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CMVFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:51 AM
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CMVFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:50 PM
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Fit-Faithlessness149/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:44 PM
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DiscussionFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:27 AM
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Fit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:40 PM
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CMVFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:05 PM
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DiscussionFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:40 PM
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CMVFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:29 AM
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Fit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:17 AM
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Fit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:45 AM
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DiscussionFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:21 PM
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Question For WomenFit-Faithlessness149/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:35 PM
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Based
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 03:04 AM
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And the entitlement and strength and independence of women is propped up artificially by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:29 AM
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If political orientation is actually listed on their profile and we are assuming that we are using online dating apps that I would think liberal men are more successful because it seems to me the vast majority of women are leftist. I've ran into a few conservative women but not many who actually list it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:22 AM
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How ridiculous that a channel can be banned just because it doesn't worship women.
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 01:03 PM
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I'm a dude, that makes me less desirable than most land whales
/r/AllPillDebate21/02/23 04:23 AM
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As the whitest of the white (a redhead) why isn't everyone chasing me?
/r/AllPillDebate20/02/23 10:41 PM
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Much in the same way that red pill says to avoid marriage at all costs, a more general rule is don't put yourself in legally perilous situations with women you don't know or trust. It inevitably comes back to bite you based on the propensity of so many women who avoid accountability at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:12 PM
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You do understand that more people are killed by blue pill men and women due to relationships gone bad than are killed by incels? You're far more likely to be killed by your loving partner than an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:58 AM
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What on earth makes you claim that most men aren't supposed to reproduce? You act like this is some law written down in mother nature.
/r/AllPillDebate11/02/23 01:36 AM
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I'm single and seeing two women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:21 PM
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Doesn't this also lend credence to the notion that multiple women are seeing the same guy? Knowingly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:17 AM
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Pump and dump
/r/AllPillDebate09/02/23 10:00 PM
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If fat slobs are getting matches what does that tell you about who is matching with them? Women enjoy a good 3 to 4-point handicap in online dating. It's not the gorgeous women that are matching with the fat slobs it's the fat slob women that are matching with them. And maybe the men view them as beneath their tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 09:34 PM
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Except if you go to any of the other dating subreddits you'll see a vast majority of women complaining about how every man takes the conversation to sex too soon or every man pretends they want a relationship but then dumps them after having sex. So not every woman will sleep with a hot man immediately but they all complain about the behavior of these fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:51 PM
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Trust me I'm not lacking in sexual prowess or experience. When I think about one woman being better in one way than another it usually had more to do with their willingness and desire to explore new things with me. Their willingness to push limits and explore anal or BDSM. I've had a couple girls decide that they want to figure out how to give me the best blowjob I've ever had. They both succeeded because I remember both. I've been with a number of girls who squirt but there's only one who reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:35 PM
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I saw an interview with some professor where he claims the best way to battle it is not via software that recognizes a deepfake but rather all media being tagged with encrypted credits. This way the source can be traced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 10:15 PM
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I like me a noticeable snoz on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:26 AM
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Women's empowerment and equality is propped up by artificial constructs of society. If society collapses so does their empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:53 PM
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Men are superficial but they are still way less superficial than women. The entire cosmetic and fashion industry is made for women and it's not done to impress men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:47 AM
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I think the major stumbling block on dating apps is that women do not generally have an on/off switch for attractiveness in men. Men are much more forgiving with looks and know what they can generally find attractive immediately. Women on the other hand usually will only find someone attractive after time of getting to know the man. They need a warming up period. OLD doesn't allow for this. So you have a triple edged sword with OLD where women are far outnumbered, require a warming up period and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:15 AM
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Probably for the same reason that women fetishize height. It fulfills a psychological need that has been bred into us over generations.
/r/AllPillDebate31/01/23 11:05 AM
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Comparison can be a thief of joy. Even as a man I think back to certain lovers who were better at one thing or another sexually speaking and miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:18 PM
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It's not delusional if he simply isn't desperate for your approval or a relationship. Men don't need to have tons of options to carry themselves with self-respect and to deny women of simping behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:49 AM
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Dunning Kruger in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 09:18 PM
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I have mentioned it in the past about your observation of rising income inequality and the need for dual incomes for sustainable living. There are so many women that want men who earn more than them. However women are earning in parity to men these days if not sometimes exceeding. If they stick with this standard this already limits the population of eligible bachelors. They also ask themselves why would I want to live with someone who earns less when I can just live on my own without having to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:41 AM
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Women don't say yes to going on a date based on emotional maturity and treating you as an equal and all the other BS you espouse. It takes time to learn if somebody is that kind of person. What do women look for when saying yes to going out on a date? I'll let you think long and hard about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:10 PM
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So if a woman ghosts it's because the man is a terrible lay. If a man ghosts it's because the man is a terrible person. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 11:03 PM
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Dude I was married for 20 years. It was great until it wasn't. I held on too long and she initiated divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:19 PM
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While I agree that women have more options and it's easier to get in a relationship, I think a bigger reason is that women tend to be less stoic than men. Men will hold onto a relationship long after it should have died out of a sense of stoicness and loyalty which is an inherent part of so-called toxic masculinity. Something few women are taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:59 PM
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Your first mistake is assuming that there is such a thing as a average woman. They are all stunning and brave and beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:30 AM
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I have already successfully passed on my genes. I have two teen boys. I do agree to a point with the OP. I am concerned for the future of my sons. As a result of this I work hard and earn a good living and tend to vote for Democrats and want society to take care of everybody. I want a clean environment and I want global warming to be dealt with so that there is a healthy ecosystem for the future of my son's and their children. If I didn't have kids I would be selfish as fuck and try to lower my …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:11 AM
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I have a hard time believing that you're that bad looking. Would you mind sending me a picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 12:15 PM
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I think your post shows you know very little about them and are just feeding stereotypes
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 03:37 PM
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By him voicing this experience it shows how toxically masculine and privileged he is. /S
/r/AllPillDebate13/01/23 03:12 PM
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A woman who has been ran through by 50 different men shows an inability to bond in any meaningful long-term way and has a blatant disregard for her own sexual and psychological health.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:21 AM
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True but how many relationships can one really have? You are certainly much more limited compared to the number of hookups you could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:40 AM
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Not true. Plenty of fat women and chubby women have men dating them and there are entire genres of porn for them. Not the same for ugly men or even fat men.
/r/AllPillDebate05/01/23 06:17 PM
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Truth
/r/AllPillDebate05/01/23 06:15 PM
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High body count low relationship count
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:26 PM
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This needs to be said more often. There is a market for it. Something has changed in dating dynamics. It's either the men or the women. The men have proven to be more resistant to change in terms of what they desire for a partner. There is no doubt that women are what has changed over the last 20 years or so. I think men are finding they are not very fond of the way women have changed and women seem to be desiring something new than what they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:08 AM
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If a sizable enough portion of men are not getting their needs met then this is a societal problem. The only people that will endeavor to fix this problem of the people who feel frustration and pain from the problem. If it becomes big enough it will become a political driving force. It may lead to societal change or it may lead to societal violence. Being able to have loving relationships gives you a buy-in into society. Without that you are essentially external of society and thus have no use f…
/r/AllPillDebate04/01/23 01:35 AM
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Because the vast majority of age gap relationships are older men with younger women. This is really the only type of relationship most people care about because the woman is always a victim unless she has the power in the relationship according to most feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:53 PM
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Remember that fat chick who walked through and couldn't find a "real man"? Every damn one of us earned $99,000 a year and were 5'11with 5.99 inch penises but she wasn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:28 AM
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While I agree to an extent, my ex wife rarely wore makeup. I remember a mutual friend once mentioning this behind my back and how she could be so much prettier. So some dudes seem to expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:37 PM
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Nope. I don't mind slightly overweight at all since most women are slightly overweight. I'm a face guy anyway. Love a pretty feminine face. Especially large eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:11 PM
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Hell no. I'll be damned if my femme bot is going to start fucking Chad's
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:46 AM
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Another thing women are ignoring is that even if a 30-year-old woman is more fertile and more likely to have live offspring today. This was not necessarily true during our hunter-gatherer times. 30 years old in those times with food being sparse and hard living means that a 30-year-old 100,000 years ago was not as healthy as a 30-year-old today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:31 AM
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My ex wife and I met back in the early 90s. She wasn't my type in terms of looks but she had a great personality, we clicked and she pursued me to some extent. It was refreshing to get attention from a woman rather than having to coax it out. Obviously my choices were limited by school and work rather than a 100 mile radius from OLD so I dated her. Drive a couple hours to her college every weekend to see her. Got married after 18 months. The marriage I wasn't sure about, it was just the thing yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:58 PM
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She's a solid 6 or 7 given that she has minimal makeup. Lose a little weight on the face and she's an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:30 PM
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Oh yes I see the organic female is evolving back into a crab-like state
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:50 PM
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Everybody wants to be a Chad but don't nobody want to date no heavy ass chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:27 AM
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Short guy is such a manlet bwahahaha. He really needs to try to height max.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:16 AM
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If I say no then that would prove I'm an incel🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:28 AM
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Not anymore. Now it means anybody who dares say anything remotely straying from the "women are wonderful" narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:17 AM
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And cute feets
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:43 AM
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You wouldn't dare parade around in front of me with this in poster form in real life. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:48 PM
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The wall actually is a societal thing. It was an attempt to get women married off and having children as quickly as possible so they wouldn't become spinster's. This is why girls were having kids as young as 14 and 16 back in the 19th century and earlier. If you were a single woman in her mid-20s back then you were considered a spinster and probably had something wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:52 PM
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I like it how you can take a male supermodel and put glasses on him and that makes him a nerd. Basically every guy in there is a Chad of one type or another and they use it as proof that women like all kinds of guys. In actuality women like all kinds of chads.
/r/AllPillDebate30/12/22 12:26 AM
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I just think the women on the scale of 7-10 are out of everyones reach because they will never settle and just get passed around. This takes like 25% of the women out of the running and all other achieve a handicap that slides them 2-3 rungs up the ladder. This is why hardly any men commit because they are not matching with their perceived peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:43 PM
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I don't know I think I see a lot more misandry out there than misogyny. I see anything and everything blamed on men. Let's see how that works out for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:33 PM
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Are you sure about that? Maybe if women would up their game and improve themselves to men's liking then they would find men committing to them left and right. Maybe they need to lose weight, stop sleeping around, learn how to be a lady, accentuate their femininity and downplay their masculinity, learn to do the things that men look for in women. But you'll never see those articles being written. It seems like we're in a prisoners dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:15 PM
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There's plenty of women complaining that men don't want to commit to them. That all men just want sex but don't want to love the women for who they are. So as far as I can tell women are having the same problem the only difference is they can get attention and sex much easier but at the end of the day they can't keep the guy and make him stick around. Of course this is the fault of the men and never the women. There must be something wrong with the men why they won't stick around rather than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:10 PM
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Could you imagine multiple news segments and articles talking about how women need to step up and become more attractive to men for relationships? The reverse is happening right now and women just not at it without realizing the double standard and how they would outright lose their shit if the roles reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:01 PM
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Believe me I'm no trad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:03 AM
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I know a lot of women who are on pills and booze who are not stay at home moms. I think it's ridiculous how so many of you younger women believe that all the women were miserable slaves prior to women entering the workforce. Things were just different and mentalities were just different. There is more depression and loneliness today than there ever was back then even with all the options people supposedly have nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:35 AM
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Sorry I didn't realize you were the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:33 AM
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You're right that the majority of women aren't looking for a guy to be a stay-at-home dad. Have you ever thought that maybe a lot of men aren't looking for women to be professionals? Women have more options because it is more socially acceptable for a woman to be a stay-at-home mom or to be a business professional. The same cannot be said for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:30 AM
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I have no advice. These are just things that I hear and observe. Women have more options now than men. There are very few men that are stay-at-home dads and most men would be shamed and shunned if they were to come out and say that their goal in life is to be a stay-at-home dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:26 AM
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I'm not so sure it's possible to have it all. There seem to be a lot of women upset that they can't find men that they consider their equal. The more powerful you become in your profession and the more money you earn the smaller your dating pool becomes as a woman. So if you're waiting until your early thirties to find a guy to settle down with who earns roughly equivalent to you or more and is attractive to you and also wants the same things in life that you do you'll find that there's not many…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:18 AM
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Because we all want what we can't have. I know plenty of professional women who wish they were just stay at home moms. The grass is always greener on the other side. I think most women are happiest if they can work part-time and take care of the kids while having a job that they only have to work when it's convenient for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:06 AM
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I think women were mostly happy back in the day. The expected roles of men and women were well defined and people would learn to find their happiness within those roles. The moment women achieved equality in the workplace and the number of roles that they could play out I believe has made women less happy. I think it's the illusion of choice. The more options somebody has the harder it is to settle down in any one option. Women want it all. They want to be the powerful high earning professional …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:52 AM
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Looking at your features you are at least a six in my opinion in looks. You have very strong masculine features and intense eyes with a great jawline. It would be helpful if you smile for some of your pictures because that's really what women want. Are you tall? That can add to your attractiveness level. If you're tall I would venture to guess that women would think of you as tall dark and handsome. Let's suppose that you are a six. Using online dating means that you would be lucky to match with…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:48 AM
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The biggest lesson is to leave if there is even the slightest hint of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:34 PM
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And your sensitivity to what I just said puts you in the camp of fake women who hide behind caked layers of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:18 AM
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That's a really good article. It hints at one of the things that is often mentioned on manosphere forums. The more you embitter lonely men and rail against them for not having any success with finding a relationship the more you are radicalizing them. There is a tipping point where if this happens to enough men it can cause serious consequences to society and with women being some of the weakest members of society guess where much of that hostility will be aimed at?
/r/AllPillDebate23/12/22 11:54 PM
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Not at all. He's just putting her in her place because we get really sick and tired of women acting like they're perfect and far too pretty for most of these men when it turns out they're just really good at hiding their blemishes with makeup and hair trickery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:59 PM
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What did he end up choosing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 11:02 AM
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It very well could be likely that men have a higher tolerance for cluttered and dirty homes. That's not going to change the fact that they will not be doing equal or more housework. The person who has the highest cleanliness standards will always be saddled with more cleaning duties. It will be self-imposed of course but you can't really expect their partner to care more. Just like the person with the highest sex drive is the one probably who has to initiate sex more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:40 AM
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Enthusiasm is 75% of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:47 AM
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I think it is only natural to use such descriptions when a sizable portion of the dating market has become a market of supply and demand where everybody is commodified and controlled by a broker such as the dating apps. I think there is boundless frustration by the men because they see what has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:41 AM
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Citations🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:57 PM
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That's just how a penis works. A little stimulation and dirty thoughts is all you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:56 PM
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Nope. I have had sex with women I found unattractive. I enjoyed their personalities and their wet holes that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:21 PM
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I have a net worth of almost a million dollars. I drive an old used minivan with dings in it and live in a house that would probably sell for about $160,000 on the market right now. I wear Dockers and polos to work and almost always wear t-shirts and tank tops with jersey knit shorts every other time because I'm usually at the gym and then do my errands afterwards. I own no watches and rarely spend more than 60 bucks on a sneakers or shoes. I do not buy designer brand clothing. My kitchen table …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 01:08 AM
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Women piss out their ass, that's why they sit down on the toilet to pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:37 AM
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Those kinks you listed are probably no more than 5% of the male population probably less. I don't know a single guy that has any of those which of course might mean that they're hiding it from me. In my time as an adult I think I probably have the most positive view of sexuality compared to 99% of the people I have met and have viewed almost every aspect of porn other than the illegal ones. None of them interest me. I think you'll find that most men don't think much beyond bondage or anal as far…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:22 AM
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I think one sided sex makes a legit award. Like a really good BJ to completion or something exotic that he really wants and rarely or never gets. Standard PIV sex should not be a reward. The best reason I can think of is that if he starts thinking that it's a reward then when he's not getting it, it's a punishment so you must be angry with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:41 AM
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I have no problem getting one or two matches in a week. I'm always polite and go through some of the basic questions and get a good rapport. It seems impossible to get the conversation to transfer to the next day. They don't block me. They are just gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 05:55 PM
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Very few women can handle a high value man who is a social butterfly and has the eyes of every woman on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 02:20 PM
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Yes but the question here revolves around the situationships and men who are using women for sex. You are seeing people in relationships but I suggest pretty much every situationship and man using women for sex involves women that the man sees as beneath him in sexual market value. The reason why the online dating apps cause such trouble is because of the disparity in the numbers of men versus women. Sure you're going to have some people get lucky and actually find someone but the vast majority …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:08 PM
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I have said it before but I'll say it again. Because of the small number of women on these apps compared to the large amount of men almost every match a man gets is somebody that he considers beneath his league. Except in the case of particularly attractive men who will actually get somebody that is their looks match most women are reaching up when it comes to matching men. This makes the men not want to commit and instead try to get sex or a situationship. The economics speaks for itself. Once …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:11 AM
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I have said it before but I'll say it again. Because of the small number of women on these apps compared to the large amount of men almost every match a man gets is somebody that he considers beneath his league. Except in the case of particularly attractive men who will actually get somebody that is their looks match most women are reaching up when it comes to matching men. This makes the men not want to commit and instead try to get sex or a situationship. The economics speaks for itself. Once …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:03 AM
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Sexual enthusiasm
/r/AllPillDebate09/12/22 03:53 AM
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The last woman I matched with looked like a butch lesbian. She was thick with a masculine jawline and a man's haircut. Frankly it shocked me that she was looking for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:49 AM
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Just a reminder. There are at least four men for every woman in OLD. As a result of this most men that manage to get a match on the app are talking to somebody who is probably beneath their sexual market value. If most men are talking to women that are beneath their sexual market value comparatively speaking in the real world, then of course they are only going to look for sex and not a long-term relationship. This is the problem with these apps. Every man is matching with women who are mostly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:15 AM
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See above
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:16 PM
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Almost all ways. Bernie Sanders was the first candidate that got me to donate to a politician. I believe we need single payer health care, I believe abortion should be legal, most drugs should be legal, crime is caused primarily by poverty and thus taxing the ever living fuck out of billionaires to bring it back in line with the 1950s and 60s tax bracket to help rebuild our infrastructure and supply jobs is of paramount importance. I believe corporations need to be checked by a strong regulatory…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:01 PM
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I understand that it happens in the animal Kingdom. It doesn't make it any less of an abnormality since it is a minority within any given species. How much of it is nature versus nurture? Your guess is as good as mine. It may not be a gene that makes you desire sex with the other gender but there could be a gene that makes you less inhibited on sexual variety with homosexual sex being one such possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:16 AM
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You may as well ask that question of any claim made on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:53 AM
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I have to admit that I've never heard this take before. It certainly makes sense. I think the spread of the nuclear family coincides with runaway capitalism. Businesses that sell widgets prefer that families live in separate homes and have to all buy their own separate widgets rather than sharing them in a communal fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:51 AM
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Gay people exist for the same reason that all kinds of abnormalities exist within our gene pool that prevent optimal continuation of the species. Genetic randomness and mutations caused by external factors can all be attributed to these.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:14 AM
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Are you saying the nuclear family is the reason for the decline of western society or the decline of the nuclear family is the reason for the decline of the western society?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:03 AM
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You are correct however I think the recent frustrations of the dating market are very new and will take at least a couple decades to come to fruition and see the true effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:32 AM
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You'll get just as many answers from men as you would if you were to ask women why they keep guys around as friends but won't ever be interested in a sexual or romantic relationship with that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:18 AM
1

