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This is what you get from being a "nice guy" - leftovers...poor guy doesn´t know he´s being settled upon.

RedMindBlueEyes
March 10, 2014
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Title This is what you get from being a "nice guy" - leftovers...poor guy doesn´t know he´s being settled upon.
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RedMindBlueEyes
Upvotes 0
Comments 15
Date March 10, 2014 10:31 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
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Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2034nb/this_is_what_you_get_from_being_a_nice_guy/
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[–]glacierelement14 points15 points16 points 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

NEWS FLASH: This is a fucking shitty post.

I've been reading TRP for a while now and frankly this is just a hive mind circle-jerk of a post.

1 - This guy ejected when he realize the girl wasn't into him. That's called the right fucking move.

2 - He got on with his life and didn't give a fuck about this chick. In the end she back came into his frame of being.

How the fuck do you know what he was doing during that time? Maybe he stopped acting like a boy and manned up. Maybe he started working out and adopting a more dominant mindset. Either way you don't fucking know.

Why do all these posts have to be about women "hamstering". I frankly can't give less fucks about what potential beta #4832 did and how he got screwed by some chick.

ON TOP OF THAT The fact of the matter is that this post provides 0 informative value to this sub-reddit. AND its not even a clear fucking example of blue pill behavior.

Learn to post or don't fucking post.

[–]RedMindBlueEyes[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You´re absolutely right. I should have dissected the post and explained why it is relevant, instead of just putting it out there, expecting people to be able to see that for themselves.

That post was part one of the life of a provider. Part two is where she leaves him, taking the kids and the house. EVERY provider gets the girl at some point, that´s what being a provider is. It´s easy to jump on the bandwagon when someone posts part two, then what has happened is evident to everybody. This right here, this is why you get there in the first place.

He takes her for 8 dates, expecting things to magically escalate by themselves, because of the situation of being on a date. He´s writing this years later, and STILL doesn´t understand why she didn´t "understand" his intentions. Of course she fucking understood them. She saw him a a provider, which is why she allowed him to treat her, and also why she turned him down after he finally managed to express himself.

Years later. She still sees him as a provider. Only now, that is what she is looking for. So, he makes a move, puts him arm around her, and she lets him. A week later, he gets to kiss her. A month after that, she says she loves him. Yeah, right. and why wasn´t she "ready" those years ago? She was too "young and scared". Give me a break.

This is textbook blue pill behaviour. Believing the shit she says, being her provider today, years after she allowed him to "date" her (only in her eyes, they were just being friends......). This isn´t a post about what is wrong with her (let´s save that for what will happen in a few years), it´s a post about what is wrong with him, what he is setting himself up for.

I´ll say it again. EVERY provider/blue pill who gets cheated on/left has to GET the girl first, THIS is how it happens. But of course, it´s a shitty post, it´s a negative spin on the high point of his life. I mean, he got enganged yesterday. I should feel happy for him, sharing this with all of us, posting pictures and all. I don´t. I pity him. Not because of her. Because of him.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Had you posted this in your body it would have substantially improved this post.

You're right though, this is what's actually happening. Too many people are getting hung up on the fact that he played part one correctly (namely, by shutting her out once she showed no reciprocation).

They're failing to see how he's been sized up as beta bux now that she's ridden the cock carousel. "Young and scared" means "haven't fucked enough guys to settle with just one dick for life".

[–]randomdude6001 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

EVERY provider gets the girl at some point, that´s what being a provider is. It´s easy to jump on the bandwagon when someone posts part two, then what has happened is evident to everybody. This right here, this is why you get there in the first place.

Well said, that EVERY provider gets the girl at some point is a huge nail in the coffin of beta males, they see examples like this and see only confirmation of their One-itis fantasy. "Hey look he was just a good decent upstanding nice-guy and he got the girl in the end"

I don't understand how beta's can ignore the fact that she's let every alpha that crossed her path bang her silly while making this guy wait years for a crack at her snatch. But I guess they don't see this reality so they believe her euphemistic framing of the intervening years since she rejected him.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

While we don't know what he did meanwhile, we can sure as hell assume she rode the shit out of the carousel meanwhile. If you go from peasant to a king and still marry the village bike that rejected you you're still a fucking idiot. You can be a redpill alpha, pull all the right moves and still get pushed under the bus i.e shitty ending.

Blue pill example.

Calm your ovaries, bro

[–]glacierelement-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You know what happens when you assume.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Concerning women? I make the right deductions.

[–]glacierelement-3 points-2 points-1 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Your posting history points to keyboard jockey but hey you know what they say: You are who you choose to be

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

right

[–]mrzappacrappa1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This should be the top comment. I thought the same thing. So many crappy posts lately

[–]eccentricrealist2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Actually this guy handled it pretty well.

[–]TRP VanguardCyralea1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only the initial play. She rode the carousel for years and this guy rode in on his white provider horse to clean up the leftovers. Sounds like a chump to me.

[–]RebootedMale3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She got four more years of carousel riding and she's given up on finding somebody more Alpha.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

she quit on finding an alpha and he got left overs... sounds like a lose-lose to me

[–]LinkenSphere0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The years went by and we would occasionally run into each other and we were always friendly, but I didn't want to waste time and money on a girl who wasn't interested.

He wasn't a nice guy, everybody settles.

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