys aviable.

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy Link

There certainly are. Are they at the level of female sex toys? They have wands, vibrators, rabbits and everything.

[–]LiterallyAFknTroll 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Dude they have robot women now

[–]BumblingBeta[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Robot women aren't quite at an advanced enough level to seem real. It will probably take another 10-20 years before they are somewhat realistic to a human, maybe longer.

[–]LiterallyAFknTroll 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

So what? Thats better than a fleshlight, dildo or vibrator. And u can fuck the robot while u watch porn. Arousal is more visual for men anyways

[–]Pilling_it 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Well, find a niche I suppose, and don't be too demanding on the physical side of things. If you're well into a given kink that will probably be a good bonus for women into it too. not a guarantee, but that's the closest of an actual advice I can give you

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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