We aren't monogamous to each other and haven't fucked or seen each other in 5 weeks. Every time except the last time we met up and she was on her period we've had sex - she gave me oral that time. We've had sex three times, Ive known her for about two months.

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We scheduled a meet up earlier this week tomorrow and she just texted me saying "We can't have sex tomorrow when we meet up"

Asked her flat out why we couldn't have sex and she said personal and medical reasons.

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Im just going to assume she has an STD at this point, or could it be something else?

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Asked her if she was in a relationship and she said she was seeing someone but it wasn't serious.

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I've already written her off as either trying to friend-zone me or having herpes at this point. Im going to meet up with her but I decided to cap the time we spend together at 30 minutes and then head to a City and hangout with some male friends.

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At this point I think I just want the mental closure. Anyone else had to deal with this shit.

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The medium is the message....Should I just ghost this girl entirely and flake on her?