Giving any emotional validation at all before sex

WIA20XX · 2019-04-24T18:02:11+00:00

You can be an emotional tampon and still get the pussy, BUT SHE'S DECIDING to fuck you DESPITE your behavior.

Having game is not about just sticking P into V, but having CHOICE. A man wants to fuck chicks on his terms. There is some room for negotiation, but a lot of stuff she wants are non negotiable. Either it shifts the burden, or she wants to poison the very thing that makes her attracted.

Now to get back to "listening to her bullshit game", She might even hand you the panties in contrast to her "alpha" guy because you can bring about the emotional rollercoaster/catharsis. Fucking a girl by causing her to have an emotional breakthrough is some top level shit, but typically overkill.

Chicks fall in "love" with their therapists so often that professionals have to learn how to stop it from happening. https://www.verywellmind.com/help-ive-fallen-in-love-with-my-therapist-2337585

The dangers of letting her cry on your shoulder and fucking her later -

It usually fails miserably, because the man/woman polarity is fucked up. This is how nice guy/great listeners end up in the friend zone instead of the end zone.
When it succeeds, you have to continue to hear her bullshit, because that's an established pattern. You can't let her lament Tuesday and not on Wednesday.

Good luck

CainPrice · 2019-04-24T19:20:53+00:00

This is a weird and vague question.

If you want to have sex with a woman, you need to talk to her and interact with her like a human being. She needs to feel attracted to you, and she needs to feel comfortable with you.

If you act like some kind of weird, standoffish, antisocial autistic jerk who can't hold a conversation with her because you're trying to withhold validation while she talks about her life, that's just strange. Have a normal conversation with her. Just don't be a doormat emotional tampon. Have fun with her, banter, touch her, flirt, escalate. Be the fun guy who takes her mind off of her problems, sweeps her up, and fucks her silly, instead of the nice guy doormat who listens to her until she feels better so she can go off and fuck someone else.

[deleted] · 2019-04-24T18:49:43+00:00

There's no problem listening to a girl's problems and being her rock, but you only do this as a reward for fucking you. If a girl tries to tell me her problems on a first or second date prior to fucking, I tell her that I'm here to have fun and get to know her. Of course, if she complains for two minutes and changes the subject, it's no big deal. But if she won't shut up, that's when I tell her this.

After she's invested a bit and showed that she is a girl you want to keep around, there is no problem being her rock and getting her to open up emotionally. It will make her trust you more and grow closer to you. But I stress again, only do this if she's fucking you and treating you right and doesn't do it every time you see her.

Atheist_Utopia · 2019-04-24T17:34:27+00:00

Example?

Atheist_Utopia · 2019-04-24T17:39:25+00:00

Details sir.

[deleted] · 2019-04-24T20:14:11+00:00

Serious answer is don't worry yourself with shit like this on the front end. Get into engaging situations and stop pre-planning scenarios. Every female is different and asking us here and now before anything has occurred is just a waste of OUR collective attention.

Go out there and approach.

Title	Giving any emotional validation at all before sex
Author	Atheist_Utopia
Upvotes	3
Comments	19
Date	April 24, 2019 5:33 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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