I would like to claim that I've never seen virgin shaming except in high school. Creepy shaming is much more prevalent. The moment a man shows interest in a woman and approaches her there is probably a pretty good chance that he's going to walk away as a creep in her mind. The word is overused has lost all meaning. As far as I can tell the word creep only means a man that she's not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 01:54 PM
1

I'm big and masculine but clean shaven and strong jawline I've been told. Lots of muscle in the shoulders and chest and arms. No abs but not fat. It's still hard to get the attention of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 03:18 AM
2

So you seem to be saying that the only thing women are good for is sex. And women wonder why dating is so sexualized these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:38 AM
1

I agree. My experiences were not using online dating but were friends of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:54 AM
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I can't even begin to describe how wrong you are. You know nothing of what men feel when asked out by a woman. Two of my biggest relationships in my life came from women asking me out or being very forward in their interest in me. I did not see them as lesser and I eagerly jumped into serious relationships with them. In both situations it was a couple months before we had sex although we did make out. Women are just so allergic to rejection that they have to cognitively come up with some excuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:12 AM
2

I don't know if that's you but if it is good job. I think most men are simple and that's not what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:46 PM
2

I've pumped and dumped. It just wasn't that good and I knew I didn't want it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:31 AM
8

You forget the other part of TRP. NEVER MARRY. Date, but never tie yourself to any person with legal repurcussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:41 PM
2

Meh to each their own. I'm not lonely either. Not all of us on here are sexless or lacking female company.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:33 PM
3

I despise MTG but would totally bang that primate. Even better if it can be a threesome with AOC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:22 PM
0

We all notice it. Women are used to being coddled. So called toxic masculinity gets men used to critical appraisal of their lot in life. Simping makes women believe that they are all goddesses and when something isn't going their way then there is something wrong with the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:44 PM
5

I don't see anything in that list other than perhaps the rape that couldn't also be said about women. And in terms of being in a man's position why don't you go for it? There is absolutely nothing stopping you from being the approacher other than your own ego. If it's so god-awful easy and preferable why don't you prove us wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 03:21 AM
11

You're ridiculous. There are many things you can't find out about women until you have dated them. So separating the wheat from the chaff according to you only has to do with physical appearance? If that's so damn hard why not approach the men that you find attractive? Usually when people use the term separating the wheat from the chaff they are referring to the qualities that are not easily discovered until you have dated for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:23 AM
13

You act like men don't have to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:11 AM
14

Yeah the hard part for women is they can't get that perfect guy that checks all the boxes. It's a painful reminder that they just aren't as great as they would like to believe they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:51 AM
7

Hmmmm. Google doesn't have a little graphic celebrating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 05:06 PM
-2

Videos like that are always going to attract the haters who are looking to make a statement and put women in their place. The same would hold true if the genders were reversed. Women would slam the man and tell him that he must not have been doing things right and making her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:34 AM
1

Yes! The ideal woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:52 PM
1

Can you just got to believe the study of history or paleontology? We can only verify things if we were actually present?
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/22 02:54 PM
1

I don't think women truly understand how much power they have over the general populace of men. Almost everything men do is designed to attract the opposite sex. So if you see any general trends in how men behave that are displeasing or dysfunctional to women many times it's the women that can be blamed for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:12 AM
1

I would love it if everybody stopped using makeup. Why should you make yourself look like something you don't naturally look like? I'm getting so tired of the feminization of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:42 AM
2

But anybody can spend more than they earn regardless of what their salary is. One would hope that you could find out their philosophy on spending and saving before shacking up with them. I see you're also starting to learn what men have had to endure for generations which is also probably why women were not allowed to have credit cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:36 PM
3

Completely agree with everything you said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:11 PM
3

Julia Roberts and Gwyneth Paltrow are in my short list of most beautiful celebrities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:10 PM
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Yeah I don't get it. I've seen a lot of women claim that they are only interested in men who can earn as much or more than them. In today's economy a dual income household is what is necessary in most cases. So marrying a guy who earns less than you still contributes to the bottom line because two people living together is cheaper than two people living apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:45 PM
1

So many women on here claiming they would be interested if sex weren't involved. What a ridiculous statement. That's the whole point of a sugar relationship and you might as well say that you know a lot of men that would be interested in it if no money were involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:27 PM
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That's so funny because I know a lot of men that will be up for it if there were no money involved
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:24 PM
2

You're right. Women seem to be showing a lot of ingrained things that aren't the best things for our species
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 03:13 AM
2

I agree monogamy is superior. However to desire to spread one's seed has been ingrained into us through evolution over tens of thousands of years when we were hunter-gatherers and living in small communities. The communities made sure to take care of one another and the price of living was much cheaper than it is today. So the psychological need to spread our seed evolve long before modern day sensibilities have been ingrained into our psyche.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/22 12:34 AM
1

Wow that ho in the pic is about as mediocre a 5 as there ever has been one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:35 PM
6

Sorry sweetie but I've already been married. And I've had multiple girlfriends. Your profile literally says for people to PM you for private snap sessions. I have no doubt that you can get sex sooner than me from a random individual but that's not really something to brag about. I'm already in a relationship so I don't need it from a random individual. If you're going to work by selling your body why not at least own it and be proud of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:24 PM
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You're a dancer who sells her panties and Snapchat sessions. Yes you sell your body. To the vast majority of men you and a prostitute have very little difference in terms of being marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:15 PM
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You're ridiculous. You literally sell your body for money from the looks of your profile and you have the nerve to tell men to better themselves? You are not some top-tier woman. Men are tired of the double standard of women telling men to better themselves while they sit back and get fatter and older waiting for their prince charming to come along while their body count goes through the roof. Could you imagine if men were screaming for women to better themselves? We can't even meekly suggest th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:10 PM
0

I wouldn't consider random people speaking ill of your profile on the internet as a heavy penalty
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:50 AM
2

I agree with your last statement. However there is power in showing no shame. Think of how the black community has taken ownership of the n word.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:16 AM
2

And let's just proves how unreasonable the standards women have are. They will find the nitpickiest thing or reason to decline someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:53 AM
1

But you're looking at this from a man's perspective. Men aren't as picky and have reasonable expectations for the women they are willing to date. It would be easy for you to pick out a couple from 50 people but for a woman it's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 12:48 AM
0

We simply ask them and multiply by 3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:56 PM
2

women lose eggs every year that they age. The moment a girl first ovulates is indeed when she is most fertile. Its when she has maximum eggs and optimal health. Now obviously some things need to happen such as widening of the hips for the birth canal and other physical changes but a fully developed teenager is way more fertile than a 30 year old biologically speaking.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 03:19 PM
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30 years old in the paleolithic era was indeed too old for having babies especially when you consider what diet and health care enables us to do now that were unthinkable tens of thousands of years ago. A 30 year old woman in a hunter gatherer tribe who is barely nourished and lived a hard life of physical labor and survived a couple child births is not the same as a 30 year old now. Be that as it may, men's brains are wired to find youth attractive for making babies. Its why we have laws protec…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/22 03:15 PM
2

If she can't handle me at my worst she doesn't deserve me at my poop free best 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:03 PM
1

Well the blue pills says womynz good menz toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:50 PM
1

Not if I shit in all my clothing you won't. That'll teach you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:48 PM
1

And? So you're saying you have no preference in age range? It makes sense what he's doing. He's doing the girls a favor. He knows they will likely want kids and he doesn't. 25 is a great year to let them go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:45 AM
2

I disagree to a point. Intelligence can be attractive. Someone who "challenges" him is almost never attractive and not always done by someone intelligent. Men want peace, who wants to come home to a challenging home life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:39 PM
2

As crass as this sounds you're absolutely right. I would argue the feeling is mutual for women. They just don't say it that way. However if you go over to r/sex you'll see this complaint often.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:00 AM
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Not at all. Everybody dates people looking for characteristics about that person that are either deal breakers or reasons to stick around. Good sex is one of the many reasons people will stick around. Not the only reason because sex is not sufficient to keep a relationship going.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:22 AM
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Why? Are you saying that once you have sex you are forever locked into a relationship? Having sex means you owe that person more relationship time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:53 AM
1

Are you saying that the second guy is an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:39 AM
1

It's the kind of question you ask to a snotty whore who's looking for her sugar daddy. It's certainly not a question you ask to someone you have genuine interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:50 PM
5

That 2% difference is the money men spend on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:27 AM
1

If I'm able to keep a pragmatic view of dating and standards rather than taking on the views and standards of a typical woman then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:17 AM
8

Actually the red pill means understanding the nature of female hypergamy and double standards. Once understood use women as you wish to minimize harm to yourself and extract as much enjoyment as you can without commitment. At the end of the day don't give two fucks about women and learn to be happy as a loner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:47 PM
1

Those other things certainly can't be found out by first impressions on a dating app to make a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:28 PM
1

If the tables were turned and men had an abundance of options then the following would also be true. Every woman we match up with would lie about just wanting sex but instead would become stalkers trying to trap us into relationships or impregnating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:42 PM
1

But you seem to think that men seek those women out because they're easier to prey upon. I completely disagree with that because a man would prefer a younger more beautiful woman regardless of how easy it would be to take advantage of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:03 PM
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Your girlfriend has far more sexual market value than you ever will. So yeah she can drop you or anybody at the drop of a hat. It has nothing to do with an opinion of oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:08 AM
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Roughly half the people on here think you're a creep and are a predator taking advantage of a power imbalance. What is never mentioned however is the power imbalance a young attractive woman enjoys in every relationship she enters. She can replace you at the drop of a hat or have hundreds of suitors pursuing her while in the relationship. That is always ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:24 PM
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He can go after her. I however would not be happy if she went after him because I recognize the inherent issues that can arise. Most of those issues are created by our social mores. It doesn't make it weird though that a 40 yo man finds an 18 yo woman attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:44 PM
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Pseudo evolutionary psychology? Men from ALL nations and cultures and time periods have found younger women attractive. It is universal. Just because you have decided that it's creepy doesn't make it so. It's pretty damn normal. I personally don't go after them but it doesn't mean I don't find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:41 PM
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Well I would argue that since society has deemed it indecent, it's hard for you as a member of society to see ANY older man that dates a young woman as decent. You've been programmed to only see it as indecent. I'm not talking about 17 years old either. A 35 year old man with a 23 year old woman is still seen as indecent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 04:51 PM
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I'm not even one of these guys that looks for young women. I'm in my late 40s and date women plus or minus ten years from my age. I'm simply giving justification for why guys feel this way. Using "less damaged" is just as reasonable of a justification as anything else people use. Maybe the optics are yucky to women but their are plenty of yucky optics in dating coming from women also.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:50 PM
1

