"Pərblīnd"

frys180 · 2015-09-08T17:05:51+00:00

Back when I was purely studying PUA, there was always an ominous feeling of "this makes sense but isn't right." I knew I had improved but it felt empty. Later on, I discovered TRP and everything stated making more sense. Now I have a more grounded-rational reason for doing what I'm doing.

Primemale · 2015-09-08T17:27:45+00:00

I completely accept what you said.

But knowing the truth is hindrance to success of weak. Ugly,short guys like me need irrational confidence to succeed in world of tall,attractive chads.We need it compensate the disability we got. The truth cannot give me that irrational confidence.I need to think that I'm the baddest Mother fucker on the earth.It gives me that irrational confidence. I lie to myself to achieve what I want. I'm OK with its consequences. The truth that I'm short and ugly will kill my ego. I need that ego to ~~survive~~ win in this competitive world. When I talk to my customer, I talk like I'm the god of my profession to secure the deal.

I go to coaching class for competitive exam on weekends. There is a tea stall nearby. Last Sunday during break, it was very crowded, I got my tea first and standing few feet away from the stall. I'm watching the crowd while enjoying the tea. Most the guys trying to get the tea are tall 6+ foot city boys. Among them there was a man who is very short. he cannot be taller than 4'10"(my mom is 4'10'). I think he is in late 40's or early 50's. He is trying to get the attention of shopkeeper but is getting towered by other guys. He tried for more than 10 mins but failed. Then He raised his voice to very high level. sudden silence among the other guys. now he got the attention of shopkeeper. he hot his tea and moved away.

"TRP is strategy, PUA is tactics. we guys still need PUA for day to day functionality to win"

Senderious · 2015-09-08T17:33:51+00:00

You're basically kicking in an open door: men should have pride and no hubrice, aka men should have confidence and no ego, which is true though.

Primemale · 2015-09-08T17:45:33+00:00

Although I agree with your premise, in that, basing one's confidence on real achievements such as ''looks, money, & status'', is most certainly the best way to go, the caveat to this is that there are men with no looks, money and status, that have no problem getting (reasonably) hot women, and then I have met extremely rich Arabs from Dubai, who had looks, money and status but couldn't even approach an average 20 something in a high class night club. Therefore in terms of purely getting laid, I would say confidence trumps. (regardless of the source)

However you won't have anywhere near as good a lifestyle compared to self-improvement and the confidence that more than likely will ensue from that.

Title	"Pərblīnd"
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	6
Date	September 8, 2015 4:14 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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