I've been seeing a girl for a bit over a month now, she wanted to meet up with me last night for St. Patty's day but I got too drunk with my friends and didn't make it out to see her. We have been hanging out every weekend so I didn't think 1 night would matter, but she blew up at me this morning. She's been fairly clingy and this was the final straw. She said I don't compliment her enough and she feels like she doesn't matter to me because I didn't make time to see her yesterday.

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Anyways I want to end this, but want to make her feel like she's the one that made the decision, because she seems kind of emotionally unstable. I was thinking about saying that it wasn't my intention to bail on her last night but needed to get home and sleep off the alcohol and then suggest to her that "do you think we aren't compatible for each other?" or something about wanting different things out of the "relationship?"

Any tips would be helpful. Thanks