Hi there,

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So this girl yesterday at the bar was flirting with me. I met her at another night and we talked a lot. She's kinda hot, but I was not interested in her. When I was not responding to her flirt, she started becoming more enterprising, asking me to kiss her, and when I declined, asking why, and blablabla. Now usually I don't give away my intentions, so she became more stressing to the point where she sent me a message just after I left saying I was flirting with her (which is false) and asking me to tell her a definitive yes or no. So i said no. Now she doesn't talk to me anymore at all.

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This situation always kinda happened but became much more frequent. It resulted in the girls not talking to me at all anymore, and avoiding me during parties. And I thought that if I had been more "mysterious" in my signals, they would be the best sellers to other girls for a party and eventually I would have nice conversations with them instead of them avoiding me.

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Should I let them on their hunger and not give away my intentions with them, or should I end the "suffer" with them and tell my thoughts ? What's asktrp opinion on this ?