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22-year-old woman wants to dump her 'perfect' boyfriend to ride cock carousel. Slate's Dear Prudence sets her straight.

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Title 22-year-old woman wants to dump her 'perfect' boyfriend to ride cock carousel. Slate's Dear Prudence sets her straight.
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Date July 31, 2014 6:39 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus61 points62 points63 points 11 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Important to note that when a woman says this about you that you are a beta provider. She knows that you are the guy that will do everything for her and be the kind hearted loser that she needs to grow older with and divorce rape when she needs to find herself.

A common feeling amongst women is that they may have found their mister right, but not right now. This guy does nothing for them in the tingles department. He offers no excitement, leadership, or lust. He is the beta bux that she has always hoped would be there to provide for all the children that aren't his and sacrifice his entire life to make her happy. But before she settles down for a life of misery with this boring POS she needs to get out and fuck as many hot great men as she latch onto.

They always seem to say the same things about finding him when they are older when she is ready to settle down. The thing about this is that women absolutely know that time is not on their side. They know that their value is diminishing rapidly. Think of it like having a billion dollars but inflation is so bad that in ten years it won't buy you a candy bar so they run out and try to spend it as fast as they can.

She knows that the beta will be there and will be happy to accept her used up cooch and not care that he was the one that was settled for. He won't care that she gave the most valuable years of her life as far as attraction goes to other men. She believes that he is so pathetic that he is still lucky to have her after all of that.

[–]Blake5521 points22 points23 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"Think of it like having a billion dollars but inflation is so bad that in ten years it won't buy you a candy bar so they run out and try to spend it as fast as they can."

That's perfect. They know what they have is finite and depreciating, so they want to exchange it for something of higher utility in the present than some beta they can accrue for cheap anyway.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They know that they can trade their hotness for some alpha coins. Alpha coins are worth a shit ton to women. Beta coins however are nearly worthless. Think the American dollar vs. the peso. They want to acquire as many alpha coins before their own personal value depreciates to the point where they can only trade for a beta. That is why they are more willing to do all sorts of fucked up sexual acts for an alpha but won't even have vanilla sex with her beta husband. They are much more desperate to receive the validation of an alpha.

[–]Boiled_Potatoe1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"accrue"...that use of Accounting terminology.

[–]JZer8625 points26 points27 points 11 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

This is essentially what happened to me over the last 3 weeks except she "needed to find herself" before we got married. We were going to be married in a month. It hurts right now but I was completely oblivious to how beta I've been throughout the relationship. She did me a favor.

She literally ended on the note that we need to see other people and that if in 6 months things are different, she'll come back. What a bunch of crap.

[–]TruthNukes36 points37 points38 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

  1. Become a badass motherfucker.

  2. Start dating a 9.5/10.

  3. Run into your ex while out with said 9.5/10.

  4. Enjoy the response (from both).

[–]Entrefut15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

She's already been fucking another guy or guys for at least the past couple months. Be happy she's gone, great time to get motivated and focus on you while she rides the carousel.

[–]JZer8613 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I can confidently say she didn't cheat on me, she literally had no time to. We have a kid together and her time was mostly kid/work. However, this whole thing spun out of control when she finally got a lady's night out with one of her friends. She met a guy that night and we were broken up 2 days later, she banged him 2 days after that.

[–]1deptii25 points26 points27 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My friend, it may not feel like it, but you are so damn lucky to have dodged the marriage bullet with this one.

[–]JZer868 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh I know it. The pain is still fresh but I know that this is going to be better than the alternative. You can read about the whole thing of you check out some of my submission history. It was a disaster from the beginning and I should have gotten out sooner.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Most likely more shit happened than she told you. Her purity shield engaged hard and she told you exactly what she could in order to make herself look like and feel like she was still the good guy in this. Grats to you on getting out of there. Don't ever take her back.

Women will always use the modified break up to get what they want outside of the relationship while holding onto having you as a beta. They say shit like "Let's take a brake" "I need to find myself" "You're mister right just not right now" and a whole slew of shit like that. It boils down to "You're not exciting and I need some dick." She doesn't want to waste her beauty and value years on you.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I can confidently say she didn't cheat on me

I'm sorry but you seem a bit delusional as you go on to say:

~she went out to met a new guy, found one and didn't come back

Yes, she most definitely cheated on you, don't lie to yourself, especially if she comes crawling back. -you'll really be lying to yourself then, 'it's for the kids' - 'she got it out of her system'

[–]JZer860 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe she cheated emotionally that night but I know nothing physical happened until after we broke up.

[–]MasonJarTeaDrinker5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

She really pulled that shit on you a month before the wedding? Damn bro you dodged a bullet right then and there.

[–]jameshookegrey7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He is the beta bux that she has always hoped would be there to provide for all the children that aren't his and sacrifice his entire life to make her happy.

No need to be so cynical! He's really the beta bucks providing for children that may or may not be his.

She believes that he is so pathetic that he is still lucky to have her after all of that.

And you know what? He does too. And so will all the groomsmen giving toasts at his wedding.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I doubt it is possible to set a woman straight, when she oppenly addmits, she wants to go Slutney World. I dont even want to bash her, thats biology. Her ovaries are not satisfied - for what reason ever - and she lusts for dick. She's 22. Think, she will hold back for her entire life?

[–]CaptainGlobal1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I doubt it is possible to set a woman straight

You know that even if Miss Confused watched this video she would hamster her way around the message. I can't help but agree with you, there most likely isn't any way to set a woman straight.

[–]1AlienSunrise-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. She's just too young to settle, even for the perfect beta provider. Nothing is going to stop this girl from going out and doing what she's going to do. I can't even blame her, and if her boyfriend is really dumb enough to believe that he can tame her wild young self, then that's his problem.

[–]tehwankingwalruses15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Anyone catch this article on the side bar?

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2014/07/dear_prudence_i_make_my_husband_sit_to_pee_is_that_so_bad.html

[–]Red_Pill_3020 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Trp conformed day after day

[–]avoutour0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Back when I was younger I had a few different girls tell me that I was so perfect, yada yada yada, any girl would be lucky to have you blah blah blah, but THAT was the reason I got dumped or not called back, so I stopped showing that side and as Roosh would say, the Poosy has been coming in, hypergamy is a bitch

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