Nope. In the dating stage a man might dump his older partner for a younger. However most men would not do the same to a wife they have been committed to for years in a healthy committed marriage. Obviously there are some that do so, but marriages usually end for other reasons. I would always choose an older woman I'm in love with that I have shared years of experiences with over a brand new young piece of ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:25 PM
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You are over complicating it. All things being equal men would prefer a more youthful appearing woman. We aren't talking about 20 year old meth addicts vs 30 year old models. We also are talking about that first gut reaction men experience when looking at women. Of course a filtering process occurs to rule people out based on incompatibilities that go beyond sexual desire. All things being equal a 20 year old woman will beat a 30 or 40 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:20 PM
3

But people do it blindly all the time by making assumptions based on one sentence in a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:06 PM
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So you're saying men aren't attracted to younger women because they show the biological indicators of being more fertile with a better chance of healthy offspring? Riiiigggghhhhht.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:04 PM
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Do you deny that perhaps some women are so jaded or damaged that when they are scrutinizing potential partners they might incorrectly make assumptions? That those incorrect assumptions are triggered by a memory or pattern they saw in a previous partner that has no meaning in the current one? I know I do this. I purposefully avoid women that remind me of my ex wife. Those women arent standing up to my scrutiny, but my scrutiny may be unfair and incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:03 PM
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People lump together others into groups and stereotypes them all the time in dating. It's why we have terms like sluts, fuckboys, nice guys, creepy old men etc. If so eone else wants to stereotype older women vs younger, then let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:34 PM
3

Oh Jesus. Are you kidding me? Dating is all about playing arm chair psychologist. Every person sees different things as red flags in people they are considering pursuing. Why would this particular one be weird compared to all the other picky shit people obsess about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:26 PM
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It's true. Men are attracted to innocence. Women that have been ran through by a decade or more of various guys that have jaded her, hardened her and made her suspicious of men are less desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:17 PM
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Notice how younger women are always victims. But men are predators never to be trusted at any age. Oh and women expect to be pursued.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:58 AM
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You know why older men want younger women? Younger women are more attractive. It's really that simple. They are more pleasant to look at and our subconscious tells us we should be making babies with them. It's how biology works in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:03 AM
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I've never heard about this facial expression thing. I have no idea if I'm on the spectrum but that part about expressions hits close to home. I've always felt like my smile lacked genuineness and have always hated it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:25 AM
2

Not only a virgin man. But a virgin man with no options but brags about his piety and self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:41 PM
-2

Meh not really. Most guys don't even get to the matched stage even when they don't list their political identity. I'm very progressive and still rarely get much in the way of quality matches. I don't think I could ever date a militant feminist. I have one as a friend who I believe is crushing on me, but I've left our relationship just as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:21 PM
1

You're not attractive enough to get a pretty boy. The kind of guy you want is in high demand.
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/22 11:54 PM
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High body count is certainly one of them. There have been a couple times where I was getting along really nicely with a girl that I was starting to date and then I would get a warning from a mutual guy acquaintance about her past. That's all I needed to hear. Another one is an overly combative woman that uses words like mansplain and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:20 AM
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Stop acting like being a whore is some kind of superpower. Women racking up a high body count is like men bragging about how many girls they have jerked off to the thought of. Now if you're a guy who has a high body count kudos to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:06 AM
7

And these days it's increasingly frowned upon to date colleagues
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:02 PM
1

Not always. Sometimes guys actually like the flabby stomach. Also tits and ass are usually made from fat anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:42 PM
1

It's the richness, not the fatness they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:39 PM
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And even then with fat women men aren't that shallow. Fat women at least have a subgroup of men that are into it. The same can't be said for fat men with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:49 PM
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Women on forums that discuss the red pill, telling the men that they are all completely wrong about why they feel the way they do about how women treat them is kind of like men going on a forum about the objectification of women and telling the women they've got it all wrong. You don't live our experience so you can't refute it. You can try to understand but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 02:03 PM
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There's nothing rare about you. I've ran into a number of you that go for younger guys. Especially women in their 30s and 40s who think men their own age look too old.
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 01:16 AM
1

I completely agree. Think about it from a historical perspective. Pretty much up until the last 25 years or so it was much easier to find a partner as a man. The amount of people that your average person had interactions with was quite small and limited to a few hundred or maybe a few thousand if you went to University. For tens of thousands of years humans lived in villages or small groups where there was typically a process for how mates were chosen. This usually consisted of rights of passage…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:07 PM
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As an American male? Try going to a Nordic country or perhaps France. In both countries you will likely be uglier and more overweight than men from that country. In the Netherlands you would likely be shorter.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/22 12:39 PM
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https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/why-more-women-are-suggesting-open-relationships/12661844 Women are leading this kind of relationship paradigm according to this article. Supposedly it is when they are "empowered" that they do this. That's code for "realizing most men will fuck them".
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/22 11:27 PM
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Personal experience and reading stories such as this almost always seems to be women starting it. Very few men have I read about starting this, because men basically have fewer options. It's much harder for a guy to elicit interest from women if he's taken.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/22 11:20 PM
2

It really is primarily women. The vast majority of men do not do well with poly because they simply don't have options the way women do.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/22 11:18 PM
5

This exact thing happened to me. This is almost always started by women because they have more opportunity for it than men do. In fact I can't recall of any story where a serious long-term relationship was forced into poly by the man.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/22 11:16 PM
1

Asshole, fucker and fag pretty much encompasses everything that's needed to to belittle men. You can't belittle a man about getting too much sex because it's so hard for men to get sex and ultimately it's our goal for the most part. So you might be able to add virgin to the list as a put-down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:20 AM
2

Maybe. In fact maybe many of those female gendered curse words were made by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:08 AM
1

The entire experience of being a man is harsher. Yes other men make it cruel but also women make it cruel and society in general has different expectations of men than they do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:03 AM
2

Well apparently men are more imaginative for coming up with those words and it's up to women to match them. Men tease and bully each other a lot more and live in a much crueler world and thus have a broader vocabulary for cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 01:50 AM
1

To disrupt toxic masculinity 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:57 AM
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Wrong! Fantasizing is best used for imagining friends, colleagues and acquaintances doing dirty things they probably never would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:48 PM
8

8
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:34 AM
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It didn't used to be that way. Early twenties for a man was the prime time for dating and getting married. What has changed? The standards and expectations of women have increased exponentially. Women's ability to earn money has increased drastically but the same thing has not happened for men but for some reason women seem to expect men to have increased in lock step with them. Women are now using their twenties for their ho phase instead of looking for a serious relationship. This leaves a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 11:00 PM
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There's too many 20 somethings on this forum. Get to be in your 40s with a couple decades of marriage under your belt and a couple kids with a divorce. That's where the true red pill comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:09 AM
2

Oh it worked and it still does in some cultures. It's just not pleasant when famous and communities shame and ostracize or even kill people for fornicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:24 PM
4

Shaming hookup culture and making sex something that is not taken lightly. It's really the only way. Making women feel like sluts and men feel like cads would prevent the throw away culture we currently have in dating where people switch partners regularly because of the access dating apps give us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:34 PM
5

What is jbw? I don't know that I see a difference between races when it comes to women. Yes statistically speaking black women are not the most desired on the dating apps but they can be just as entitled and hypergamous as any white girl.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 11:10 AM
3

I would spend a few minutes occasionally talking with her up at the front desk. I had a hernia surgery and she started texting me asking if I needed anything. We started flirting and I learned about the difficult divorce that she had gone through. She was living with her son at the time and I think feeling lonely so I told her we should get together sometime. She came over to watch Netflix with me one night. Pretty sure it was movie 43. She went off to the bathroom and came back in a short night…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 11:09 PM
5

Wrong! All men! Whenever someone is talking about a gender on here it is automatically ALL of that gender that falls into the stereotype! If you can't recognize this then it makes you a typical man who, just like all other men, can't admit that the stereotype fits you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:50 PM
2

Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:04 PM
1

Well in those situations you might have a teen or early 20s guy rating a woman over 40. Those of us with more years behind us recognize their true score. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 07:44 PM
5

Lol. I've not seen this. Who rates Emma as a 6? Most celebrities are a 7 or higher unless they are famous for being ugly or fat or have some other skill like being a musician or celebrity chef.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:59 PM
2

I know how to tell if you're retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:57 PM
3

Men in general don't let women dictate the standard of fashion and looks that they should endeavor for. The fashion industry, cosmetics, magazine and modeling industries all are fed and reinforced by women and their incessant need to shop and compare themselves to their peers. Women are the ones who create the unrealistic standards of the fashion and modeling industry. Men just don't care about all of that crap.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/22 03:38 PM
13

Most guys on here don't describe themselves as good looking. Most of us are just average, 4-6 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 12:16 PM
1

I had a lady who was a FWB. She worked at the front desk and I have my own office but I'm not in charge of her in any way. I broke up with her as I was looking for more than what she could give. We parted amicably. We remain friends to this day although she no longer works at the office. When she did work there after our break up I will admit that would occasionally get those butterflies in my stomach and yearning feelings for her. They were some awkward times but we were always polite and frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:53 AM
4

Adding more women will increase the harem each top guy has at his finger tips. There is a practical limit to how much ejaculate and sanity a man can expend on women before he is drained. So you first need to saturate the top guys so that the trickle down effect of women having to look at lower tiers will take place.😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:42 PM
16

Jim Carrey actually was quite handsome when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:17 AM
6

I disagree. I have been in love and still believe in it, however love is a mixture of emotions and practical considerations all mixed into one. It's lust, it's friendship, it's attraction, it's sexual compatibility, it's being in life circumstances that makes it mutually beneficial to be together. Monetary, social and sexual needs are all part of the love equation. BTW 50% of couples divorce, this does not mean the remaining are still in love. Many stay together for practical considerations or f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:53 AM
2

I'm 48M and most of the complaints I see from early 20s men seems to be the same complaints I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 10:50 PM
1

The only way to know is for you to go. My guess is there will be way more men than women. Consent is still a thing when it comes to swinging and the very few women there will still only choose the best looking men unless you want to stand in a line and take your turn to jerk off on some ugly girls tits during a bukkake. The whole thing will probably be more like a voyeurism show than anything else.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 12:40 AM
11

Women just don't like it when people find a cheat code for an otherwise unsuccessful love life. Think about it. They are more likely to slut shame than men when a homely girl uses sex to get a man out of her league. They shame men for using prostitutes, mail order brides or or otherwise more attractive women out of their league by using money. They shame men for dating younger by using status and money.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 10:59 PM
2

How do you feel when you see a woman doing all the work and sucking up to her man like a puppy dog? Most women would think the man is abusive and she can do better.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 03:44 PM
1

Yawn. You need to level up and touch grass if that's all you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:23 AM
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When you get 3 to 4 matches a month and almost all of them never respond, you figure it out. I don't need the ideal physical specimen for a relationship. Cute enough is perfectly fine. In otherwords I lower my standards so to speak. I do not however lower my standards on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:36 PM
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I would actually select for my "type" in terms of what I find most physically attractive, pale skinned redhead or raven haired beauty. Then I would whittle down based on politics, religion and personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:29 PM
1

In general men will never have as many options as women. It's probably not fair to compare the two genders but rather to compare their desirability based upon their ages. A man in his prime in his mid thirties earning a good living and being at his maximum in terms of health and handsomeness still will not be able to compare against a woman in her 20s. However I do believe there's some truth that the man will have more options available to him in his mid-30s compared to his early twenties. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:17 PM
3

Misogynistic men are less caring about what women think which makes them more confident and casual around women. Women love confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:50 PM
2

It's just the same shit different gender. Women claiming they didn't want a relationship or he was only looking for sex when it's not true. Don't address it because you just give energy to something that is no longer in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:06 PM
1

I'm not. I'm telling you that rapists will always exist. It's not the fault of the victim but to cavalierly claim that broken mentally ill people who are ostracized are not our collective problem exhibits why they exist and why they do what they do.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 07:56 PM
2

No actually it's a YOU problem. Because rapists MAKE it a YOU problem. Consent is absent and these people are hurting so much that they will make sure others hurt if it gives them even a semblance of relief.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 07:49 PM
3

Do you think that when someone is depressed and ostracized that they are thinking clearly or about their bleak future when they are willing to commit such crimes?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 07:44 PM
3

Perhaps they commit those crimes because they are ostracized from the dating pool? It reminds me of a quote I just saw "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth."
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 07:41 PM
10

I suppose handsome faces, chiseled bodies and being over 6ft makes these things less likely to happen? Let's face it if women were legitimately afraid of these things they would be exclusively dating skinny manlets.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 07:35 PM
1

It would be the equivalent of a man saying something like "no dates or friendship until we fuck"
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/22 05:32 PM
9

I would argue that what women perceive as misogyny many times is not. For instance. From a very young age I always noticed that when a girl sneezed in class, boys tripped over themselves to say bless you whereas when a boy sneezes rarely did anybody say anything. I kept noticing defferential and Fanboy treatment to girls through late grade school and obviously all the way through present day. I always chalked it up to men's desire to have sex with them or romantic inclinations. As a result of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:06 PM
1

It's not blackpill and you can debate about the reality of her finding a man willing to be her husband
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 05:17 PM
2

I don't think of it as entitlement. I think it's just delusional.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 02:43 PM
1

The more I think about it, the more it seems that the children might be invitro (hence twins which are more likely from invitro fertilization). It would make sense if she couldn't find a husband by 34. Imagine...she might very well be a "virgin". That would be commendable if true.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:25 PM
2

Never said it had to prove anything. It's just an extreme case of weirdness that I found interesting and I knew some others on here would. I guess you could look at it as an extreme case of alpha fucks and beta bucks.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 03:06 AM
-1

There is always the chance that maybe she used artificial insemination in her 30s because she couldn't find anybody willing to wait for marriage
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 08:44 PM
5

No I don't believe so. She had a bunch of pictures and a full profile.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:49 PM
1

Every one you've listed I'm not even remotely identified with. I'm also not intimidated by a strong woman who has a career and I have only met one woman in dating that earns more than me and she's an executive level director for her company.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:34 PM
2

Honestly...yes. I know there are plenty of women that are currently fighting against the unfair practices of family court and child custody. I'm not sure about women who are interested in calling out women's hypocrisy when it comes to the sexual marketplace.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 10:16 PM
6

A lot of it is grift. There are a lot of people grifting on ideologies they don't truly believe. I'm convinced most YouTube conservative content is grift caused by the rise of Trump.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 09:23 PM
2

No, but I got guys 'miring my gains
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 08:58 PM
6

Lmao. All swingers and fetishists are hideous? You know nothing about either scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:59 AM
3

Well to continue with your analogy You're not necessarily choosing 4 star people by being picky with looks. It's really more like choosing a place to eat based on their decor. Who does that? Sometimes the top tier people in looks is like choosing the 4 dollar signs restaurants. That is the priciest. The food might be good but trust me that you can't afford to eat their all the time. It will take more from you than you get and leave you unsatisfied for anything less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:56 AM
3

No. As a victim of one I can tell you first hand that you never truly forgive them all the way. It's always in the back of your mind and it's always casting a shadow over your relationship. The circumstances matter and mine were particularly hurtful. It's easy to say that you forgive but the words coming out of your mouth do not equal the feelings in your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:25 AM
8

Is this for femcels?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:46 PM
1

