"Celibate in the City" Woman doesn't give her virginity to BF of two years but ends up giving it to some random dude after taking her on vacation to St. Croix years later. What does TRP think?

itsmehobnob · 2013-08-10T21:51:32+00:00

I'm confused why this woman is making the news. Who cares if she's a virgin or not?

drivendreamer · 2013-08-11T01:28:43+00:00

No surprise at all. I feel bad for the original boyfriend also, because he learned how women work too late in the game

If anything this should reinforce the basics on this sub

2013-08-11T05:42:03+00:00

I agree with /u/itsmehobnob. But this made it to the very tip top of /r/TheRedPill so I read some of. By some of I mean "Oh my god this is so boring and nothing but self promotion I'll just read every 3rd line looking for something to care about."

Here is what I took away.

I wanted to see what all the fuss was about. But, by this point, it was even harder for me to lose my virginity. What kind of man wants all that pressure — to deflower a grown, working woman in her mid-20s?

A co-worker at Whole Foods stated my worst fear: “You better hurry up and get that taken care of, or you’ll just be an old virgin.”

Suddenly, I was on a mission: I wanted to ooze sex appeal. For most of my life, I’ve been a jeans-and-T-shirt kind of gal, but I started wearing short skirts and makeup. Now that I looked the part, I actually started to feel it.

The wall, she hit it.

Lots of guys were interested, and I dated a lot. For a virgin, I really got around. But I didn’t want to have sex with just anyone. It had to be the right guy.

Not so desperate as to give her cherry for free. This guy had to have money and show it.

Three years passed. I still hadn’t done it. It was clear that just changing my clothes and my attitude wasn’t going to cut it. I had to do something drastic. I had to pick a guy and just do it.

Now she is desperate and realizing that finding that billionaire tycoons might not be into her regardless of noone ever being in her crawl space.

We went on vacation in St. Croix for a weekend sexcapade. . . .Everyone was telling me sex would be bad the first time (another reason I put it off), but it was worse than I thought it would be. He wasn’t affectionate or attentive. The rest of the trip was just awkward. We only did it once

She sold her cherry for a free two way ticket to a weekend vacation to the first guy willing to show her some money.

Today I look back and I admit I’ve had regrets — about waiting so many years, about doing it with him — but no more. I believe it was supposed to happen that way, with him, at that time.

Hamster gonna hamster. It was supposed to happen that way because obviously she made no mistakes in her life.

Croc_Chop · 2013-08-10T22:36:30+00:00

good thing she didnt give that poor sap her virginity Id feel sorry for HIM

Nutz76 · 2013-08-11T08:14:17+00:00

Any woman who makes you wait for sex or implies she's making you wait for sex, it's never worth the wait. --Rollo Tomassi

TheLameloid · 2013-08-10T22:13:32+00:00

Virginity is overrated.

SupALupRT · 2013-08-11T00:22:40+00:00

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p3ndulum · 2013-08-11T06:36:44+00:00

Everyone was telling me sex would be bad the first time (another reason I put it off), but it was worse than I thought it would be. He wasn’t affectionate or attentive. The rest of the trip was just awkward. We only did it once.

Any relationship I've ever been in where it seems as though the woman was holding out changed everything from being about being in a healthy relationship to just getting laid.

Not being able to "see the experience through" results in frustration, and then all I want to do is rid myself of that frustration. So if/when we eventually do end up having sex, it's like I get this feeling that I've accomplished what I had set out to do (even though getting laid wasn't what I had actually set out to do).

These women that hold out because they want to give it up for some special reason, or don't want to be viewed as just some "sex object" are sort of just cutting off their noses in my opinion.

I always feel like sex is the elephant in the room, and if it doesn't get talked about (had), everything else seems kind of frustrating and fake to me.

I don't know if that makes sense, but it's like the bigger deal a woman makes sex out to be, the more trivial everything else becomes, and when (I) finally "get it" I'm usually just like "wow, that totally wasn't worth it."

AnasRexGottfried · 2013-08-11T00:34:01+00:00

If a woman isn't willing to sleep with you by the second or third meet-up, quit wasting your time and find one that will. Make sure you are framing things so that sex is a possibility, that is, take her back to your place, at night, set the mood, etc.

Cooking for women is a great way to get them to bed.

2013-08-12T21:34:27+00:00

Not surprised. Fits the red pill theory well.

TRPsubmitter · 2013-08-10T22:33:43+00:00

Blue pill society is so obsessed with a woman's virginity. These are the men who place so much of their own self-worth on what a woman's actions & thoughts are that they can't stand the thought of another guy plowing their "beloved", even if the guy is no longer in the woman's life.

Blue pill men don't derive their sexual self-worth from within. Their mantra of "please the womyn" instead makes them believe that they are only "good lovers" if they can please every whim & desire of the woman. Therefore, when they find out that their woman hasn't given them the 100% that they emotionally & financially gave to her (aka fucked other dudes), they freak out about it. Hence, the historical & current obsession with virginity.

randomguysays · 2013-08-11T13:17:28+00:00

I blame the guys who dated her thinking they'd be the ones to change her. Such women are best avoided.

SupALupRT · 2013-08-11T01:35:08+00:00

Once you realize women are crazy, illogical beings and its not their fault. Everything falls into place.

MarkyBhoy101 · 2013-08-11T06:39:37+00:00

The Rid Pill doesn't give a fuck.

mutualaid · 2013-08-11T03:22:50+00:00

I am saving sex for marriage, and I am curious to see what you guys think. I have no dating experience, and I do NOT plan on lying in bed naked with a man before I am married (if you read the article that is what the lady did). I also am okay with being an "old virgin". I read about herbivore women in Japan and would be okay with that lifestyle. Thoughts/ opinions?

MonkeySteriods · 2013-08-11T05:17:53+00:00

w t f?

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