My main problem is the music is too damn loud for me to say anything or hear what they’re saying. No conversation is possible, I don’t know how people do it. My approach anxiety isn’t all that bad anymore. But at clubs? Nothing. I can’t even have a conversation with my friends let alone girls. People talk about shit tests but I’ve never even managed to get to this stage with a girl on a night out.

How would you guys recommend dealing with this?