I have trouble physically escalating with some girls. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm an attractive guy and I generally don't have issues with kino.

2020-09-13T19:29:59+00:00

sit next to her, have your legs touch.

maintain eye contact, don't look away all the time.

have her fill in the conversational space when it's empty.

focus on building tension and applying pressure to her. Not on kino.

and naturally shit will happen.

Try other shit out aswell. Use your imagination.

Don't just rely on ALpha Scriptz

Imagine you as the fire and her as the marshmallow.

wawakaka · 2020-09-13T19:35:22+00:00

You said they were good girls, not promiscuous

That might be the problem

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falecf4 · 2020-09-14T02:45:39+00:00

You sound younger so I'll assume the girls are your age or even younger yet. If they are young and inexperienced then it could simply be that. You'll have to move at a different speed for some girls and let them get comfortable with the situation and sexual stuff. As someone who has always dated younger women it can take some patience but be well worth it. The other option is that she isn't that into it so you'll have to figure out which is which.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2020-09-14T03:31:13+00:00

Sounds like they just weren't that into you. Shit happens. You weren't their particular cup of tea. Women aren't going to just tell you this. If you don't know why, you need to read the sidebar again like 20 times. Doesn't matter if you look like Chris Evans and have more money than god you're going to be turned down sometimes.

If they were, they'd provide you with no shortage of openings to escalate. They'd scoot closer to you. They'd peacock in front of you subtly.

You making a couple of comments about them being supposedly below you in the looks department, that's just your ego trying to wave the flag of "must avoid short term emotional loss at all costs" in front of your face.

That's normal, but calculating and measuring and comparing superficialities isn't going to make them horny for you when they aren't. Remember you're the prize here and there aren't a lot of things less worth your continued worrying about than women who just aren't interested.

BigBoyTouche2799 · 2020-09-14T09:14:15+00:00

Well if you ever sit next to them you could always do the arm around their shoulder and then rub their upper arm a little. That’s a good ol friendly but hot thing that girls like. Obviously these two girls weren’t comfortable with touching yet which is just normal. Some girl don’t want a guy doing random touches except for maybe a hug the first date.

Title	I have trouble physically escalating with some girls. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm an attractive guy and I generally don't have issues with kino.
Author	Lingeringtouch
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	September 13, 2020 7:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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