Oh I can wrap my head around it. It will still never change my ingrained reaction that that's just a dude pretending to be a woman. Which is fine but the uncanny valley prevents me from being able to trick myself into thinking of them as a legitimate woman. They are a legitimate human being with emotions and feelings that I would endeavor not to harm and that's about as far as I can go.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 07:52 PM
1

Honestly? No. I'm all for equal rights and fair treatment but they aren't women. If they can't accept their genetic gender at birth how can I pretend to accept their chosen change in gender? I'm a progressive BTW.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 05:14 PM
5

So by being a decent human being and replying to everybody who talks to me and wishing them luck if I'm not interested is actually lowering my score
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 05:21 PM
10

It's not paying for a date that didn't work out. It's paying for dozens of dates that don't work out. It's harder and harder to get into a relationship, men are also earning less and the reward of that potential relationship is at an all time low for most men. At least having one night stands are things that the woman control, there is no societal pressure for her to have sex in the first date or with perfect strangers. There is however decades of societal pressure that expects a man to pay for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 02:33 AM
1

Are you kidding me? The vast majority of men 50 years ago worked in a factory with a high school diploma. Cleanliness standards and grooming standards were nowhere near what they are today. The vast majority of men today are willing to provide because most of us don't care about how much money a woman earns. Admittedly marriage was expected more often but not to simply date which is what I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:08 AM
-1

The primary reason is that women have raised the bar to even notice a man. 50 years ago there was no such thing as leveling yourself up just so you could get into a relationship. Women have become more entitled and expect far more from a partner. People are able to live on their own much easier now than ever before and so many are choosing to do so rather than settling. I think people forget that combining incomes under one household makes for a better life at least when it comes to paying the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:58 AM
1

I just love the way he does drugs hits on women and makes parole in such a socially calibrated way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 01:52 AM
1

It's far easier for a woman to become more sexually diverse in the bedroom than it is for a man to become more sexually desirable to a woman.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 11:23 PM
16

There was a post that somebody made in response. He claimed that his ex was still upset that with previous women he would wine them and dine them and take them out on the town but with her he was a homebody. He said he had grown as a person and didn't need all of that extravagant expense to feel content in his relationship. Threesomes are the Pinnacle of what most guys wish to experience. Imagine how most women would feel if they found out their current partner had taken a past girlfriend to an …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:15 PM
1

Am I supposed to move this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:56 PM
1

Not sure I agree with the porn argument. I think most men are pretty flexible with looks and degrees of fitness for women. I do think porn makes us less likely to be content with a plain Jane vanilla sex life.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 09:18 PM
2

BS. To get a job and resources you just need a modicum of education and to apply for a job. Getting sex takes far more effort. Trust me if getting sex were as easy as getting a paycheck men would be quiet, happy, and fucking.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 08:00 PM
1

Kind of like women whining about their lack of "real men who want to commit"
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/22 07:58 PM
1

There was a post that somebody made in response. He claimed that his ex was still upset that with previous women he would wind them and dine them and take them out on the town but with her he was a homebody. He said he had grown as a person and didn't need all of that extravagant expense to feel content in his relationship. Threesomes are the Pinnacle of what most guys wish to experience. Imagine how most women would feel if they found out their current partner had taken a past girlfriend to a e…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:39 AM
2

All those movies are fantasies just like every other movie. Some are fantasies for women and others are fantasies for loser guys. I certainly never projected my success in relationships based on the movies. It was always based on the relationships I saw around me. Of course I'm a child of the '80s so things were different.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:01 PM
1

That's okay. Keep ignoring the fact that you are picking men that don't lack options. Men don't always cheat because of sexual frustration sometimes they just do it for variety. Trust me that the amount of sex men have does not stop them from thinking about other women. You live in a fantasy world if you think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:34 PM
1

That's okay. Keep ignoring the fact that you are picking men that don't lack options. Men don't always cheat because of sexual frustration sometimes they just do it for variety. Trust me that the amount of sex men have does not stop them from thinking about other women. You live in a fantasy world if you think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:34 PM
1

I currently have two sexual partners. If you date men who don't lack options that means they're probably even more likely to cheat on you because they have plenty of options. Enjoy 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:23 PM
1

Good luck with your future boyfriends and husbands. You're going to be a very insecure individual because those men will be quietly eyeballing your friends. When you're not watching they're probably going to stroke themselves to the thought of those friends. And judging by your weirdness and naivete on the subject they will probably act on those desires if given half a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:17 PM
1

No, desire means you may fantasize. It most certainly does not mean you will act upon it or try to act upon it. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:12 PM
1

Lol it's not like I or any guys talk about it to our partners. Yes there is attraction to other women. Yes many men will even masturbate to the thought of those women. You have a very naive view of men. It is how we are wired and it's not something you can understand unless you were a guy yourself. It doesn't mean we will act upon those desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:09 PM
1

Well considering I am friends with a lot of men through my life I know how men talk. Most men think about having sex with women who are not their partners. They especially think about having sex with women that are in their lives like your friends and your relatives. This isn't projection this is fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:25 PM
1

Then 95% of men are not for you because just about EVERY man thinks about sex with someone besides their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 06:57 PM
5

I prefer intellectually curious women. A woman who is willing to learn or at least talk about a wide range of topics is awesome. I have a very broad knowledge base on the sciences, economics, psychology, sociology, philosophy and religion. Ideally she would too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:51 PM
4

Right. We're talking about people on dating apps though. I've yet to find these supposed normal and healthy minded people that you speak of 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:03 PM
6

I completely disagree that men don't truly love women. In fact I think it's quite the opposite and that women only love what a man can bring to them. Think about it this way. It's only in recent times now that women can earn their own paycheck that men are having a harder time finding a romantic partner. Why is this? Women are increasingly scrutinizing what it is a man can bring to them. They still typically want a man to earn more than they do. Never mind the fact that two paychecks still makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:37 PM
12

I've been following politics since the early 90s and I can guarantee you that the right wing has had their own version of media that has been bullying the left for just as long. I'm not really sure why it's called the mainstream media when Fox News has more viewership than all of them combined. It's not like they are some small minority group.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:15 AM
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I've said it before and I'll say it again the guy is a punk. I completely understand why he would attract a following of disenfranchised men. I don't agree with his misogyny and I think a lot of it is an act. But yes I agree if you want to get rid of someone like him you need a counterpoint with better words to live by that these young men can attach to. He is just an extension of what has been happening ever since Trump has been put into office. For some reason bullying and narcissistic behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:38 AM
14

Meh even some of the fat ones if they're cute
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:28 PM
2

Sometimes.🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:37 PM
3

I'm not going to sit here and rattle off all the double standards men have to put up with that women do not. If they are invisible to you there is a reason for that and the reason usually goes with privilege. Feminists for decades have been telling men that they are blind to their privileges. Don't you think there's probably a chance that women could also be blind of their privileges? I don't have to portray you as a rage-filled feminist. You are doing a pretty good job of that yourself based on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:27 PM
3

Soldiers and cops weren't even on my mind. There are plenty of other double standards that men endure. The fact that you can't think of any speaks volumes. I can tell you're not in the mood or inclined to have any kind of good faith discussion. Go off to your corner and rage against men some more I hope it makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:16 PM
3

You don't have to embrace the double standard. It will always be there regardless of your embracement of it or not. Just like there are double standards that men will always suffer under for the benefit of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:10 PM
2

I was simply referring to your astonishment at the inequality of the term "saving your body as a gift" which is just an inclination towards modesty. It's Certainly not a demand. You will always be judged by people and they always have the right to judge you. You are free to take their judgment into consideration or completely ignore it. You're free to ignore the biological differences between the sexes but they will always exist. If you ignore them then you will always be frustrated at the diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 04:05 PM
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You're looking at it from a completely wrong perspective. Men are biologically and psychologically more visual creatures than women. All of our genetics have been honed to see an attractive woman appreciate her form and then attempt to impregnate her. Thus you can't equate the impulse of men looking at womens bodies by simply swapping the genders roles. I have no doubt that women experience lust when they look at men. I don't believe it's the same thing though or at the same intensity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:48 PM
2

This is demonstrably not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:42 PM
1

I'm not here to help you understand what my particular issues are. I don't fuck women I don't find attractive I've done that and it's not for me. And I also don't go for the hot women as I have realistic standards. I have a pretty good notion as a 48-year-old man where I stand in the pecking order. I've lived in both worlds of pre internet dating and modern dating. I can see how things have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:19 PM
1

Actually that's not my problem. I can recognize the unbelievable shallowness and lopsidedness of online dating and complain about it while still being able to get some. I get a couple matches here and there which I guess is better than what most guys seem to be experiencing. However the pickings are slim and subpar and the expectations and double standards of women still make me shake my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:12 PM
1

Lmao. I have two women I fuck right now. I think it's pretty interesting that you immediately jump to that conclusion. It seems to me that the only value you attribute to women is their sex holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:04 PM
2

What specifically bad things do Chinese women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:45 AM
1

I'm starting to understand why women were oppressed and subjugated. Seems to me they might deserve it for the good of humanity.🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:30 AM
3

Now that is some refreshing honesty thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:38 AM
2

He could put those exact words in his profile and you still wouldn't swipe right on him. Statistically speaking of course. And if you did swipe right on him he would then reach out to you only to be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:29 AM
1

I have kissed a woman and got the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:47 AM
5

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:33 PM
6

Let's face it, there's a 97% chance you wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:31 PM
2

Trenbolone I've heard makes men so horny that they get with fatties and consider trying out the D.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:03 PM
1

I have never seen nor heard of him doing this without consent in front of fans. I still need a good link other than rumors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:41 AM
2

Please show me a source that he exposed to himself to fans without consent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:27 AM
1

I guess it depends on if you find the embarrassment to be unfair. Like it or not we live in a society with social norms. If you're able to completely ignore what other people think more power to you. You can pretend all you like that your past should have no bearing on the present. We all know this is not the case especially in a situation where you are marrying a porn star.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:41 PM
1

Obviously it's not the same but if she's promiscuous enough and has a reputation around town especially a smaller town its highly damaging to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:19 PM
15

Mia is getting divorced because of her past. It's been in the news. So here we have a guy that fully knew about her past and thought he could get over it but he still couldn't. Overly slutty women are shameful to have as wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:24 PM
1

It's overly sensitive word police. Fuck all the females that don't like being called what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:49 AM
1

Well ultimately what happens is if they can't get enough of it from taxes then they print the money which reduces your savings and value of your money so either way they get it in the end. Every time you vote against raising taxes what you are really doing is voting for inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:36 PM
0

You obviously don't know. The taxes are meant to curb the use of such fuels and to make it more expensive. Taxes are a way to coerce the public to do something that they would not naturally do. This is why cigarettes are taxed so heavily, it drives down the number of people who use cigarettes. The science to combat climate change would include alternative fuel sources and planting more trees and perhaps being able to build devices that can sequester carbon from the air but so far that part has n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:20 PM
0

The best way to deal with climate change in a capitalist economy is to tax the hell out of fossil fuels and carbon emissions. Trust me that it can get a whole lot worse where they will no longer be choices and then authoritarianism will happen oout of necessity for survival. Easy way to deal with climate change and then there are hard ways. Longer you wait harder it will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:02 PM
9

No they really aren't because they have science backing them. I strongly suggest you do a better research outside of Fox News and other conservative news outlets that have a vested interest in denying climate change.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:22 PM
6

So if you were single and living alone then you wouldn't have to keep up with the housework? In today's day and age does it matter if you're doing laundry for one person versus 2? Cooking for 2? Or is the burden simply that you have to do it for another person and that makes you bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:20 PM
6

It's that stuffed animal in the claw game that's been sitting in the corner since the '80s collecting dust and you finally nab it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:13 PM
0

I agree. I think you'll find most men will agree that they're not exactly hooking up with hotties as fuck buddies. If the woman wants more such as a relationship and the man does not want to but wants to continue with the benefits it usually comes down to her looks or some major character flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:50 AM
1

At least in my life a girl who is just for fun generally is not as attractive as I would prefer for a long-term relationship. It's easier to get a woman of lesser looks into a fuck buddy relationship. This is something most women need to consider. I believe this to be mostly true for most guys so if you as a woman find yourself in a no strings attached relationship that gives you some sense as to what the guy thinks of your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:53 PM
6

Talking to real life guys that will bone anything that is within driving distance and available is not the same as looking at a porn star who gets paid for doing what she is doing and will never or almost never consider banging her fans. So you actually having personal conversations with old college friends is nowhere near the same. Having personal conversations with Instagram models who then offer to take you out in the town is nowhere near the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:39 PM
1

It seems most red pill men are conservatives and probably vote Republican. I can't think of a better method to strip rights away from women than voting Republican.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:38 AM
8

I'm not attractive. Just average. I have strung along as many as 4-5 women at once for easy sex. I considered them not relationship material but wasn't beyond getting my willy wet. I know at least a couple of them wanted something more serious and I was upfront with them that I wasn't interested. I'm certain this tied them up for a little bit. Now take my example and multiply it across all the other guys that are at least getting sex and maybe not with the people they would rather have. It just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:12 AM
1

That depends. My belief is that climate change is going to make life so hard on everybody that we are doomed to end up with authoritarian regimes just from the hardships that the destruction of our biosphere will cause. Maximizing liberties and rights will be a laughable luxury few people can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:30 AM
1

I think it much more likely that we destroy ourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:22 PM
1

I don't care if the Republicans think they win. They will always deny it anyway and I would rather the real world consequences of climate change be dealt with then worry about how the Republicans will respond to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:20 PM
1

Very good analysis bravo. I guess it means one good thing and that's a whole lot less children will be born into this planet. Which looking the way climate change is going is probably a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:43 PM
2

Yes. Slut shaming is no longer done to women who date many men. As a result women don't feel shame in trading out partners on the regular because there is always another one right around the corner waiting on the dating app. The return on investment for wooing has decreased tremendously compared to 50 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:39 AM
1

Broadway actor, Model, extra actor, bar tender
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:47 PM
7

You're right. You lose self-respect the more men you sleep with and don't manage to pin down for a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:18 AM
5

So body count does matter
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:03 AM
1

Listen I know he's a god that you red pillers pray to and an alpha mega Chad. He is still a punk but you're still welcome to worship him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:29 AM
0

His ability to kick and fight has nothing to do with his punk status
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:48 AM
2

He's a punk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:36 AM
1

I have sex frequently as a single man who subscribes here. What is there to discuss about sex in PPD? Talking about techniques fetishes and dislikes don't really fit here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 01:57 PM
2

They aren't a cult. There is no leader and they welcome everybody regardless of faith. Think of it as a church for people looking for community and spirituality without any particular denomination or faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:53 AM
1

I'm an atheist and would not work very well with a church goer unless they were there only to find a man and don't care about his faith (or lack thereof)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:48 AM
2

Ummmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:13 AM
1

When women say most men are trash doesn't that imply that they are only interested in the absolute best?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:06 PM
1

I realize that they are popular views. There is a difference between a popular view and a correct notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:41 AM
-1

Not really. Historical context never claims that men cause societal strife because of blue balls. It's always more of a secondary knock on effect due to having no constructive outlet or family to protect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:14 PM
5

