Matched with a girl in my class who I sit next to every day but have never spoken a word, what should I say?

Mofis · 2019-02-23T07:53:40+00:00

Fuck no, don't say that. Approach her in person and DON'T MENTION TINDER. Act like none of that tinder shit happened unless she asks first.

btrpb · 2019-02-23T08:00:05+00:00

Fuck dude. Keep it simple. "Hey, how's your day going?" Or, "How'd you get on with the homework"

Just start fucking talking to her. Show her you can hold a conversation.

Build some rapport. Start getting more friendly.

GAndGMethod · 2019-02-23T15:03:30+00:00

Lol

Man you have to open her in person now.

It’s going to get more awkward if you don’t say anything to her than if you don’t.

RedSkeller · 2019-02-23T13:33:03+00:00

Talk to her and do anything BUT compliment her. Inviting her over to study later is a good idea.

throwawayycheyeah · 2019-02-23T11:18:42+00:00

Just say hi.

rpsheepdog · 2019-02-23T11:53:55+00:00

Maybe its me, but if you actually are trying to study for an exam the last thing I would recommend is inviting a prospect to "study" with you. same goes for the guy asking about a gym date

If you're trying to keep your game class-centric, id go for a "hey this class is blah blah blah, i'm studying on x date/time, but when I'm done lets get a drink/coffee/smoke crystal meth/etc."

don't overthink it or put too much value on the fact that you guys matched, I mean the shit could have been an accident, and don't bring up the match either.

zxcvb7809 · 2019-02-23T13:13:11+00:00

You should talk to her in person. She has obviously been showing interest in you for a while, not sure why you haven't engaged? If you are afraid to talk to her I don't know what to tell you. I think you might have women on a pedestal still? So if she has been looking at you for a while, she has matched with you on tinder how much more obvious does she have to make it that she wants you to approach her?

GrimTRP · 2019-02-25T14:56:15+00:00

Don't mention any tinder bullshit, from your previous comments you sound like a little beta bitch. If you insist on using tinder as a buffer for your social anxiety, then text her "Aren't you the weird girl that sits next to me in class every day". Then act aloof balanced with IDGAF confidence. Overall what you say in text matters very little here. I presume from your comments your image is shit, you'd have to rely on game of which you probably have little. Read the sidebar.

0io- · 2019-02-23T08:23:59+00:00

Hi, we matched! Want to come over to my dorm room tonight at 8? I have half a pizza and I'm going to watch Spiderman.

Title	Matched with a girl in my class who I sit next to every day but have never spoken a word, what should I say?
Author	Mofis
Upvotes	0
Comments	32
Date	February 23, 2019 7:45 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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