Hi,

25, decent job, stashing money away and in okay shape (need focus more on this).

When I think about my mission and plan for my future, I do see a wife and kids in that picture.

Does that make me still blue pilled/brainwashed?

I’d like to own my own business, and I’ve started something up during lockdown which has made me a little money and I’m keen to keep watering on the side of my main job.

I’d also like to focus on getting in great physical shape, reading and having an active life outdoors.

But like I said I do still see myself settling down with a wife and kids.

I’ve done a fair bit of plate spinning and loved parts of that, but it doesn’t feel conducive to building a rich life for me longer term.

Keen to hear what you guys think.

Can wife and kids be red pilled?

Where do you all truly see yourself in 30s and 40s and 50s?

Would be great if anyone can point me in the direction of any articles or books about this.

(Obviously it goes without saying I’m acutely aware of becoming an overweight, miserable, wage-slave who has sex with a miserable wife once a month who eventually leaves me for her alpha colleague.)

Thanks in advance.