I completely disagree that life as it was 100 years ago is the same as societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:58 PM
5

I completely agree that this is true. However it doesn't make life any better for women. This is not some revenge fantasy on my part although it probably is for some men. I'm talking about societal collapse which is not good for anybody regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:56 PM
2

Ah. You're a conservative who thinks Biden is responsible for the inflation and gas prices. I suppose you're against illegal immigrants also and want a wall built. Except for women to be used as your concubines though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:53 PM
0

The collapse would happen due to extremist political movements and men checking out of constructive roles in society. It doesn't require all men to do so. But there must be a tipping point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:27 PM
5

Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:22 PM
0

The destruction could come from war and destructive political movements. The collapse could be inadvertent, not necessarily men doing it on purpose because of blue balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:19 PM
1

You think people were just as promiscuous 80 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:15 PM
4

I'm not so sure. By the recent rise in conservative power in the USA, there is a sizable population of Americans who are unhappy with the current state of our country. Nobody is trying to quell their destructive behavior. The only people trying to help them are the political leaders making hay from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:14 PM
0

You must be young.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:09 PM
2

Society will change and adapt but not collapse. Climate change will cause collapse first in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:05 PM
6

If you get a sizeable portion of the male population becoming disenfranchised with life in general becoming more extreme in their beliefs because of a lack of intimacy with women it is very possible. Extremist conservative groups, terrorism, men being unwilling to do the hard manual labor that is necessary to keep a society running and women seemingly uninterested in such jobs (as far as I can see).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:00 PM
0

I'm not making any claims on what happens with abortions and contraception. I'm only dealing with the current accepted standards of dating sex and relationships. A return to traditional values does not necessarily mean getting rid of contraception or disallowing abortions unless you think it always leads to that which I'm not so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:57 PM
5

And if society collapses you don't think you would be forced back into such arrangements?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:48 PM
2

I think you have to agree that it's a little different now than what it was. Expectations and societal pressure prevented a lot of the free wheeling sex that we see these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:46 PM
1

Slut shaming would return and sex within marriage would be the only acceptable non-shaming way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:45 PM
2

You're right. By the time society collapses it would be too late and you will have no choice as to what kind of relationship you're in. But what if a return to tradition prevents the societal collapse?.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:44 PM
0

So you would rather civilization collapse then come up with a societal buffer of sorts by changing our culture? Keep in mind that in 100 years time the circumstances for women would be far worse and more akin to what it was like during hunter-gatherer times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:43 PM
1

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:39 PM
17

I saw this and the first thing that came to my mind was that it was probably poorly advertised. In my experience women are more in tune to events around the community and more likely to plan to go to such things. Men tend not to look at events but instead go to them because they hear about it through word of mouth from their buddies or girlfriends. It would have made more sense if they had actually had a registry for it that way they could plan for seating and how they were going to couple peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:45 PM
3

Yes. Based on what I said, attractiveness is more important for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 08:22 PM
3

I have the opinion that since women have so many choices in OLD and they are outnumbered by men 3 to 1 then they choose men that are top tier in terms of looks more often than not. This means women are almost always matching up with guys who don't find them as desirable as they find the man. This leads to most OLD interactions being low effort by men and women thus being frustrated and feeling taken for.granted. The men will still have sex with them. This is why it's almost impossible to find a …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 07:39 PM
1

I disagree his rating would look like a bell curve. It's more likely it would look like a Gaussian distribution centered on his most agreed upon rating (not necessarily a 5 out of 10). More generically guys could be rated as ugly (3), average(5), attractive(7), or perfect (10).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 09:40 AM
1

Many of us have been in plenty of relationships but came to the red pill because of a horrible experience with one or more women that showed the double standards and missandry inherent in society today
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:31 AM
1

Coffee meets bagel gives you a very limited select few to choose from on a daily basis. Something like 10 if I'm correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:59 AM
4

Precisely. How can these women actually know the personality of men on a dating app if they never even talk to them? As we all knew they select for the best looking tallest guys they can. These guys are loaded with options and thus can be more crass and sexual without fear of losing one option of many. Women then complain about these men and talk about how crappy online dating is. They think it's because all men have shitty personalities rather than the small fraction of men that they choose fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:00 AM
-3

Bill Burr has a bit about this. You might catch the man in the act of beating the woman but you never see what goes down prior to that. Ass whoopings rarely fall out of the sky for no reason. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:06 PM
2

Most women spend their free time touching their boobs and fingering themselves. That's what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:59 PM
0

Another reason you don't get to complain about the wage Gap is because it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:45 PM
0

The pain didn't used to be long lasting. That's a relatively modern invention because in only a few hundred years men were by rights able to kill or at least beat the woman for cheating on him which removed a lot of the pain because he got his vengeance. A lot of the pain and agony that you see in men as a result of cheating these days is the fact that there is no repercussion for it. Other than the potential ending of the relationship the woman just walks away Scott free and in some cases even …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:06 AM
3

It is emotionally harming to the man because men tend to put women on a pedestal. Men are taught from a very young age that women are special and almost angelic and must be protected. Couple this with our connections to our mothers and you can kind of get a sense for what happens when betrayal comes from someone you worship. Women are seen as tender loving and a place of safe harbor as opposed to men who are seen as harsh and rough and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:57 AM
26

Well they won't ALL go incel but statistically speaking I think that population will grow ever larger with time as a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:17 PM
9

If they could wire transfer pussy then I would totally be down for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:44 AM
3

You don't happen to live in Michigan do you? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:36 AM
13

And this right here shows the complete imbalance between the genders when it comes to sexual access.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:34 AM
3

I'm sorry but I do have to ask. Were you at a hookup party or orgy? Did the number 9 man know that you had eight previous guys? I really would love to know the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:13 AM
20

Yeah every one of those women is dirt poor and looking for a green card
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:05 AM
1

Don't try, be yourself is a perfect explanation for the reality behind dating. Women don't have to try or put much effort into getting the interest of the man. Good looking man automatically get the woman to flirt with them without barely trying. If you have to try then you're just not attractive enough to the woman to elicit that out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 06:30 PM
1

That's just a stereotype. There is no doubt that domesticity becomes a bit boring at times and repetitive. Both husbands and wives cheat because of it. They miss the thrill of the chase or being chased and all the new feelings that a new relationship brings. Men like ditzy little stripper girls in the same way that women love pool boys with boyish good looks. It's just something to look at and have sex with and really doesn't rise above anything beyond being a sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:25 PM
0

I've heard every woman is bi. You just need to figure out whether it's sexual or polar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:47 PM
13

Sorry but being a moderately attractive woman, you don't get to claim that it's your social calibration that breeds success in approaching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:18 PM
60

The one where the guys blame the women for having too high standards and the women tell the guys that they just need better pictures and to grow a few inches taller and to approach them in real life but just not at work or the gym or the coffee shop or if they're out grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:27 AM
1

I would claim that gender entitlement exists on both sides. There are just as many women who lash out violently when a relationship ends or if their intended lover rejects them. Because of the way women are raised and their smaller physicality they cannot threaten physical violence but instead use emotional violence. Go on YouTube and look up all the videos of crazy ex-girlfriends trying to break into homes and smash up cars and pretend that they're being abused to get the police to arrest their…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:46 PM
3

Sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 01:18 PM
12

Women rarely choose men based on their intelligence. It might be an additional bonus if the good looking guy is also intelligent but that is hardly the linchpin for women's mating strategies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:52 PM
14

Humans have removed themselves from natural selection via cooperation, society and technology. We are the master species because we have learned to cooperate and work in groups, not because of any genetics superiority and physical superiority. Breeding solely based on physical attractiveness MIGHT help us if we were still hunter-gatherers as it could be a marker for overall physical health. Since we are not hunter-gatherers then there is very little to gain from selecting only the physical speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:34 PM
8

Your hostility shows your lack of good faith effort. Anything I say will be instantly trivialized. If you're really interested in knowing and you want to put a good faith effort into finding out your blind spots then go do a little research. It's not very hard to find with Google.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:43 AM
5

Thank you for reaffirming my statement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 02:39 AM
30

Like I said, blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:28 PM
15

I never said it means that being a woman is better. What I said is that women have privileges that they are blind to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:07 PM
18

Luckily somebody has done that but in the other direction. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/local/wp/2018/07/20/feature/crossing-the-divide-do-men-really-have-it-easier-these-transgender-guys-found-the-truth-was-more-complex/ One of the overarching themes is that trans men feel alone and are treated with more suspicion as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:58 PM
87

It's so funny to hear women always screaming about male privilege when they themselves are completely oblivious to their own female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:42 PM
2

Cook a meal, prepare a lunch, add a woman's touch to his home by tidying or organizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:05 AM
3

What makes you think women over 40 don't get attention? That is completely bogus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:07 PM
2

I usually go 35-52. I'm not picky really. I don't mind the job or education the women have and generally don't mind a little bit of chub on a girl. Cuteness and kindness are all that matters ideally with some intellectual curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:04 PM
2

You're absolutely nuts. Trust me in that I have a realistic view of my rating. I'm 48 years old and I've been dating longer than most of you have been alive. I'm familiar with the kind of girls I can elicit interest from in social settings and when I compare that to what I get on dating apps they are two to three points apart. Do you not agree that women can afford to be more choosy on dating apps since there are more men than women? If that is the case and doesn't it make sense that they would …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:13 PM
1

If women are outnumbered on dating apps three to one they can afford to be more picky. Why would they be picking guys beneath them? What you are saying makes absolutely no sense based upon what most men are experiencing on dating apps these days. I can gain the attention of plenty of women that I deem beneath me in terms of looks but it is like pulling teeth to get any attention for women who I consider my equals and forget about going for girls that are above average in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:51 PM
0

Average and ugly guys can get laid on dating apps if they lower their standards and fuck down. This is why so many women get pumped and dumped because most guys are fucking down thus will never commit to a lower tier woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:45 PM
3

You're flat out wrong. Most guys don't look for model looks as that can be intimidating and brings a host of problems. Hell I don't mind chubby girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 12:01 PM
1

Talking to Blue pills about the difficulty of dating amongst men it's like talking to Republicans about the difficulties of low-income wage earners. They just don't give a shit and believe the blame all lies on you rather than the system that you're born into.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:06 PM
1

I've had relationships with graduate level educated women and was actually married to one. But I've also had relationships with women who have not completed college and I was fine with them also.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:02 AM
0

Yes. Masters degree although recently it seems like they are steering towards PhD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:46 AM
4

I am a high income earner and I would have a serious relationship with the clerk from 7-Eleven if she were cute enough and kind enough. I don't care what she does for a living. If her house is at least decently clean and she's not a basket case and a good work ethic then I'm all in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 11:44 PM
21

And because it's illegal to use clubs on women instead men are becoming more verbally aggressive and outspoken about the nature of females. I just don't see society having a good time of it if this continues for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:13 PM
46

And this is probably why women have had their sexuality and mate choosing controlled for centuries. Civilizations of bygone eras recognized how finicky and hard to please women were and needed the family unit to be stable to prevent crimes of passion and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:03 PM
13

Better stock up on groceries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:06 AM
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I've licked for as much as half an hour. What I have found is that when you look at a guy in pictures that's pretty much the dude you're going to see on a daily basis. Women hardly ever look like the persona they put in their dating profile. This is why it's such a shocked most guys when they wake up next to them in the morning with the makeup gone and the hair messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:50 PM
-2

Well now you're generalizing people who generalize genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:45 PM
1

Men's problems will always be derided by women. But much like women often argue, privelege is invisible to those who have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:30 PM
3

40s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:30 AM
14

As a man in his 40s an average woman to me would be someone who's about 5'5 160 lbs, single mom with a couple kids either in high school or getting ready to move out. She might have some college and has a standard hourly job where she might be making around 20 to $25 an hour. She's not fit and she's about a five in the looks department but can doll herself up with makeup and hair to a six or seven.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:59 PM
2

Excellent discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 08:04 PM
3

Mate guarding can reduce the chances of an encounter that can lead to temptation. I can tell you that people are not just cheaters out of the blue or because of some inherent flaw. Sometimes it just happens because the exact right person under the right circumstances occurs. So if me guarding can prevent a few of those chance occurrences then it is a biologically and psychologically rational thing to do. It does not remove the agency of someone and if they don't like mate guarding then they can …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:00 AM
1

Here is the breakdown. Women on dating apps are given an automatic handicap in terms of their looks and desirability. This is because there are roughly three guys for every girl. This automatically means that women can be more picky and choose men that are better looking and ignore vast swaths of men that are your average guy. Yes you are two consenting adults, but because women are essentially picking the top echelon of men in terms of attractiveness this also means average women are getting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:30 PM
1

For the same reason people buy scratch off lottery tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:25 AM
10

Yeah this girl is not attracted to him and will end up using sex as a bargaining chip in their relationship. In fact I wouldn't be surprised if she's getting it on the side if she's holding out 9 months with a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:24 PM
3

You're claiming that men need to stop having sex and being so promiscuous. I would agree but this also falls on women who are also being excessively promiscuous. There are literally no standards to having sex these days and men have the lowest standards of all which gives the lowest quality women inflated egos. Since it is a man's natural tendency to have sex with as many people as possible and it is a woman's natural tendency to hold off having sex and find the best mate possible it would make …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:58 AM
1

I do know that red pill people talk about the insane breakup rate of lesbians. It's even worse than heterosexual couples if I recall and they usually pin it on the fact that there's two women in the relationship and women always tend to be the ones who end relationships. Thus you're doubling the chances with two chaotic females who are overly emotional, strong headed and hard to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 12:49 AM
10

Oh they are. They just don't give a shit and refuse to be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:42 PM
1

In my opinion and from experience, the man is almost always the one that dictates if the sex is quality. Women are almost universally bad at sex because most are passive and wait for the man to ignite their desires. If the guy is not into the girl that much then the sex will always be bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:07 PM
62

If men are to be the approachers and the pursuers and the ones to take initiative while women sit back in passive roles expecting to be pursued because they have so many options but are also in a defensive position looking for red flags and are of course strong and independent meaning they're not afraid to voice their displeasure, means that yes, women will have to perpetually be creeped out and made to feel uncomfortable while men grope around in the dark looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 12:03 PM
2

Yep We met on a dating app. I was up front that I did not want a relationship. I was able to talk her into something adventurous that neither of us had done. We met for the first time in the parking lot of a bar that she was at with her friends. She walked out of the bar climbed into my car and we fucked. We did it one more time at my place and that was it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:10 PM
0

I think we all know the answer. Women are exposed to far more temptation than men via social media or even at work or in person and social gatherings. Women are more likely to cheat than men as a result of this exposure to temptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 10:22 PM
5

Gym is life. If I were forced to live without the gym or a woman for the rest of my life I would say goodbye to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:29 AM
1

It's all about the individual partner. You can be an absolute stud and know all the buttons and tricks with one girl and then feel like a complete moron with the next. The only thing that makes someone universally good at sex is a selfless desire to please another human and the willingness to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:20 PM
23

I work in healthcare and I'm surrounded by women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:15 PM
5

So you don't think it's possible for a nihilistic incel to become a politician?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:18 PM
6

