I met this 29-year-old girl who's a virgin, and has never kissed. You can tell from her behavior, she's very sensitive, innocent, child-like almost, and non-jaded. I met her in a dance class. Her family and our culture has kept her sheltered from the LA partying going life. We're of a similar background (ethnicity), she has a good job, masters degree, and is generally a kind person, but I'm not attracted to her. My friends rated her a 5/10.

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I was with a girl for 3 years recently and she was a virgin when we first started off, and eventually, she turned into one of those typical LA party going girls. She lost her virginity to me, but after 3 years I'm sure he N-count by now is at least 5 or more. One of the reasons I fucked up with this girl I was completely blue-pilled. In the beginning, I was the more experienced one, but she quickly surpassed me, and became condescending towards me.

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After the breakup, I fell into depression, became emotionally numb, and now this innocent girl fell in my lap. I told myself I was going to go out there meet a lot of girls, hook up a lot, and become cold and heartless. Though, I don't feel like this girl deserves it. She's genuinely a very good girl, and in my cultural background, it's considered immoral to take a virgin or innocent girl and taint them. You're supposed to keep clean girls clean, and fuck around with hoes on the side. Clean girls raise your kids, and whores are there for fun.

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Anyway, I don't know what to do with this innocent girl. She said she wanted to be in a relationship with me and it's been 3 months since I stopped contact with my party going ex. Should I jump into a relationship with her and simultaneously fuck around on the side? I know in the end I will hurt her. She's not a Hollywood club going slut. She told me I was the first guy she's kissed, she doesn't drink, doesn't like going out to clubs, her N-count is 0, she's smart, nurturing and feminine. It's just, the physical attraction isn't there.

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Some of my friends said give her a chance, others have said if you're truly not interested don't waste her time, and one said stop trying to save everyone, just go and try to fuck her stop being a nice guy.

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What do you guys think I should do?