Why's everyone always trying to make fagyousaytions?

iHeartCapitalism · 2017-04-09T01:12:09+00:00

Maybe it's because you use words like 'fagyousaytions'.

But I've had the same issue as you. In Brasil we use our hands a lot when speaking, when I lived in Bulgaria - it really made me come across as gay. So I suggest you control this.

Also try to listen to how you speak. Is your voice fast and somewhat high-pitched, or is it calm, deep, and deliberate? This was also one of the main reasons people thought I was gay.

RedSkeller · 2017-04-09T00:32:12+00:00

You should make a joke of it and move on. It could be a shit test, or you're just a pretty dude which you could always work on your image if it's a problem. For the most part I tell people I'm flattered and move on.

Viking_RnP · 2017-04-09T01:00:35+00:00

Read No More Mr. Nice Guy in full. Do all the exercises. Don't half-ass it.
Get your testosterone level checked. If it's below 400ng/dl then consider taking steroids or going on trt.

I suspect you have a lot of insecurity whether you realize it or not. You want to be special. Stop... Of course, I can't just tell you to stop. You need to understand why you're behaving the way you are.

When a man gives off signals that he appears gay, he's giving off female body language and submissiveness. It doesn't matter what you do to hide it or counter it, it will all be interpreted as gay or weak unless you fix the underlying issues. If you get mad they'll call you bitchy. If you try to hide it they'll say you're closeted or ask why you're upset. If you try to act more masculine you'll come off as a little boy pretending to be a man.

You have to be congruent with your spirit. You have to go through some real shit and come out on the other side stronger. You have to trust your instincts. You have to deal with the weight of reality and loss. You are not special. You are not better than regular guys.

If I were to say you're a mentally weak pussy, a boy in a man's body who doesn't know shit about life which is why he acts all bubbly and tries to be cute, an insecure weakling who doesn't deserve to have a woman because he couldn't protect her for shit against an actual man and would just roll over if someone raped her and would then use the drama to gain sympathy and feel like a special victim... How would that make you feel? What would you do or say if someone said that right to your face? How far would you let them take that?

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-04-09T01:08:26+00:00

I've always been told I'm a pretty guy. From guys and girls growing up and still to this day. Also young in the face too. So there have been plenty of times that people have thought I was gay. It comes with the territory especially since I play up my pretty boy appearance. You gotta play your strengths and there's definitely a market for gorgeous looking men.

The way I see it, if it's coming from a man, it's probably just because he's jealous or something. Since I don't act gay, the only way he can judge is based on my looks. If you're acting gay... well then maybe that's why they think you are gay.

Title	Why's everyone always trying to make fagyousaytions?
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Date	April 9, 2017 12:16 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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