LTR I’ve been with for quite a bit asked me when I would want to have kids. I’ll be honest, I’ve read here how much I can get fucked in child support payments and the such, but I want to be a father. I’m an only child, my mom wants grand kids, I want kids, and I’m willing to roll the dice. I’ve read the sidebar, I’ve seen the posts about men getting fucked in child support payments, shit I have an uncle who’s in this situation right now, but I can see when he’s with his kids ( my cousins) he’s always happy.

So with that being out of the way, yes I want kids. I’ve been dating this girl for quite a bit. N count of 3, doesn’t go out, and if she does it’s to bars where they play pool and throw darts and she only goes with me and her sisters and their boyfriends. She lets me lead and she loves spoiling me with presents and cooking for me.

I like to think I’ve kept a good balance of Alpha/Beta (I cringe saying that) of 70/30. I comfort her when needed and I’m her rock she leans on, while I can also be stern and hold frame well and she gives in.

Recently she asked me when I would like to have kids and I gave vague answer to which she responded, no really when do you want to have kids because my clock is ticking and I don’t want to be trying to have kids in my mid 30’s. (were both 21 btw) and I told her I’ll tell you when I’m ready to have kids. She said she would like to have them by 32 LATEST and I told her we’ll see what the future holds.

Is it a green flag if she wants to have kids early? She doesn’t party and doesn’t hook up with random guys. It’s going good right now. She understands my views on marriage and she agreed to not marry if it means she can be with me.