I met this girl on tinder, her bio said “looking for something serious”, I thought she was cute so I swiped right. We hangout and while we’re driving she asked what I’m looking for and I say something something casual. Long story short I escalate with kino and eventually I have car sex with her afterwards she said “I’m not that type of girl” lol. I asked what her first impression of me was and she said she thought I just wanted to be friends until I said I wanted something casual. I’m a really social, enthusiastic, confident, but also respect and nice guy. How do I prevent a girl from thinking I’m too nice until I state my intentions.

TLDR: How do I remain respectful but also give an alpha and I want to fuck you vibes and not I want to be friends vibes?