Is Dating Outdated?

_thechinaman_ · 2019-03-24T16:18:20+00:00

Because we live in upside down clown world.

RedSkeller · 2019-03-24T17:58:50+00:00

It's easier now than ever to pull from bars/real world with tinder and apps being the main stay. Conversely, referring to dates as 'dates' to the under 25 crowd is gross, outdated and uncool. There are more sluts than ever and you have to make it happen by being there, with the illusion of being spontaneous and in the moment. Dating is definitely outdated, and the more time that goes by, I think relationships in general are dead. It's pump and dump or go full monk mode.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-03-24T23:39:22+00:00

If you just met a chick at some venue, guess what? That's your first date, genius. You have her in front of you, and you're in a relaxed social environment. What more do you want? Use the encounter to the max and escalate. Don't set up some bullshit plan for later and have to reset everything when u meet her again. She's right in front of you right fucking now!

BookyMcBooks · 2019-03-24T16:23:24+00:00

Women who date are looking for long term partners.

Women who go to bars are looking to fuck.

GayLubeOil · 2019-03-25T02:14:59+00:00

because technology has destroyed attention spans and everything moves at a faster pace now

patacsiipse · 2019-03-24T17:57:52+00:00

Because those chicks are riding the CC, they have no business in settling down

SalporinRP · 2019-03-24T21:25:51+00:00

Ehh I mean when you go to a bar/club the girls are going there specifically to get male attention and fuck. '

I've had plenty of success in getting laid on the first "date" by asking them out to a round of drinks at a cool bar I go to and then just escalating from there. And even if I don't fuck on the first date I've gotten some hot fucking girls as fuckbuddies/fwbs by meeting up with them 3-4 times before fucking.

BigJohnnyCockRamPHD · 2019-03-25T13:39:09+00:00

Yes. I stopped dating, I only hunt now. Eat what I kill same night or I don’t eat. Waste of time getting all these numbers and setting up dates and taking them out and shit. Just hit the bar or club and smash something. Rinse and repeat regardless of success or striking out that night. Still more efficient than running around coordinating with these flaky creatures. We live in a microwave in the moment society now so adjust accordingly. Peoples attention spans are too short to try to captivate and hold their attention. Just capitalize on the now.

nross368 · 2019-03-25T18:23:34+00:00

This is actually liberating. Just live more in the moment. Girls are wayyyyy more down than most guys realize. I've never got to know a girl beyond one hour total before fucking.

I do live in a major city so that may be part of the issue. Dating still may be prevalent in smaller towns due the fact their 5-20 years behind big city trends.

Traditional dating is dying/dead. But impulsive impersonal sex is at an all time high.

Title	Is Dating Outdated?
Author	archaic-guy
Upvotes	4
Comments	11
Date	March 24, 2019 3:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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