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Got a girls number, want to meet up with her what do I do to meet up

Fwellgot

February 7, 2019

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Title	Got a girls number, want to meet up with her what do I do to meet up
Author	Fwellgot
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	February 7, 2019 4:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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[–]airmcnair062 points3 points4 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

No. It's actually really powerful and not many men (or people) can comfortably go out to social environments alone. It takes time to get comfortable with it, but it is certainly not weird.

I've had girls be shocked I was at the club alone but after their initial shock is usually a statement of approval or envy like "gosh, that's awesome you can do that though"

It's all about how you carry it. If you think it's weird, she'll think it's weird.

Also, you don't have to tell her you are there alone, that puts more focus on it. Women never do anything alone, so they secretly (and sometimes openly) admire when someone else can. It gives you status, actually. But never say "hey I'm here at the coffee shop alone, wanna hang out/meet me here?". This reeks of desperation. But "hey I was gonna go grab some coffee, you should join me" is saying the exact same thing, bit 10x less needy and desperate

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