What did you personally do to move past your anger/depression phase and move towards acceptance?

ArchsofArch · 2019-02-19T12:29:41+00:00

You see how much better you are compared to the people around you.

Narcissism gets you through.

Like, seriously, how much better. They need to be cut throat and they still fail cause you are objectively doing better than all of them.

Seriously, is it just me, or does it seem like people who tend to trash on others tend to do it cause they have nothing going for them.

Like it is insecurity and shit testing to somehow stand out when you know you can't otherwise.

woodquest · 2019-02-19T12:36:51+00:00

Not just about this, but quite any anger phase :

Focus on myself rather than the object of my anger :

Lift, learn, read, meditate, work, play sleep.
Stop obsessing about the matter. Convince myself the voice in my head is sometimes "a stupid drunk monkey just bitten by a scorpion", who would lead me anxious and desperate if i listened to him.
Give it time.

CainPrice · 2019-02-19T15:15:46+00:00

I went from blaming women to hating women to blaming myself to improving myself to forgiving myself to loving women.

At the end of the day, women, hot guys, society, your parents, your teachers - nobody actually did anything to you. You didn't get it. You played the wrong game under the wrong rules while everybody else got to have sex. Women weren't wrong to play the game better than you. They did exactly what you would have done in their place - exactly what you wanted to do but couldn't or didn't know how.

Instead of using what you find here at The Red Pill to fill yourself with rage and hate women for what they're like, use what you find here to recognize that you're not alone.

Lots of guys spent a long time not getting it. And if you look around you in the world, lots of guys still don't get it.

It's okay that you didn't get it. It's okay that you still have a lot of work to do today. Eventually, you have to forgive yourself for being a guy who didn't get it to move on. It starts with recognizing that everything that's happened in your life up to this point is on you, letting your past go, forgiving yourself for having it, and making tomorrow your best possible tomorrow.

NeverLace · 2019-02-19T14:43:27+00:00

It went by pretty fast for me. I was furious at first, thinking about how unfair it was how all the "jackasses" got girls, not me. Then I started implementing TRP mentality when meeting girls. Lo and behold thing just went great with them and I feel more free now than I did before I discovered trp. It was kina an heureka moment. Just read the sidebar, lift and eat clean, but understand that if you dont do these things wont change.

XXXMersenne · 2019-02-19T16:14:50+00:00

I started getting success using this material

Casd12 · 2019-02-20T05:23:17+00:00

It's a waste of time and energy being angry/depressed at something you can't change. Imagine being angry/depressed that one day you'll die. I got better shit to do

SumSweetSalt · 2019-02-21T03:43:08+00:00

The acceptance phase= you are a genetically inferior male, you already lost much of the game pretty much

Title	What did you personally do to move past your anger/depression phase and move towards acceptance?
Author	AnakinRebornRage
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	February 19, 2019 12:23 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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