Should I look for attraction signs before approaching?

360_no_scope_upvote · 2019-04-28T04:03:46+00:00

No

IOI's are not a good predictor of success. If you see a woman you find attractive, approach her, that's all there is to it. Don't over think it. You can research this shit all you like but nothing trumps actually going out there and doing it.

Orfeu_da_Conceicao · 2019-04-28T04:24:39+00:00

It's a numbers game dude. Bonecrker is right but his advice applies to screening for girls with cluster b personalities mostly. Get some serious experience under your belt through trial and error and then worry about screening. Just avoid girls with stds, single moms, gold diggers and the obviously Cray Cray for now.

Atheist_Utopia · 2019-04-28T08:07:51+00:00

Again, too many black-or-white thinkers here. You definitely should look for IOIs in high-risk environments, like on campus. You definitely do not want to be known as that guy, especially in your classroom. I'm still paying the price myself from the rejections 8 months ago.

You can approach whoever the fuck you want when you are 100% sure you'll never see them again, like in the streets of New York.

frontyer0077 · 2019-04-28T04:05:08+00:00

No not really. Just approach whoever you find attractive. Especially in when doin vold approaches. Girls dont really pay attention to other guys while walking around, unless youre a good looking dude.

But however if you do spot a girl looking at you, approach.

17helpme · 2019-04-28T06:55:41+00:00

Its like asking if you should check if the pool is hot enough before you jump in to swim. Just jump and swim man, sometimes the pool is warm, sometimes it's not, it would get easier and you'd get desensitized to the cold.

resnine · 2019-04-28T04:58:01+00:00

Can you link to Bonecrker's post?

Title	Should I look for attraction signs before approaching?
Author	TheGhandster
Upvotes	9
Comments	16
Date	April 28, 2019 4:00 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/bi7cyp/should_i_look_for_attraction_signs_before/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/should-i-look-for-attraction-signs-before.236440 https://theredarchive.com/post/236440

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