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Funny little interaction

Tiredasfuck8 · 2019-05-06T19:09:15+00:00

I texted this girl, do you workout, cause I'm at the gym and I was just curious whatever. She goes into a tirade saying I called her fat... left that shit...

Tiredasfuck8

May 6, 2019

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Title	Funny little interaction
Author	Tiredasfuck8
Upvotes	8
Comments	16
Date	May 6, 2019 7:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/blg9h8/funny_little_interaction/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/funny-little-interaction.237399 https://theredarchive.com/post/237399

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[–]NSPolaris 1 points 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]astonboi01-1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]ZealousFeet2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Sure.

Text Game OP: "Do you workout?"

Girl: "Are you calling me fat? WTF? A#h@#!"

OP: "Yeah, don't hit any icebergs. (Sarcastic)

OP cont: "Anyways, I'm bored at the gym some days. I can show you a few pointers if you're interested. (Truth/Point of text)

I believe OP was just trying to invite her into his hobby, but she was insecure hence the above response.

Public Game OP: Do you workout?

Girl: OMG, are you calling me fat?

OP: (Smiling like a dick) Yeah, don't hit any icebergs.

If she see that you're teasing her. She might throw some Kino in there. Light touch or jab. But, that just mean she cares.

Continue with last verbatim response about pointers.

Tease her. Her insecurity is the least of your concerns. She wants to know if she can whip you into her frame by throwing unnecessary validation at her. The moment you do this, her snatch will become a little parched.

Hope this helped.

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[–]ZealousFeet0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]astonboi010 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

One of the girls from my college is friends with somebody in my politics class. Bare in my, my politics class is literally a left wing echo chamber, every student and even the teacher buy into the typical left wing narrative. Anyway, this girl who I’ve been speaking to on snapchat messaged me bringing up my politics, now I’m assuming her friend (the one in my politics) bought it up or something because I’ve never discussed it directly with her. This girl has popped up to me a quite a few times now. She said something like ‘shame you hate women’ (not this exactly but she was using my politics to try and break my frame) Instantly knew this was a shit test. I used A&A and said ‘I don’t hate ALL women, only the ones I don’t find attractive’ . She replied saying ‘I didn’t realise this was a view point people had’ so I don’t know whether I passed or not? I thought it was quite obviously a joke but didn’t want to seem to get backtrack so I sent a ‘😂’ emoji and left it at that. Curious as to what you would have done differently and whether I passed the shit test? New to TRP so need a bit of guidance when it comes to these kind of complicated shit tests.

[–]ZealousFeet1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

No one should know your politics unless you're with close friends or a LTR. Follow the crowd. Believe what you know to be true. Be careful using that A&A to respond to shit-tests as they know more about you now, so the girl may just believe it. In my experiences, not all A&As are created equal. Could come across as shallow. They're already looking to "fight the man" as is. At the same time, I would be weary of the girls you seek in this class. Most of these girls and BP'd men adopt a very extreme ideology of the left wing spectrum. Good for plates, bad for LTR's.

What I would've done differently? Different safer A&A. Ask yourself what you're trying to convey to these people. How do I want them to see me? What type of environment am I in?

Girl: Shame you hate all women...
Me: I hate all women with a passion. Where's my pitchfork?

Clearly she'd have to be a little dim if she can't see that this was a playful joke, and hopefully it will take some of the seriousness out of this gaslight attempt.

Conclusion: I believe you failed because she actually believes you, this defeats the purpose of an A&A. Not all A&As are created equal.

If you haven't read it already I'd read Models by Mark Manson. Also, you're new, I'd read the sidebar like you're studying for an exam called: "Life" because you actually are. If you need guidance I'll be here to point you in the more desirable directions on this sub.

Cheers.

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