Structured, shy, reserved, religious LTR of 2 years causes me to reflect on the longevity and happiness of a future together. She is smart where it counts and her work ethic/wisdom is beyond her years. From the beginning, there was always something left to be desired in the sack as I am more on the freaky side of the spectrum while she is vanilla.

The latter was exciting at one point and presented itself as a challenge to bring out her naturally submissive tendencies. Over the course of a few recent months she has been less receptive to sexual advances and went so far as to question the importance of intimacy in a relationship (chalk it up to faith.)

We hang out, have fun, but hooking up has become an exercise involving more mental and physical dexterity with each passing. This is not to say that things should always be easy and i should expect on demand pleasure, (bj’s are off the table) but it would seem that if my interest is to be maintained then some effort should be taken on her part.

TLDR: LTR is a very structured type that is sexually incompatible. Is dread the route to take or simply demote to fwb with the opportunity for future reconsideration? BTW, the sweet girl has upcoming girls trips planned.