Nothing says it has to be rational. People who do not have their basic needs met and who feel unloved lash out and seek to cause mischief and disorder. A child who is unloved by his parents and abused may act out in school by misbehaving and getting poor grades. It doesn't mean that these behaviors are going to lead to his parents loving him more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:15 PM
7

No. But I do think politicians seek power and if there is enough power behind the voters looking for more conservative traditional gender roles, then I can see it being very easy for society to become regressive. Look at what's happening with abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:12 PM
8

And taken by politics or force if the need is great enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:52 PM
11

Do you deny that those are basic biological drives?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:46 PM
3

You do understand that divorce and alimony in child support tends to financially wreck the man. Adding a custody battle can make it so that he won't ever be able to pay any of his obligations. It's a barrier that a lot of men cannot afford to try and climb. It shows how the system is biased that you have to fight for 50/50 custody rather than it being presumed. This is how so many red pill men are made because it's never presumed that the father gets them full-time if the mother doesn't fight fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:10 AM
3

Most men don't take it to court because the default judgment is not 50/50 and most men cannot afford a court battle to have the kids 50% of the time. I had to fight my ex-wife for 50/50 with no reason other than she wanted them full-time. I'm about as real as it gets you jerk because I've lived through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:52 AM
1

This is a patently false statement from my personal experience and men's rights forums that I frequent
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:37 AM
36

You seem to be under the impression that we're a bunch of fat out of shape basement dwellers. You might want to revise your stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 08:58 PM
1

I make close to 200k per year in a region where most people only earn a fifth of that. I don't consider myself a high value man other than the fact that I earn good money and I'm pretty intelligent and a beast in the gym. I live modestly and focus on raising my boys. I'm somewhat of an introvert and as such women don't generally pay much attention to me. Earning six figures does not make you a high value man in my opinion. It's the character more than anything. People that live the Instagram or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:51 AM
2

One would think....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:10 PM
2

Having access to men 40 years ago was nothing like now. Today you can break the ice super quick with texting and pics and it doesn't"feel" like cheating because it's all virtual. The barriers of breaking the ice and meeting so many willing men were so much higher 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:00 PM
2

The reasoning for alimony always has to do with a standard of living that the woman has become accustomed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:56 PM
0

Also understand that men can have it after masturbating and as a result feel let down or disappointed by what they just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 10:15 AM
1

Something that gets lost on many women is that if it's a long term relationship where resources are shared and you live under the same roof, then an additional income, even if it's lesser, will still make you wealthier than if you were single. Of course this assumes one partner isn't blowing through the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 06:40 PM
1

I think feminine beauty is perhaps more like a force of nature compared to the utilitarian build of men. Men are keenly aware of beautiful women because of evolutionary pressure to procreate and women are keenly aware of beautiful women because they are the competition for procreation. The reason I don't think men look at other men in the same way as far as competition goes is because I don't believe we were in monogamous in the early days of man and that women were probably inseminated by multi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:21 PM
5

That most likely is the case but my statement is a reminder that a lot of men tell younger men. Men have a habit of pedestalizing beautiful women and really worshiping the ground that they walk upon. Our lust tends to blind us to the faults and problems that exceptionally attractive women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 03:40 PM
12

He's 6 ft which is not average and he's a higher value man because he's more trendy, younger and more stylish. Olivia Wilde is a middle-aged mom who is going through a midlife crisis and misses her ho days and being the object of desire to someone other than her husband. Remember behind every hot woman is a man who's tired of her shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:10 AM
1

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:28 PM
2

I cheated not due to lack of sex but because I fell in love with my wife's friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:11 PM
2

Obviously there is risk in everything we do. There's probably a reason why women dressed conservatively, didn't have sex before marriage, had chaperoned dates and dances, and had husbands chosen for them. Somewhere between that and being a careless party girl who flirts drunkenly with toxic bad boys is the happy middle. It's up to women to decide where that happy middle is and how much they want to mitigate the risk of rape. It will always be with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:23 PM
2

I have suggestions but it always devolves into blaming the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:00 PM
3

You're right, it's not as simple. Just like preventing mugging isn't simple as it can happen literally anywhere to anyone, but most of us know not to go in certain places at night, or to flash our money in public, or to keep our wallet or purse close, or not carry an excessive amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:07 PM
1

He's not saying they choose rapists. He's saying that the desire for being pursued by dominant men and playing coy means you are statistically speaking more likely to attract men that don't take no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:05 PM
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Which world is more realistic? A world where rape never ever happens or a world where rape is minimized by being cautious in your behaviors and choices? I would love to live in a world where home invasion never happens but instead of wishing for it, I lock my doors and windows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:58 PM
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You're behavior is disgusting. Nothing like trying to shame and gaslight to change the subject on something that deserves legitimate discussion. Try to turn your ears on and listen to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:55 PM
1

Oh Jesus Christ. Motive? So you're insinuating he's a rapist and that's the only reason he would discuss this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:53 PM
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Excellent response. A lot of the behavior on the woman's part creates grey areas and rationalizing on the man's part.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:34 PM
1

The phrase doesn't mean that women in their 20s can't be undesirable or that women in their 40s are always undesirable. It means that youth is the number one selling factor from a primitive lizard brain point of view in men. The youthful version of the same girl will almost always be better than the older version except in cases of extreme weight loss and personal makeovers. On the other hand men tend to become more desirable as they age into their 30s because we not only trade on looks but also…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:48 PM
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The answer is that in general, average people become more attractive as you get to know them and become accustomed to their face and body. This of course assumes they aren't assholes. Attractive people get all of that attractiveness perception up front and it can only go downhill as you get used to their looks and are less smitten with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 05:32 PM
3

If assumed 50/50 custody were the default with no child support I would be fine. Child support would not be calculated based on income disparity but only if one party has the kid full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:44 PM
2

Porn, your hand and toys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:41 PM
1

It takes a lot of time to message everyone you like. So I personally only message women that stand out to me in terms of shared interests and proximity. Women who I feel I have a higher likelihood of being a match with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 10:47 AM
5

Except OLD statistics have already proven you wrong. Men are more egalitarian in choosing mates than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:41 AM
2

One of the hallmarks of an attractive woman is for smooth feminine skin. Their estrogen and youth makes it much more attractive than a man's skin. When women age it is much more apparent that their skin has aged, it is the change that is more drastic between the genders. Also since women grow out their hair longer than men, gray hair tends to show more noticeably. Even if they dye their hair the roots show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:16 PM
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Sorry my man but there's a reason why it's called a red pill. It's because it's the truth and once it's learned it can't be forgotten. Everything will be viewed through a red pill lens after learning about it. Of course there are always the exceptions to the rule that are more blue pill in nature if you're lucky enough to snag the right woman. Think of the red pill as being like salt and the blue pill being like pure fresh water. Adding just a little bit of red pill even in an overwhelming amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:27 PM
1

I'm perfectly capable and willing to pick them off the ground while still stunned from the fall and place them on my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:57 PM
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The second question is a no. The first question can be answered with science. There have been studies done on what makes people attractive. I'll leave you to do a Google search on it. The two variables I remember reading about is symmetrical face and the more average a face looks in terms of features, hair coloring, skin tone and size of nose, ears etc the more attractive a person is. There is a picture out there of a woman that is a composite of the beauty standards of every culture in the worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:56 PM
0

Ryan Reynolds and Brad Pitt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:13 PM
-1

I've dated two girls that have had such experiences. I have not. It didn't bother me, however one of the girls was very blase about sex and did not match my energy which is why I broke up with her. I'm not sure if she just wasn't into me or if she had the 1000 cock stare because she also had been into swinging with her previous husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:05 PM
1

Very good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:54 PM
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Women complain just as much about the quality and behavior of men and what happened to all the good men and where did chivalry go. It's almost as if they expected to be able to completely change the sexual Dynamics that have been with us for generations without any kind of response and confusion on the male side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:28 PM
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As a single dad yes I would
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:20 AM
3

You are correct. Social scientists do seem to warn about an overabundance of underemployed and under-sexed men in society. It always seems so lead to social unrest and War.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:13 AM
1

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 10:05 AM
5

Waiting for that virus that selectively allows pudgy short guys with small penises and no fashion sense to survive.🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:56 AM
6

I disagree with your claim that there are not enough people being born in rich countries. Strictly from an environmental standpoint and resources, a baby born in the West uses far more resources than a baby in the poor third world countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:05 AM
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Maybe. I could just see him deeper than just the bad guy. And I think Marvel wanted us to view him in a deeper sense than just a bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:59 AM
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OP has two children of his own and supports them on his own while simultaneously paying child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:58 AM
2

It doesn't require the man to earn more than you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:57 AM
2

You make some very good points and I appreciate the length of your response. I'm especially intrigued by the unforeseen knock on effects of male birth control in the form of a pill. That is going to change the dynamic in quite a few relationships and make it much harder for false paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:44 AM
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I agree that in general women probably do prefer a man who earns more because that's hardwired into their psychology from several thousand years of looking for providers. But the same is also true about desirable genetics. In the same way that the evolutionary psychology of women has not changed in terms of looking to satiate their hypergamy they also still at a very deep level want a physically fit attractive man regardless of what that means in terms of survival in a modern society. In fact we…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:23 AM
1

Aw man I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:12 AM
0

Lol. No but I was probably one of the few people who understood Thanos on a deeper level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:06 AM
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I agree with that assuming that humans can continue to live in a modern fashion with climate change accelerating. If there's anything that I've learned over the last two years from the pandemic and the war in Ukraine it's that modern society is built like a deck of cards and it really doesn't seem like it would take much for it all to collapse and require people to live in a much more primitive fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:58 AM
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I disagree with your statement about making as many babies as possible. Another Central tenant of survival of a species is for it to be able to reach a symbiosis with its habitat. If it destroys its own habitat and uses up all of the resources it needs to survive then the species perishes. This is why rainforests are viewed as the perfect ecosystem to study natural selection and biodiversity because all of the creatures have reached a symbiosis with the environment and have filled in every niche…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:49 AM
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No I'm not implying that at all. Darwinism simply speaks to the ability of an organism to continue its bloodline. As the bearer of children women are powerful because they are the choosers of what genetics get passed down to Future generations. Yes we live in a society that does not require strong men who can hunt or toil in a field and build a shelter, however we're really not that far removed from the hunter-gatherer lifestyle. Our psychology has not caught up with the realities of modern day …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 12:13 AM
3

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:59 PM
1

So if I add CMV flare this would be a fine post? I guess I don't understand the rules here because you've deleted two of my posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:01 PM
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Well Darwinism only cares about the ability of a gene line being propagated. Your ability to earn money or be a nice guy or have a great personality has nothing to do with your genes being put into a womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:54 PM
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She signed the prenup so that the marriage would continue. She didn't want him to back out. What if he backs out? Does that mean he's not allowed to marry her because he wants a prenup? If they then bring the wedding back after she signs the prenup is she still doing it under duress?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:35 PM
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It doesn't matter. I don't recall what the time span was but it was at least a few months prior to the wedding. She kept putting it off and then claimed she was coerced into signing it. It's ridiculous because let's suppose the guy just started showing signs of being incompatible with her during their engagement. Most women would second guess the marriage and pull it out from under him. So why is it that a prenup can't be seen as a partner showing incompatibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:46 PM
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Perhaps the worst reason a prenup can be ignored is if it was done under coercion. What counts as coercion? Well I remember hearing a story about a prenup that was ignored by the bride-to-be up until weeks before the wedding. Of course the groom was pushing her to sign it so that the wedding could continue so she signed it and then later during the divorce claimed that she was coerced because he threatened to not marry her. Think about that for a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:36 PM
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I'm a very responsible adult who fully thinks about the consequences and perhaps over-analyzes them. I still cheated on my ex-wife with her best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:00 PM
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I completely agree. Just more ammunition for why getting permanently hitched to somebody with government enforcement is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:09 AM
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Except women also enter marriage under false pretenses. How many times do we hear about the wife going frigid once the vows are taken. All BJs stop, nevermind about the experiments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:00 AM
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I'm divorced from a stay-at-home mom and she initiated the divorce. She was and still is a vindictive bitch. Regardless of what her attorney would tell her she just would not be reasonable and made everything twice as difficult as it had to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:33 PM
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You couldn't just change it to CMV? I thought it was a pretty neutral post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:08 PM
1

Please elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 01:24 PM
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So what you are saying is that women are superficial and slaves to fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 08:12 PM
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They have a system of strikes so the users were not banned probably because it was their first or second instance. I didn't say that women have to get off social media. What I'm saying that is the more public you make your forum the more likely you're going to get unwanted interaction. It's like setting up a soap box in the middle of a public square. You can't expect to do something like that without the occasional boo hiss and verbal harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 12:07 PM
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Linking the article above
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:44 AM
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Yes Instagram allows you to report it. They have a system of strikes. What would you have them do? And yes your email gets sent things that you don't want otherwise you have the only email in existence that has never received junk mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:25 AM
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You can report that and there is a system of strikes that Instagram follows that ultimately leads to deletion of accounts. However this does not prevent people from going out making a new account. You just have to face it that it's an insurmountable challenge and if they could stop something like this then things like junk mail would never exist. The fact that your email gets untold hundreds of things sent to it that you don't want shows how insurmountable of a problem this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 11:18 AM
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You can speak up but it isn't going to stop it. The article seems to imply that Instagram had a job to predict ahead of time when those messages were going to get there and prevent the user from ever seeing them. Anybody who is even remotely literate on how computers work knows how impossible that is. If you want to leave your account open for positive affirmation and business opportunities then you are also open to hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:42 AM
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Think about what you just said. How would you go about doing such a thing? You don't know who the sick males are until they do such things. So you're asking for is to live in a perfectly safe and comfortable world where the billions of people can only give you positive things and never negative things. Do you realize how ridiculous that sounds? It's just as ridiculous as men who get on here and claim women shouldn't be whores. As people we have to tolerate the fact that there is an entire spectr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:39 AM
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That's just it. They want a way where they can post pictures and get feel good comments and validation from the world but just none of the negative icky stuff. Obviously the validation far outweighs the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:09 AM
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The article implied that Instagram should prevent it from ever happening. That's what I find unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:35 AM
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It seems to me that if you are fishing for compliments from the general public that it is unreasonable to expect all those comments to be to your liking. Apparently the validation far outweighs the negative attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:31 AM
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I would claim it's more like wearing a provocative outfit and just getting cat calls. Is it reasonable to expect nobody to give you cat calls? That seems to be living in an unrealistic world where everyone behaves perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:22 AM
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Isn't it like leaving your house unlocked and complaining about the occasional home intruder?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:14 AM
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Nope. The fact is I'm a father, I've been married and in multiple relationships. I do not go after 9s and 10s. I actually swipe on 4s through 7s because I perceive myself as a 5 or 6. Women are far pickier now than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:42 AM
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Yeah I have to say that I am not a chaser. If I can't elicit interest from just some common decent human interaction then screw it. Nobody is worth chasing. I feel like even with the swiping and the texting it becomes too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:22 AM
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Turn off Fox News and take a look at what the conservatives have been doing over the last 4 years. You might understand the reaction from the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:01 AM
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See? Your characterization shows what an impossible ass hat you would be to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:24 AM
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Dating a conservative could have worked pre Trump. Now that they are mostly Trump cultists it's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:20 AM
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Because he checks so many boxes on her prince charming list that she's been carrying since highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:30 PM
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There is no gender pay Gap other than self-imposed from women and their life priorities and work tendencies. Does it create a problem with men and dating? Absolutely! Is it unfair? No. Women will just have to adjust their expectations and men will also have to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:17 PM
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When I say I have no luck I guess what I should say is that I can't seem to pull girls that I consider to be even equal to me in terms of education, life style or looks. Every once in a great while there will be a gem but mostly it's overweight women or poorly educated women. I can get laid if I'm desperate, but there is no quality. I'm not fat or ugly. Just average in looks and rather muscular in build.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:45 PM
1

