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The odds are never with you - A look at a fake profile on OkCupid and the sheer volume of responses. Illuminating on the other side of online dating.

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January 5, 2014
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Title The odds are never with you - A look at a fake profile on OkCupid and the sheer volume of responses. Illuminating on the other side of online dating.
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Date January 5, 2014 5:23 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is exactly why online dating is generally a waste of time. Many of the men who populate OKCupid and its ilk are so desperate for female attention that they will vigorously pursue the obviously fake profile of an insane woman.

This is how girls who are 6s (at most) come to believe that they are in fact 9s, and as such will immediately disqualify you for not being 6'4" tall.

[–]apotshot6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My girlfriend pointed this out to me and rolled her eyes about men after I'd already seen the article.

I told her that from my perspective it looks like the profile of someone who's actually making a joke and who seems pretty funny in a sarcastic kind of way.

If I were single I probably would have messaged her just for shits and giggles. The same way I'm sure a guy with over the top being terrible posts would get some interest just by being different.

TL;DR not surprised, profile is funny and would message myself.

[–]ilike2partyhowaboutu1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The profile says she's a woman seeking a male ages "19 - 60" and "casual sex" is listed.

What was so surprising about the messages the fake profile received?

[–]apotshot2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly!

[–]Kelly_Gruber8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Online dating is a joke. The girls are either narcissistic, crazy, fat or single moms.

[–]MockingDead0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I reupped my Plenty of Whales account. Goddamn depressng is what online dating is.

[–]antdude0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So, what's the bet way to date who can't go out (e.g., disablities)?

[–]int3rnetz5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This fake profile was created by a women that doesn't know anything about women. Put a ugly pic up, problem solved. But even the ugly ones get some dick once in their lives, so I'm not sure what they are trying to prove.

And infact this profile isn't that bad. This would seem like your relatively good looking generic ditsy white girl sorority chick supported by her family with no care in the world.

[–]SgtDowns0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Bro the fact that you said the profile isn't bad only proves the author's point... the fake girl is pretty clearly retarded.

[–]roamingjerk0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, he means it doesn't look that bad compared to the typical online psycho girl. Yes, clearly retarded, exactly. This makes women look bad, not men.

[–]1PaulRivers106 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

What I think is funny is how delusional the feminist reactions are to the articles. Elsewhere, I wrote this -

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Lol, this article is hilarious. Article summary:

Girl puts up okcupid profile with pic of a very attractive model. Fills profile with passive aggressive warning signs that the girl is a total jackass. Is shocked - shocked I say! to find that - some guys either think she's joking, don't understand women well enough to understand that their are "warning signs" - or just plain don't care that a super hot girl appears to be a total trainwreck.

Is this...lol...is this news? Is anyone doing anything other than feigning surprise that somewhere, a hot girl can get laid at any time regardless of her personality?

This article should be titled "Yes - hot girls can get laid any time they want, no matter how abhorrent their personality". This isn't news though.

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Here's the response I got back:

no no no. It's not about how girls can get laid any time they want, it's that literally no matter what you do guys will not leave you alone. That's the issue here.

[–]massRP7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I tend to agree here. Not with the feminist perspective per say, but the real issue here is that these men are so desperate, literally NOTHING will stop them from pursuing. Someone needs to get these guys on the red pill...

Sometimes I wonder how men end up in these horrible relationships and marriages, but if you're willing to ignore that many red flags...holy shit. I don't even have words.

[–]ilike2partyhowaboutu2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

no no no. It's not about how girls can get laid any time they want, it's that literally no matter what you do guys will not leave you alone. That's the issue here.

Is that not the point of a dating site?

I think what she means is:

no matter what you do guys THAT I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO will not leave me alone.

[–]roamingjerk0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

no matter what you do guys will not leave you alone

Tell her to wait until she hits the wall. And to be careful what she wishes for.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That article irked me. The author was just biased and wrong about everything. Although she is most likely just unfortunately bitter, clouded judgement from past experiences, addicted to victim hood and reassuring her hopelessness. Bitch needs to swallow the red pill and move the fuck on.

[–]MockingDead1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

OKCupid is a sex market

A woman's SMV (for ONS) is primarily physical. The only way in a pure sex market to have value is in the packaging. So it doesn't matter what she puts in the post.

A friend has an OKCupid and routine gets girls talking to him. He has 4 pictures each designed to appear as charming, strong, sensitive, and down-to-earth.

The point is, it's 90% photos.

[–]roamingjerk0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This "journalist" is preying upon horny lonely desperate guys and is shocked when she puts up a picture of a model and they respond.

I read the supposedly horrible profile she made up and it's actually pretty damn close to the trash you generally see online. Fake profile or not, it was very realistic and actually quite competitive given all the other trashy women online: fatties, uggos, single moms, extreme narcissism, incredible stupidity and just general insanity. At least, this is what I remember from my area from a few years ago (haven't done online dating since).

If I didn't know it was a troll account, I would 100% believe it was real without hesitation. So ironically, despite her trying to show how terrible men are, the author ends up making women look bad.

[–]updock0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Desining a line of dog close.

Great line.

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