Good afternoon gentlemen,

I hope you all are having a wonderful Friday. I’ve been lurking and learning from this sub for a couple months now and just wanna say wow. I’ve learned so much from this sub, learned so much about myself and why I wasn’t having luck with chicks as well as learning about females, who have always been a Rubik’s cube to me but I’m finally starting to solve this puzzle a little.

Anyways, I went out earlier this week to a happy hour and hockey game for this professional club I’m in. I got there late (got held up at work) so the main table our group got was occupied. I sat at a table to the side with two girls and an older gentleman. The chicks were recruiters and honestly not sure what they were doing there since they weren’t doing any recruiting (they only talked to me and this older genetleman at our table the whole time) and ended up leaving early. The next day one of the chicks messages me on LinkedIn (we had become connected a couple weeks earlier) and when I met her I actually brought up how I recognized her from that. Anyways she messages me the next day saying it was nice to meet me and asked if I’d be free for happy hour next week. I said “sure, where at?” thinking she wants me to go to some other networking event. But then she responds with “wherever you wanna go” and drops her number saying to text and let her know when I’m free. Now the question is, do I text her immediately with the place and time to meet up and then not text her up until the day of to confirm plans or should I wait til later to schedule. Not sure if any of this matters. I know I don’t wanna text her to just talk to her. If I’m texting her it’s only to setup this encounter and that’s it.

Part 2 is since these 2 chicks left early, I was all alone before the hockey game. I didn’t wanna be alone and wanted to continue socializing so I found two chicks who were sitting nearby and asked if they were in the professional club as well. They said yeah and I asked if they wanted to walk to the game so we left and I spoke with one of the chicks (the cuter one lol) on the way there. Long story short I got her number and told her we should go out for a drink. I’m busy this weekend and she’s out of town the next 2 after that so we’ll prolly have to meet during the week. Since I’m going out with chick 1 next week I’ll have to go out with chick 2 in two weeks cause I have other obligations/activities besides chasing poon. Again, should I just text her now and be like hey let’s meet on this date in 2 weeks or should I wait and then text her with like a couple days notice?

Thanks for the help this is all new to me. I’ve been conditioned into a beta (father passed early in life and was raised by women) so I’m just tryna bury these stupid beta tendacies and start bringing out the alpha I know is inside of me.