Good Morning Red Pill! Just another hypergamous slut, about to wreck havoc on an AFC.

md619 · 2013-10-16T15:02:01+00:00

Of course, therapists recommended better communication.

They aren't completely wrong. If she just would come out and tell him "I'm not attracted to you because of reason xyz, here's what you can do to fix it" then maybe he would.

The first problem is that assumes women have any idea what they're actually attracted to. Sure, her tingles tell her when to be attracted but that doesn't mean she understands the cause.

The second problem is that she can't tell him because it defeats the purpose. We know that women love amused mastery, or the idea of a man who "just gets it" by being the natural high value male that he is. If she has to spoon feed it to him, it shows he really isn't that guy. That's why women will end relationships without even telling the guy they were having problems and men complain that their woman wants him to read her mind. She doesn't want to tell you, she just wants you to know and solve it. It's almost like a shit-test in its own way.

SeekingAlpha · 2013-10-16T14:48:15+00:00

These stories always make me wonder if they met while she was on hormonal birth-control and, now, she is off the pill and it's altering her attraction levels.

2013-10-16T19:35:49+00:00

Oh look, she's been with him four years.

Women are hormonally triggered to seek new mates on a 4-year cycle

JRcanReid · 2013-10-16T16:06:51+00:00

"I'm not really sure I've ever been extremely attracted to him from the start."

Then why the fuck did you marry him? Asshole.

gekkozorz · 2013-10-16T14:33:48+00:00

I'm not really sure I've ever been extremely attracted to him from the start, but the love was there, so I thought we'd be fine. He's attractive, and very, very nice, and our life is going great, except for the fact that we're more like roommates than lovers.

This is a necessary line in any woman's "we're just not in love anymore" story.

"He's nice! Super duper nice. So nice. Just... nice as fuck. But for some reason, 'nice' isn't really doing it for me."

LasherDeviance · 2013-10-16T15:17:40+00:00

She never was attracted to him. She was attracted to the "idea" of having a marriage, and he was the peg that fit in the hole. Now, she doesn't want to fuck him. Of course not, all he did was provide an end to her means. She probably had the whole "White Wedding" with all the trimmings and frilly bullshit. Thats really all most women who say that they want marriage want truly; That sense of being pedistallised and worshiped for a day.

If he isn't bringing it to her about the sex, he's probably getting it elsewhere, (which is what any normal man would do when placed in this situation) or he's gay (could be) or this could be her hambeast running hard. Maybe it him that doesn't want to have sex with her, and instead of coming to grips with that, she's rationalizing that she isn't attracted to him anymore.

wakethfkupneo · 2013-10-16T19:43:30+00:00

We have gone to 2 counsleors, and that didn't help much ... ...When the counselor asked us what our problems were, I couldn't tell the truth...

Seriously? What did she expect, magic pill? Does she go to the doctor like "something's wrong with me, will not tell you what exectly - gimme cure". And as if MCs ever really helped anyone.

Feel kinda sorry for the guy, solid beta provider, lost in the Matrix. He needs proper education. MMSL Primer would be a good start or whatever it takes him to make same radical changes and alfa up. And then if it still doesn't work dump the blue princess ASAP while it's still cheap (early in the marriage, no kids).

From her description ...

He's attractive, and very, very nice

... I'd say he's the Nice Guy so "No More MR.Nice Guy" would be another mandatory reading. Also "Models" and could think of some more.

Anyways, this whole story looks like another case of cheating rationalization either if it's already the case or just about to happen (EA progressing to PA).

dre_day4 · 2013-10-16T16:30:06+00:00

Married after 1 year? Oh boy...

Dude can still salvage his life. They should just divorce ASAP, but that may bring a whole other set of problems.

Chicago-JSO · 2013-10-16T14:57:28+00:00

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dre_day4 · 2013-10-16T16:30:40+00:00

Married after 1 year? Oh boy...

Dude can still salvage his life. They should just divorce ASAP, but that may bring a whole other set of problems.

Title	Good Morning Red Pill! Just another hypergamous slut, about to wreck havoc on an AFC.
Author	SpecialFester
Upvotes	14
Comments	18
Date	October 16, 2013 1:23 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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