What's a good way to ask a girl to become "official" without turning her off?

sjdfhskdjfh · 2017-04-03T21:15:38+00:00

you dont ask to become official..... this is a woman's frame/polarity. you just keep asking them to go out. keep having fun. keep hooking up.

the reason this often times doesnt work for men, is because it takes time for women to fall for guys (to the point they want to even be exclusive). guys more often than not fall for girls after a date or two and develop oneitis.

so its best to wait it out, dont bring it up, eventually if you are doing things right shes going to start asking questions:

"what are we"

"where do you see this going"

then you can start worrying about being official if thats what you want.

Sensei_Hensei · 2017-04-03T21:45:47+00:00

You don't

hatefulreason · 2017-04-04T13:57:43+00:00

i don't think im 100% rp and im hard headed but from what i understood so far, you dread until she wants to make it official :)

Title	What's a good way to ask a girl to become "official" without turning her off?
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Comments	9
Date	April 3, 2017 9:11 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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