Very good insight
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 02:07 PM
2

I was. I ditched her after about 3 months when I could tell she just wasn't that into me. It was quite liberating to cut her loose on my terms rather than trying to win her affection. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 11:29 PM
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It's the narrative that surrounds the pump and dump depending on which gender does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:08 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:02 PM
3

Less sex but ironically more loads busted per Capita.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:03 PM
1

Don't be her emotional tampon unless she's willing to be your semen tampon😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:56 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:19 AM
2

Few things sound grosser to me than standing around with a bunch of other dudes naked stroking themselves while waiting to dip my cock into a pool of other men's semen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:07 AM
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I disagree. Yes it is so much harder for a man to get sex than a woman. Oftentimes when a married man finds a willing partner it's not because he tried so hard, it's because it kind of fell in his lap and he lucked out. It's kind of like winning the lottery and asking him to ignore it and not cash it in. However when it comes to being a woman sex is always at your fingertips much in the same way you can look anywhere on the ground and pick up a pebble. In one case we are asking women to ignore t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:15 AM
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As an analogy it's kind of like two thirsty people in the desert. One person can't get any water, the other person is complaining about the flavor of sparkling waters arranged before them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:04 AM
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I recently made a fake Tinder account with photos from a model I found on Instagram. I'm still getting only a few likes and only one match.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 12:00 AM
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Not everything can be nicely encapsulated in one theory, especially human behavior. However there can be general truisims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:30 PM
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Thanks for the advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:51 PM
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I don't really believe young women like older men. There may be a few outliers who are in their twenties that would be interested in late 40s guy but usually for the wrong reasons. I have extended it down into the twenties just out of curiosity and it doesn't help. In fact most of the comments that I read from girls of that age think men my age are usually invisible or creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:35 PM
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Because I'm not vain. I'm not going to get plastic surgery. I prefer to invest it and put it in my boys college accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:33 PM
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Age wise? I don't really have any other parameters other than smoking which is a hard pass for me. I'm willing to date someone up to an hour and a half drive away. I have occasionally broadened the age range and it doesn't really help. I'm not in a particularly populous region which also doesn't help me. I'm in an area of Michigan where the major cities are all about 90 minutes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:30 PM
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I think OLD is just a horrible way for women to pick reasonable matches. I think women require familiarity with someone to be attracted to them unless they are overtly handsome. I also think the number of choices makes them picky because of the paradox of choice where when there is too many options it makes each option less desirable when chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:28 PM
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I limit my age range from 35-52. If I'm having trouble with that age range I have no delusions that I would be able to snag a 20-something year old unless they were only interested in my money. In that case I'm not interested in them. I should also state that even though I don't advertise my wages I do list what my job is and a simple Google search would show how much I earn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:11 PM
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My wage puts me in the top 5% of earners in the United States. Of course I don't advertise it on my dating profile. I have literally no luck with these dating apps. I'm no looker but I would say that I'm a solid five perhaps a six and I work out regularly. Women are way more picky than they used to be. I'm in my late 40s so I remember what it was like before internet dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:22 AM
3

Hearing this coming from a stripper who has had every relationship handed to her based on her middling attractiveness and overt sexuality is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:41 PM
1

Not sure. Seems legit to me. Especially given it's discussed amongst the medical community.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:50 PM
1

Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 08:27 PM
1

I disagree that men are hornier. Various studies have shown that testosterone is plummeting in the average male and sperm count is also decreasing over the last few decades. There are more virgins than ever before and up to a quarter of the adult population has not had sex in the last year. I guess some of that could mean that men are hornier due to the lack of sex but I also think porn is a much more utilized diversion due to that. In fact masturbation even seems to be decreasing. Bill Maher ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:19 PM
1

LMAO I'm in my 40s. Most of us don't use Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:46 PM
1

When I look at my friends on Facebook very few of them use Instagram let alone tag people. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:20 PM
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I've known women like this some going back to my grandparents time (born in the 20s and 30s). Some of them will live with another female and seem to be very pious women. Avid churchgoers and whatnot. I've often wondered if they are secret lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:10 PM
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Most men above a certain age don't do Instagram. Men don't take pictures of themselves for the most part. Pictures are for women and children who are almost always the target of a photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 09:31 PM
1

I went on a few dates with a girl who was attractive in the face and had a great personality but was too heavy for my taste. I told her I would like to continue being friends and I meant it. She was so easy to talk to. She was smitten with me (made it known) and it was preventing her from finding a new guy because she thought she might change my mind. I let go of her because I realized it was harmful to her. I miss her sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:25 AM
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I think the biggest issue is that women put too much emphasis on the pictures when men are generally better looking in real life. They're not even giving guys a chance who might take a bad picture. Hell most of us guys take bad pictures because men generally are not the ones who are framed in pictures, not like women and children. We're usually the ones holding the camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:31 PM
6

We used to burn them at the stake and stone them or throw them in the streets to beg for food
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:41 PM
1

For myself I'm not at all anxious about my ability to perform. However imagine if you are a guy who is only had one or two partners and you match up with some woman who's been with 50 or 100 plus partners. Don't you think it would be a little understandable that they would have anxiety? I dated women who were married for years and have only had one or two partners and very limited vanilla sex life. It's not very fun as someone who has certain kinks and fetishes to have to find out that the exten…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:30 PM
1

It is. It's pretty common for men to mention sex very soon after initial messages on dating apps and most women ghost after that. It's a constant topic on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:29 PM
1

That's like saying a woman's unwillingness to date an overly sexual man is slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:32 AM
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Cults...hmmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:42 AM
1

That's kind of a weird reason. It doesn't ring true to me. I remember back in the day in high school when many guys that I knew were virgins would still slut shame. In fact one guy I knew had a chance to be with a particular girl who had a history and he turned her down because he wasn't interested in that kind of woman. Mind you this was back in the early 90s and I know things have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:46 PM
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No I don't imply that women respect and love them anymore than I imply that men respect and love sluts. Simps simply give women validation without the woman having to earn it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:40 PM
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A couple people that come immediately to mind that seem to be very feminine yet still have very attractive female partners are Jared Kushner and Robby Soave. Look them up because they are twinks if there ever were such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:11 PM
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You don't even have to think of it in terms of morals. Think of it from a purely market-driven perspective. Why do you suppose competitors within the same market always seem to settle down on a price point that is similar across every major brand within that market? Think about cellular service providers or cable TV providers. Most markets may have a handful of brands but they are all priced very similarly. A lot of this is done complicitly amongst the brands so that they don't have to sell thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:03 PM
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Perhaps. If a man is not having any sex I could see why he would view sluts with particular disdain. But some conservative men don't want sexual success but instead just a decent committed relationship with a monogamous woman. If the culture veers towards women becoming more promiscuous and putting out easier and less likely to be monogamous or at least settle down with a good guy then I could see another reason why that man would view such women with disdain. Namely it is decreasing the number …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:58 PM
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You're right there's nothing wrong with it. However it's not for you to decide if there's something wrong with it within another person's boundaries. Even without religion there are many reasons why people would rather have somebody with less than three partners on their body count list. It's a personal preference and I think there is a evolutionary psychological reason for it amongst most men. There is also an evolutionary psychological reason why women view promiscuous women in a negative fash…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:38 PM
2

I don't understand what you mean by that. If a man is not in love with a woman and he's just plowing her for fun very short-term then it's easy to psychologically ignore where she has been for that very short time. Becoming invested emotionally and financially and committing and sharing a home with that woman can make it much more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:24 PM
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Evolutionarily speaking, yes you are right, men are territorial. Many men do have a deep disgust of the thought of their partner being with many other people. As much as the prevailing societal pressure wants people to believe that men and women are identical they simply are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:20 PM
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It increases the chance that you're exposed to STDs. It increases the chance that you are emotionally unstable within relationships. It increases the chance that you are harder to please in a sexual manner. Men do not have access to sex in the same way women do and thus most men will not be as experienced and will have a harder time pleasing a very promiscuous woman. By the time the woman wants to settle down she's severely going to limit her potential mates who are willing to commit to a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:15 PM
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Some men are viscerally disgusted at a promiscuous woman. No I don't believe all men want casual sex. In today's society casual sex is much more accepted and slut shaming from Men is much rarer than it was 30 or 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:13 PM
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I think being highly emotional lends itself as a tool for hypergamy. Makes it easier for a woman to become discontent and try to level up her partner. I think this is why historically speaking punishment has been so harsh against women cheating or having sex outside of marriage. I think it was long ago recognized how destabilizing it is to family units and the dangers it could cause a tribe in terms of men wanting to kill other men for cheating and also wanting to kill women for cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:47 PM
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I know what I'm attracted to. It ain't men. Sampling dick isn't going to change the emotional component. It might make me realize I love the D also but the gross out factor is too great otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:33 PM
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I really knew I was straight long before I was ever with a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:19 PM
5

Huh? So you're not gay unless you've actually dated the same gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 11:12 PM
2

I find deaf speech impediment highly annoying when they have it. Plus communication is far more difficult unless they read lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:48 AM
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I live in a smaller City which is mostly non college educated. I have a master's degree and I'm having a terrible time at getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:42 AM
1

I have never once seen a fat man praised and told that he looks spectacular and he should never settle and "you go boy". I've never once seen a fat man have long lists of requirements for his girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:17 AM
3

I totally would date the blind. Not the deaf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:32 PM
5

Your lottery analogy is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:46 AM
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You are correct that women are allowed to do that. Surely you can understand from a woman's point of view why a guy might feel cheated. Imagine if you were dating somebody and you really wanted them to propose to you after 12 months of dating. Imagine further that you found out his previous girlfriend he proposed to within 3 months and had taken her on a couple of cruises yet you had not been on one vacation together. Would you feel some jealousy or would you think to yourself that he's allowed …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:38 AM
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Having been in a relationship where there was almost instant attraction and constant lust for each other, it's really the only way to go. Neither one of us are 10s but to each other we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:18 PM
1

I'm just curious what your thoughts are about allowing the bots to look like real people. It would obviously cause a lot of angry people and hurt feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:54 AM
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I have more questions about this If we can make lifelike sex dolls at West World level of realness then we can make them look like a real person that actually exists. Of course this would mean that somebody would try to have one made that looks like Brad Pitt or Scarlett Johansson and perhaps they would get royalties for that likeness. But what do you do if you see your neighbor come home with his new sexbot that is the spitting image of your wife or your teen daughter? Should we allow them to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:46 AM
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It's not BS. There are plenty of social media postings proving otherwise where they admit it. If they have nothing going on for themselves on a particular night and they don't want to cook or buy their own food it's a simple matter of accepting a date. In fact this is why men are being told to make the first date a coffee or drink date. It limits such motivations, saves the guy some money and is very similar to women who don't put out on first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:57 AM
1

There are countries that allow for financial abortions. The father can absolve All rights to the child in exchange for no financial responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:21 AM
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I agree that they are not inherently bad and I agree that some people have successfully raised children in this manner. However it is an exceedingly small fraction of society that is capable of doing so and conducting these relationships in a healthy manner. The nuclear family is the ideal way to raise children at least from what we have seen historically speaking. A poly relationship would be really no different than a mixed family and anybody who is divorced and has tried to co-parent with mix…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:53 AM
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Well from what I have read and listened to the claim goes as follows. If all the average and above girls are taken up by the Chads so to speak this leaves all the below average women left that the Chad's don't want. However there is a disproportionately large number of men compared to women who cannot secure a good relationship or consistent sex. So there are more single men than women and the women left over are the below average women. They will be able to divvy up the men and have multiple pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:46 AM
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Women in general are just not worth the effort. If they can't just be with me as an equal human being then I refuse to jump through hoops and chase and woo her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:11 PM
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The red pill has a lot to say about poly. Red pill comments predict that poly will become more prevalent as women are mostly only hungry for top tier males. This will leave a lot of women with below average looks and a huge majority of males still wanting sex. Thus 8, 9 and 10 males will have multiple partners (face it they already do) with women that are 5 and up. And the remaining men will share below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:47 PM
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It's the mistaken belief that you can make wide sweeping changes in society without there being a knock-on effect. Almost every decision that is made for the greater good also has a negative effect in some way. The key is to recognize that negative effect before making the change and trying to decide if it will be worth it. Do you end up with a net positive or a net negative? Sometimes the negative effect is simply increased cost via taxes. Sometimes the negative effect can be a backlash from a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:21 AM
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There's also nothing more wretched than going into a location where multiple people have had access to your partner's body before you. I started dating this girl that I met online and she started going to my gym with me. There were several people there that she had had sex with and I was unaware of her past until I talked to a buddy of mine. The ironic thing is I broke up with her because she just didn't want sex as much as I desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:50 AM
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You sound incredibly stupid don't you have any idea what a society is? There are certain things that are for the greater good of a society. Taking care of children and the elderly happens to be a few of those things. Taking care of your workforce and their sanity would be another important thing. These are all things that payback dividends in the long run for the economy and for social cohesion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:42 AM
3

I just heard a podcast where they were talking about this and it was very interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:47 AM
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I know that a lot of women wanted feminism to create basic equal rights with men but thought that they could leave everything else the same when it comes to relationships between men and women and what the expectations for men should continue to be. However you can't make an enormous societal shift in half the population without expecting an enormous societal shift in the other half of the population. There are knock-on effects that will echo for decades and repercussions that we still don't ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:53 PM
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To be honest no. I couldn't manage being in a relationship with a woman that attracts the attention of every man all the time. I'm a low key low drama individual that just wants a companion that I can provide for and help through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:24 PM
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No I would not be settling for whatever "my equal" is. Hell even girls that are supposedly "beneath me" I would consider as long term prospects and not settling. She only has to be cute to my eye, kind, and fun in the bedroom. I don't mind if she's chubby or rail thin, a professional or college student. Hell even if she had reasonable debt with no plans to be able to pay it off it wouldn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:37 PM
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I would be thrilled to get my exact equal. I'm a solid 6 on looks, fit and muscular but no 6 pack, salary is top 5%, net worth is top 10%, I'm well educated an intellectual and a bit of a nerd, average height. I have no luck on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:53 PM
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I've never had a virgin and frankly I don't think I'm missing out on much. And yes I would be in a long-term thing with a woman who has a high body count under the right circumstances especially if she's kinky.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:14 AM
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Purple
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:11 AM
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I will never get married again but I'm not insecure about the number of partners she's had if she puts out to me in all the ways that I desire. Having a partner that is good giving and game is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 03:05 AM
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Non virgin EVERY DAMN DAY. I don't care if she's been with 50 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:40 AM
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I think the more attractive you are the more opportunities you get to be social and more socially calibrated you become. This would be why they have better personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:20 AM
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I think marriage is falling amongst the general population or secular. The religious are still going to want to get married and are more likely to stick it out. Also the wealthier you are the more likely you are to get married and stick it out. So the fact that divorce rates are falling is only a symptom of the fact that the kinds of people that are continuing to marry are the ones who are at least likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:33 AM
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I do consider myself a prize. My salary, no debt, I've been told I'm handsome by others besides my mom, I'm laid back and a great lover. However I also recognize I have quirks and personality traits that don't fit with everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:54 PM
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I'd be okay with the feet pics. That means she's got nice feet which I can get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:39 AM
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I just heard a story about a guy who stumbled across a video of his fiance being tag teamed by two guys before they were dating. This destroyed their relationship. Sometimes the shit you do in the past can definitely affect your relationships in the future. Few men want a promiscuous whore as the mother of their children. If you ever do end up doing crazy things or accumulating a high body count you damn well better make sure you don't leave evidence behind for your future spouse to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 01:24 AM
1

