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Why they hate us is pretty simple, their relationships always end up with the guy begging or being cuckolded

Loodu
August 5, 2014
66 upvotes
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Title Why they hate us is pretty simple, their relationships always end up with the guy begging or being cuckolded
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Loodu
Upvotes 66
Comments 26
Date August 5, 2014 3:31 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2cp29x/why_they_hate_us_is_pretty_simple_their/
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[–][deleted] 76 points77 points78 points 12 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

There's some real gems over in that thread. My favorite:

Marriage Counselor: "Ok, this first session has been informative. Lets meet again next week. Can we agree that in the meantime, neither of you will see other people?"

Me: "Of course."

Her: "I don't think so."

Marriage Counselor: "No, sorry - let me clarify: what I mean is, can we agree that neither of you will have sex with anyone other than each other before next week?"

Me: "There is no way I would ever have sex with someone other than my wife."

Her: "Sorry, I don't think I can make that promise."

Probably the most crushing moment of my life...

[–]FiveRows 24 points25 points26 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Marriage counseling is shit and men should consider the suggestion nothing but a shit test.

Think about it. Who do you think keeps marriage counselors in business? Men, or women? So, who do you think marriage counselors are more likely to side with?

While men will be given an entire laundry list of concrete, time-consuming activities to carry out, the women are told to "be more attentive and understanding," or some equal type of ambiguous donkey-shyte that requires little to no real effort on their part.

Marriage counseling is the ultimate form of feminist plausible deniability. "Well, you know, we tried but it just didn't work out and I just wasn't happy." Translation: "I enjoyed sucking Johnny Jailhouse's tattooed dick so much that I couldn't care less about my husband and family."

[–]Hydris 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The sad part is that its a double edged sword. You deny the counseling and suddenly you are the problem because "you didn't want to put the effort in trying to fix the problems" and if you do you just get told you are the problem. Either way she plays the victim.

[–]FiveRows 5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If a game is rigged for you to lose on any move, the only rational decision is not to play. If you deny the counseling, you at least save your time and money.

[–]farbenwvnder32 points 12 years ago [recovered] (13 children) | Copy Link

How little respect can your partner have for you to say that in this situation? How do men let it get to that point? I will never understand

[–]Loodu[S] 14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

First, stop thinking in terms of "partners". Relationships aren't about equal amount of mutual respect, that's bullshit. There's always one that is in control, the one who cares the less.

Secondly, the respect women have for a husband/boyfriend is not unconditional. It is bound to how much she looks up to him. If he's not impressive enough anymore, she stops respecting him, no matter how good of a human being he is. What makes a man a good human being (what feminists want you to be) and what makes a man attractive are two disjoints sets. And that's something women will never admit.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 30 points31 points32 points 12 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Marriage is failing a huge shit test and she knows it. She wins cash and prizes no matter how cunty her behavior is.

[–]1whatsazipper 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Viable strategy for attractive RP men who don't want to invest energy in raising offspring: Impregnate women who married beta bux. :)

A return to cuckolding now that relationships have turned away from civilization.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Even beta bux idiot can do paternity testing ... and kicking whore out. Guess who will be paying child support if not beta (hint: its not gonna be state if it can prevent it in any way)

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just knock up a married French slut. Paternity testing is banned there (unless the hamster approves).

[–]1whatsazipper -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Unless the kid's of a different race and triggers a paternity test then and there, most likely that dude is fucked and on the hook. Check with your local laws - the state may agree :)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Luckily I live in a country where you can dispute fatherhood 6 months after birth. And constitutional court ruled in favor of a "father" of 6 year old that he doesn't have to pay child support, so well where I'm technically I can get law on my side from 0 to 18 years of a child, kinda a good feeling :)

[–]PieroDrawsRandomCrap 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fucking hell how I never saw this before?! Find me a nice broad with a wealthy beta husband and impregnate her, I get to have a kid and some other sucker has to provide for it. Damn this sub is turning me into a woman-like level asshole. Thank you all.

[–]esco_ 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Along the same lines, sperm banks

A very interesting operation in terms of evolutionary strategy

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

People might say marriages don't work because some people are greedy but they forget that PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS GREEDY AND OPORTUNISTIC. We have to design systems in mind where people can't take advantage of eachother like this.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. Somehow, everyone seems to think women are the big exception when it comes to opportunity and greed. Nobody will ever abuse a rape accusation process where it's her word over his! Nobody would ever divorce-rape for no reason!

[–]MasonJarTeaDrinker 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right? even before I found TRP I wouldn't have stood for that stuff.

[–]TheIronViking 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have this knotted up sensation in the back of my throat just know after reading that.

[–]MockingDead 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You know, thinking on your username: For how much I spent on my last girlfriend, I could have bought 2-3 really fantastic new guitars...

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If I was spiteful, I would have made a before/after picture of my equipment. Taken/single.

I LOVE the single picture. :D

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil 31 points32 points33 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You owe nothing to a person who is willing to jeopardize your well being. Not honesty not civility, nothing. If one party abandons the rules you dont have to play by them either.

[–]user0159 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I owe nothing to anyone and I will continue to keep doing me.

[–]1independentmale 51 points52 points53 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sadly, most men alive in western culture today were effectively raised to pedestalize and worship women. We were taught from a very young age that women are delicate flowers, that we're lucky to have them in our lives and that we should do everything we can to make them happy regardless of the consequences to ourselves. This has resulted in at least two generations of bitchy, entitled women who believe they are God's gift to men and who can blame them? Western men these days present themselves as doormats. We shower women with unwarranted and undeserved affection simply because they exist.

Of course women and white knights hate TRP. They're going to fight against any movement that aims to empower men, but it's more than just that: TRP breaks the goddess complex. More and more men every day are realizing that women are not perfect, delicate flowers deserving of our sacrifice but that they are, in fact, nothing special at all. They're half the population, easily replaceable, a dime a fucking dozen and, really, not even terribly useful. Everything a wife can do for a man, he can do for himself or hire done for a fraction of the financial cost and none of the emotional turmoil.

This is a huge, huge problem for women. Their multi-generational power play is failing as men realize they bring little to the table while demanding the entirety of a man's being, up to and including his very life, as sacrifice. Relationships with women are incredibly unbalanced, full of risk and liability with little to no reward. Marriage contracts are so lopsided they would be deemed unconscionable and thrown out in the business world. Is it any wonder men are checking out?

The other day, my LTR called me a "free agent." Her eyes portrayed a mix of sadness and lust, the former because she knows I can't give her the fairy tale princess life she was raised to believe she deserves, and the latter because, let's face it, a strong man in charge of his life, unyielding to attempts to control him, is absolutely irresistible. She's torn between her innate, animal desires and the Disney lies of her upbringing with nothing but a figurative hamster in her head to reconcile the two. I don't envy her position and man, I'm glad I'm a man.

[–]TVTestPattern 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The other day, my LTR called me a "free agent." Her eyes portrayed a mix of sadness and lust, the former because she knows I can't give her the fairy tale princess life she was raised to believe she deserves, and the latter because, let's face it, a strong man in charge of his life, unyielding to attempts to control him, is absolutely irresistible. She's torn between her innate, animal desires and the Disney lies of her upbringing with nothing but a figurative hamster in her head to reconcile the two. I don't envy her position and man, I'm glad I'm a man.

[–]MooMooMooN 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have noticed women don't like it when a guy wins.

TRP is all about making winning men. So.. they hate it.

[–]phasetwenty 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The post has been removed via edit. Any chance of a repost?

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