Think I'm doing conversation wrongly

ArchsofArch · 2019-02-16T14:40:38+00:00

Er, it's okay being the wallflower kind.

It depends on what you are trying to achieve. If there is perpetual chaos, bringing attention on you is a good thing. If people are just sharing their stories and need feedback, there is no need to be in the limelight.

Also it depends on what you are trying to achieve out of the conversation, some cool people are here and I want to give them attention.

I can be both the life of the party and someone who likes to stay at the end and watch people. If you like noticing things around you, and are observant, it's more likely you would prefer to be a wallflower.

SoloQueueXL · 2019-02-16T17:23:18+00:00

It's not the serious attraction flows, brother. I used to Google how to talk to people lol.

Think about it this way we all make noises and pretend words actually matter it's about the tone of your voice and how you present yourself.

rugged79 · 2019-02-16T18:14:01+00:00

Sometimes people that don't often talk about themselves have a hard time doing so because they don't devote any time to organizing their own life story.

Think about how celebrities talk about themselves. In order to do it and sell yourself as cool, they spend some time figuring out HOW to say their stories and interests to appear awesome. Most people don't do that and sometimes come off as uninteresting, even though their lives might be more interesting than a celebrity.

resnine · 2019-02-16T14:59:45+00:00

You were damaged socially by your parents more than likely. Something ruined your socializing and you must discovery what that is. If you have a hard time expressing yourself you need to look deep inside and understand yourself much better. This problem is deep-rooted, it's much more common than most realize.

Title	Think I'm doing conversation wrongly
Author	bondbandito
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	February 16, 2019 2:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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