So here is the context. Met a girl on a dating app. We had 5 dates. In 3 of them we had heavy make out. I can't take the girl to my place (I live with an LTR). My only option is to close in the car or at her place. But she doesn't want to do either. After the first make out, she tried to ghost, blamed me saying that "You are distant" and "I don't feel you", etc. Then I kinda lost my frame, justifying my stance by saying "you were distant too that's why blah blah". Anyway, she came back, then we had 2 more dates and make outs. I guess she suspects me or does not trust me completely.

Now the relationship has become mostly one sided, she is not showing strong interest anymore, but still she makes out and meet for a date if I want (but she does not initiate to fix a date anymore). I want to f-close and then next. How should I approach this? Should I create a dread? If yes, how?

Help.