Whenever something happens they blame me out of the four children. I am the eldest, 21. I was caught stealing money one time a year ago and since then they have never trusted me. They accuse me when things go wrong and they threaten to kick me out when they find out something. They found weed in my drawer and said if they find it again I’m out. They accused me last night of stealing money from them on the premise that her purse had been moved. But I really didn’t. I haven’t since getting caught. I don’t know what to do it makes me resent them. They think the other children are angelic and wouldn’t do such a thing but that’s not true they all do worse things such as smoke weed and even currently they talk about how they’ve taken money from my parents but I don’t and I still get the blame. I don’t want to blame them because I don’t know who did or if anyone did at all and we are close as siblings. Also I know it’s trivial but other smaller things like making me clean the toilet when it’s clogged and blaming me when it really wasn’t me who did it. and they threaten me they’ll kick me out if i refuse to give in. They are good parents usually and pay for my college fees and Im scared to become independent but it’s hard not to resent them and I don’t know what to do. I could move out but I don’t have a lot of cash and would need to work full time and I’m also studying at university.