Not sure but there sure do seem to be a lot more pedophiles and closet gays in conservative land.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 09:52 PM
2

Most orthopedic surgeons I know are big burly guys, not chiseled in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:21 PM
2

FOB?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:19 PM
1

Most underrated comment on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:15 PM
1

Personally none. I am a triple 1 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:17 PM
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You're not on here much are you? Never met a guy who wouldn't date a 7-11 clerk let alone a teacher due to their wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:23 PM
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An ugly man is worth far more than a dependent helpless woman. Men still can be used for labor and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 12:06 AM
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I put a lot of effort into my physique but unfortunately almost as much effort into my eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:15 PM
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I'm sorry. If you want to PM me and talk I'm game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:45 AM
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Oh man I completely understand. Sorry about your luck but it's kind of a double edged sword and I'm sure gives you the pick of any man you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:41 AM
1

Such as?😃
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:18 AM
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Fluoride stare?😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:37 PM
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I believe she referred to them as player douchebags. I'm not sure what you mean by a neutral title. It just seems to me that women are the choosers when it comes to starting relationships and women tend to attract a broad swath of men not just a particular kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:04 AM
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Completely agree with this. Absolutely no enthusiasm or desire to ask me questions and get to know me. The whole conversation feels one-sided and I'm not sure if it's lack of interest or if it's a game that they play to see if I will pursue them. I'm guessing it has more to do with lack of enthusiasm and there just being other guys that they prefer talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:33 AM
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It's almost as if she wants to absolve herself of any responsibility or accountability. 🤔🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:24 AM
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Very insightful. Although you appear to be referring to interactions in real life rather than dating apps. In today's day and age with dating apps women are almost always the choosers and thus can never seem to claim that they only attract the bad boys. Do you believe this to be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:22 AM
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I was raised pretty liberal but there's still not much that has prepared me for what's going on today in the dating world. I was not raised with any religious upbringing but I still can't help but shake my head at how we have thrown away centuries of tradition and norms without taking into account the repercussions. I'm a gen X by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:44 AM
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I would prefer a low n count but the current state of dating for average guys means most of us have little choice in the matter, at least if we want companionship. It does make most men less likely to commit and also more likely to expect easy access to sex when a woman has a high n count. I have no idea what is an acceptable number because it's different for each guy. I think a high number for a woman would be above 10. Although that's chump change for some women who can easily crest 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:36 AM
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Slender or at least not obese. Long hair. Shaved legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:47 AM
2

My ex-wife did exactly this. She refused to go back to work and we ultimately divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:16 AM
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She's a spiteful horrible bitch who doesn't know how to co-parent to save her life and our boys pay for it. If I could go back in time I never would have dated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:05 AM
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This is definitely true. My ex-wife worked and earned on par with me until we had kids. Staying at home with the kids made her go insane. I pushed for her to start working again which she resisted against. She then proceeded to cheat on me and we divorced with her getting alimony for a couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:49 AM
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Oh fuck off. Read what you just said. Because I derive pleasure from my partners pleasure it means I'm selfish? You're a piece of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:33 PM
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Man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 11:14 AM
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I've only felt the spark once and it wasn't much of a spark in the traditional sense because it didn't happen right away. I knew the woman for a few years as a friend and I definitely found her attractive and she was flirty with me but there was no spark. It was only until I expressed interest in her and we started texting and then when we found out both of us had been pining for the other over the last couple years that the spark happened. I've never felt so quickly and deeply in love with anyb…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:57 AM
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Now see I always endeavor to put my lady partners needs as a priority in the bedroom. I get off on getting her off. I've often wondered if it helps to be more upfront in a dating profile about your sexuality. I'm guessing not because most women would probably find it creepy even though it may give some women an idea as to whether a prospective partner is vanilla or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:42 AM
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If you get enough lonely women it will change
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:19 PM
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I'll see your M'lady and raise it one fedora
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 03:09 AM
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I know it's tempting to think that sluts are the same thing as players but I completely disagree. Players have to learn skills and game to be successful. Sluts on the other hand can be indiscriminate and there is no effort in the same way that players experience. I think it's better to compare a player who is a man that tries to get sex as quickly and efficiently as possible without a care for the partner's feelings. To that of a woman that tries to get commitment or resources as quickly and eff…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:24 PM
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You are obtuse to think that the majority of women turning down men for sex is because they're triggered about rape. 99.99999% of women denying sex has more to do with other things such as attractiveness and chemistry and women generally thinking men who approach are creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:26 PM
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When it comes to consensual relationships women are generally the ones who control access to sex. Rape is an outlying statistic. I would also claim it's not sex but I guess it depends upon what your definition of sex is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:03 PM
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So here's something to ponder. Incels have a general negative view of women because of their lack of success with finding a partner. Specifically a sexual partner which is something hard for men to find compared to women. Women have a harder time finding a committed partner from Men and many women have negative views of men because of this. Does this make them the female equivalent of incels? Should these women be made fun of and derided for their inability to tie a man down? Women control sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:39 PM
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LMAO every dating app caters to female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:56 AM
1

As a 43 year old man with two kids and divorced they pushed back a bit on me getting a vasectomy. What if I met some young pretty girl that wants kids? They asked me. Getting it was the best decision of my life because I often had anxiety about impregnating another woman. It was such an easy procedure too. I'm convinced that men do not have the need to have children the same way women do. Most men who do end up having children despite not wanting any is a result of the woman wanting children and…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:50 PM
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Preferring a younger partner statistically speaking is a realistic endeavor as the percentage of women between 18 and whatever the man's age is, is quite large. Only 15% of men are 6ft or over (in the US) and by the time you whittle it down to being of age and attractive enough and available means women are locking themselves out of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:23 AM
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Have a very cool, relaxed personality. Be good, giving and game in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:52 AM
1

Yes I would think so
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:36 PM
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If he is surrounded then that means he has options. Options are what enable a man to have standards and be choosy about which woman he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:33 PM
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The only standard he must have before raising his standards is having enough interest from women that he has options such that he can start filtering them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:26 PM
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Fat girls have great personalities, act like humans and try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:34 PM
2

I think men idealize women and lesbians are natural born red pillers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 01:27 AM
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Well if you get enough disaffected frustrated men without goals or biological needs met, guess what? Society begins to crumble. Guess what happens if society crumbles? Modern luxuries and social constructs begin to crumble. Equality between the genders is a modern societal construct. It needs to be enforced by rule of law and enough men willing to protect it. You better hope there's enough of those men around and they're not feeling disenfranchised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:35 AM
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You know how ridiculous this sounds? Imagine if men said they were not going to bother being drafted until the military makes it more safe for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:09 AM
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I don't think the red pill will change dating in general culture as much as the current dating market will. I don't think you even have to know about the red pill to decide that dating sucks for men, women's standards are too high, marriage sucks for men, and you're better off just playing the field and focusing on yourself. Ultimately between the red pill and modern online dating the remnants of the nuclear family will be destroyed if feminism hasn't already done it. Birth rates will drop drast…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:50 AM
2

Men are not indiscriminate. We simply find roughly half or more of females attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:26 PM
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Given a 10 minute period of swiping both genders will encounter the same number of people. Men consistently swipe right on 50 to 60% of women and women swipe right on about 5-10% of men. The number of users in each gender has no bearing on how many people you are viewing in that finite time span.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:50 PM
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The ratio of men to women has no bearing on how forgiving each gender is when it comes to swiping left or right based on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:36 PM
1

People tend to be conservative when the current system serves them just fine. They don't like change because they are afraid the change will take away privileges that they may have in the current system. There is a privilege to being a married woman versus a single woman. There obviously have been privileges to being a man. Eventually and very soon statistics will bear out that women are better educated and as a result better compensated in their jobs. They also hold the upper hand when it comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:22 PM
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People tend to be conservative when the current system serves them just fine. They don't like change because they are afraid to change will take away privileges that they may have in the current system. There is a privilege to being a married woman versus a single woman. There obviously have been privileges to being a man. Eventually and very soon statistics will bear out that women are better educated and as a result better compensated in their jobs. They also hold the upper hand when it comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:22 PM
1

A lot of times men may view women as possessions because so much of their finances and resources are tied up with that woman. If she leaves she takes a lot of his possessions that in many cases only he earned. I can tell you that women tend to treat their children as possessions particularly if you've ever been through a divorce and try to co-parent with a vindictive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:14 PM
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A lot of times men may view women as possessions because so much of their finances and resources are tied up with that woman. If she leaves she takes a lot of his possessions that in many cases only he earned. I can tell you that women tend to treat their children as possessions particularly if you've ever been through a divorce and try to co-parent with a vindictive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:11 PM
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Men are supposedly so shallow yet the statistics from dating apps prove that it is women who are much shallower when it comes to choosing men. They just don't want to admit it to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:00 PM
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Say that again but replace gay bars with "normal bars" and straight people with "gay people".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:41 AM
2

I work in a tech STEM field and I get paid quite handsomely. I am not a ladies man. I work out pretty religiously and many people would describe me as a beefcake but I'm not ripped (no 6 pack). I am mostly quiet and an introvert unless I really know someone. I've been told I'm pretty damn good in the bedroom too but it's such a challenge to get a woman interested in even contemplating the bedroom. I know a big problem is that I don't really care about fashion and I drive a minivan and I live hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:34 PM
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Not a good comparison. A more apt comparison is that of income inequality. Men use to be able to afford a middle class lifestyle just a couple decades ago, but now even the most modest sustenance in groceries and housing is out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:02 PM
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Your biggest mistake is just assuming he's doing it for sex. If you really believe that, then that means every single relationship you are ever in, acts of kindness are only so they can get sex. He wanted to be nice and do you a favor while at the same time wants to be in a relationship with you. Putting yourself in somebody's life makes you more comfortable with that person and perhaps makes it more likely that you would consider them as a romantic interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:55 AM
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You're ridiculous. How do man just simply step it up while simultaneously competing for jobs against women while women demand equal pay across the board?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:52 AM
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I don't think this is necessarily true. It may have been true for about 50 to 100 years but throughout the vast majority of history marriage had more to do with finances, merging two families for greater power, taking care of a woman who could not take care of herself, and having a sexual outlet without sinning.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:51 PM
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Well in my opinion there are too many people on this planet. We are killing the ability of our planet to sustain a rich and diverse ecosphere. Realistically speaking not even a significant fraction of our populous would "followed my advice". We NEED negative population growth. Talk to millennials. Many are completely unwilling to have kids simply due to financial reasons that's without even "following my advice".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:04 PM
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So it's not our job as parents to give our kids a sense on what the state of the world is and where it's going? Do you have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:12 PM
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I tell my boys not to bother having children because the world is going haywire. I have anxiety worrying about gen Z, I can't imagine worrying about their progeny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 11:40 PM
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She's not materialistic She's feminine Good giving and game in bed Higher standard of cleanliness than myself and willing to clean the house with my help Intellectually curious and open-minded
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:34 AM
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She has no moral obligation anymore than a man would have a moral obligation to get involved and try to stop a rape from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:06 AM
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It's selfishness. A lot of women want to move away and they can't do that if they have to share custody and so they make up charges of abuse to give them an edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:58 AM
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Going through divorce court and having to fight to have custody of my children other than every other weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:55 AM
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It's called urethral sounding. I can't stand seeing pics of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:38 PM
1

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life... https://youtu.be/6EqFVWzOfN8
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 02:49 AM
1

B. I would then periodically visit Amsterdam
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:01 AM
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You're completely delusional. This doesn't prove that she's attractive and just proves she has no self-respect. Something tells me you have a similar past considering how defensive you seem to be about the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 11:28 AM
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Mixed friends groups are fine but they usually exist within the context of couples. The problem lies in the fact that once the female or male friend gets a significant other there is usually a better than 50% chance that that significant other will want them to cut contact with any single opposite gender friends. Particularly if there is knowledge of that friend previously wanting a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:57 PM
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Why on Earth would women do prostitution for minimum wage when they can do much easier less icky work for minimum wage? Not everything becomes a low priced commodity just because some capitalist gets his hands on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 02:12 PM
1

Well tribes simply means other people and if society were to collapse there is no doubt that there would be tribes again. I don't use them as a threat, it's just a fact of life of how humans organize themselves. Practically speaking there still are tribes even on a global scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:29 AM
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What makes you think I look down on tribes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 02:19 AM
1

You understand that voting was a new thing right? Voting was not something that was very prevalent in the world and it only makes sense that they probably considered it a privilege only afforded to people who had economic stakes in the decisions. I'm not familiar with how property rights started but I would imagine that they were very few women who could afford property. There were very few men who could afford property. Owning property again was an incredible privilege at that time set aside fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:26 AM
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I think you're mistaking subjugation with protection. Go back 500 years or even just 200 years. What kind of job would a woman have been able to do? 99% of the labor was hard backbreaking dangerous work. There probably weren't that many women scrambling to sign up for those jobs. Because this is where most of the money was made there wasn't much in the way of options for women to live on their own and earn a living because there really wasn't such thing as a service sector back then. Women were …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 01:11 AM
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Except there are historical examples in art showing large women as beautiful that goes back thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:42 AM
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It's not their fault but the narrative has always been that men create unrealistic standards for women's bodies and we are pigs for it. However the data shows that women are MUCH more fickle about men and are primarily the blame for women's body images as it is the magazines that WOMEN read that promote the skinny model bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:28 PM
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Look at plus sized flabby Instagram and only fans models. Tons of female versions with men simping for them, never heard of the same for a male version.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:46 PM
0

Do you have a large nose? I've heard that women love tall skinny guys with big noses for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 12:51 AM
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Completely agree about how custody helps simmer the relationship down to a nice even pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:36 PM
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It is not easier. As you probably already know it's harder to date as a man and being a single dad only makes it harder. I have no problem dating a woman who has children but I have found a lot of these women do not want to date me because I have children with shared custody. So whatever matches an average guy gets on dating apps mine are still fewer. Money is no issue for me and I keep myself in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:18 PM
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