Asking a date 7 days in advance

CainPrice · 2019-03-07T15:10:11+00:00

Depends a little bit on the circumstances. If you're 24 and met this girl online, it's a little far in advance. The typical Tinder timeline is if you match a girl Monday or Tuesday, set a date up for Thursday. If you match her later in the week, aim for the weekend - Sunday at the latest. If you're 15 and in high school, that might not apply.

Real life isn't so different. You want to be on a date within a few days of meeting a girl. You don't want to spend months and months getting to know someone and making friends before asking her out. You want to be a romantic/sexual prospect from the very first day. Which means you should have asked her out within a few days of meeting her, tops, and when you asked, the day of your date should have been a couple of days after that - not an entire week later.

FixYourselfFirst · 2019-03-07T14:52:50+00:00

It's better than not asking her out at all. Don't be afraid of rejection.

ol_l_l-l_l_lo · 2019-03-07T16:39:29+00:00

If it's a casual date, that's too many days in advance and will seem suspect to the girl. This also gives her ample time to get distracted by other offers, and to choose from them. Even if you have already banged.

Title	Asking a date 7 days in advance
Author	djthiago1
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	March 7, 2019 2:46 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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