I’m not particularly good at conversations. I’m finishing my first year of college. I’ve recently started approaching 1-2 people a day (with some missed days) during my meals. Talking to people I would’ve avoided before because I didn’t want to talk. Trying to spend more time with my friends (I’m in a fraternity which helps). The main things I’m struggling with are being more self amused rather than going through the motions and “sticking to the script”. I’m also not to great at forming a meaningful connection with people. Im rather serious and don’t really joke much, and I’m generally limited with my words. I’m wondering if these are things that will come with time as I continue to talk with people or are there any specific tips on how I can improve in these areas

I should add that I’m not trying to become a jokester or anything just wanting to learn how to enjoy myself in a conversation.