What's up with chicks saying this when they've clearly been flirting with you? I notice it's typically the ones who also have a boyfriend. The most recent, was one who also got pissed at how high my body count was. She randomly asked what it was after stating that she thought I was a shy, good guy and that I would get more girls if I wasn't so shy. I told her she didn't know me outside of work and that I've been focusing on other things besides dating lately.