Having been single/incel my whole life until 33, I'm currently find that while my LTR is going well, she's admitted she's been with 5 guys (at first), then 12. Likely higher. Regardless, my count is only 2 and lately I've been thinking I need my count to be at least equal in order to be on the same level.

However I was clear that I didn't want to share her and she was clear that she wouldn't want to share me at the start of the relationship. After seeing Bezo's fiasco, I wonder how many of you guys are ok with seeing chicks on the side? Knowing it would blow the relationship up if it was uncovered... But it would catch up my count and bring to me a level playing field.

Maybe I'm an asshole for thinking it?