About 1.5 months I ghosted my oneitis out of nowhere. It was the final straw. I told myself “if she flakes on me one more time, I’m going to block and delete her off every medium she could possibly contact me on”.

I did so, and after a year of being treated like shit by my oneitis I finally blocked her and now that I have clarity I can’t fucking believe I acted that way. It was like I was under her spell whilst we were seeing each other. She would ghost, flake on me. Keep me on the shelf. Take hours, days to respond to me. Only showed interest when I started losing interest. Enough interest to reel me back in, then begin with the games again.

I am quite certain I’m going to see her in the near future at a mutual friends event. I know for a fact she will approach me and ask why I blocked her (she has no way to contact me right now, I am certain sure she blew up my phone whilst blocked). She will expect me to answer her and she will bombard me with questions as she always got what she wanted out of me.

How would you handle this situation?

What’s a firm way to shut her down, tell her to fuck off and stay away from me without giving her the validation that comes from knowing her actions affected me.

Maybe even hit her confidence a bit in the process, if possible.