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"My Cheating Heart: I was bored with my husband, resented my kids and yearned to feel sexy again"

MrStinky

May 2, 2013
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Title "My Cheating Heart: I was bored with my husband, resented my kids and yearned to feel sexy again"
Author

MrStinky

Upvotes 20
Comments 13
Date May 2, 2013 1:19 AM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1disi4/my_cheating_heart_i_was_bored_with_my_husband/
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Comments

[–][deleted] 21 points22 points23 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I would act surprised, but she just did what every woman wants to do - make her beta husband raise her offspring while she mates with an alpha.

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"I knew I could lose everything: my marriage, my family, our home, our cottage."

Priorities. Priorities.

Despite the shortcomings of my marriage, it was much better than the alternative—being with a man who couldn’t get it up.

"My husband isn't enough for me, but it's difficult to find anything better for now, so I'll have to stay with him."

Poor her.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I highly doubt she's "lose everything" anyway. Nofault means she cheats, he pays.

[–]Sword116 points7 points8 points 13 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

She has kids, but getting pictures of men with their kids is "wrong." Just htis whole story pissed me off and I have never wished for someone to get caught more in my life. Fuck this bitch

[–]1Ill_mumble_that3 points4 points5 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fuck this bitch

Only if she's attractive.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We postulated that half of the men on AM are players and the other half are just damaged in some way.

There's nothing wrong with the women though. Good as gold.

She is the definition of a cunt. I'd say she has aged like milk, no wonder the majority of guys bailed on her and the doctor couldn't get it up.

[–]AboveAFC 5 points5 points5 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It seems there is a lot of hate for this woman when she is only doing what she's genetically programmed to do. I know this isn't what most men want to hear, but he's largely (if not entirely) to blame. Through his feminist programming or natural beta(ness), he has killed her attraction for him.

It's a man's job to lead and be attractive to his woman just as much as it's her's to attract him.

If we at TRP don't accept the feminist mantra that we are "evil" for having biological male urges to spread our seed, then I feel we really shouldn't hold it against women for following their biological imperative to find an alpha.

There are a few here with disparaging remarks that she is somehow horrible for following her biology. Yes, we are humans and have higher reasoning, but you can only fight biology for so long.

We as men must figure out how to become more appealing to our women. How to quit being neutered by feminism's view of being a "nice guy". This kills the attraction for a woman just as quickly as your woman gaining 30lbs would for most of us. We here don't blame a man for losing attraction in that case, so why would we blame a woman for losing attraction to her beta acting man?

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 13 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]AboveAFC 2 points2 points2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

She's bored, overly secure, and feels no danger that her man might "trade up" because he's an aggressive, dominant, alpha. Hypergamy had clearly kicked in for her. Maybe he's a good guy, but from the sounds of done everything "nice" and made her life "too easy".

This is also a symptom of the institution of modern marriage. It makes women "too secure" if you will. She knows she holds all the power. So I suppose it could be the case that he's not a beta, but I highly doubt it. She knows he's not sniffing around other women because she'd castrate him. That security (rightly or wrongly), leads to a loss of attraction (hypergamy).

I've seen this same thing in tons of married women today. It's why they are actually easier to game than single ladies.

Cheating or not cheating... I have no blanket moral opinion on that. If you are a bitter fat cow of a wife who nags incessantly and threatens to take your man for all he's worth if he leaves, I can understand him cheating. So if I can understand (not necessarily condone it), then I can certainly understand a woman giving into her natural instinct to find an alpha. I'm not a hypocrite.

Be an Alpha!

[–]Volgyi20000 points1 point2 points 13 years ago [recovered] [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

You're making a lot of inferences from the piece. I am not saying that you're wrong about the situation; however, I am saying that a lot of what you are saying is unfounded or not corroborated in the text of the article. We actually know next to nothing about the husband. For all we know, based on the article, he could be an alpha and she's just crazy.

Also, a biological need to mate with an alpha is hardly a legitimate reason to cheat on a husband, especially after she is past reproductive age.

[–]Modredpillschool1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's important to note that both men and women cheat. The difference is in how they cheat. It's not common for a woman to be able to hold an emotional connection with her previous mate if she's found somebody new.

[–]_Molon_Labe_0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

my marriage, my family, our home, our cottage.

Your fucking cottage is on your list of important things??? Fucking whore.

There is nothing true in this article. She fucked all of the men.

[–]PolishHammerMK-1 points0 points1 point 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm against domestic violence but this bitch is pushing it

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