Plate says to me, “What is it going to take for me to win you over.” Me, “What” Plate, “I just can’t figure you out” Me - leaves the conversation

The reason I ask is because one of my coworkers also told me something similar the other night that I’m “hard to read and mysterious”

I don’t really know if these should be taken as a bad or good thing. I guess it could be taken either way depending on who you are.

My main question is, what do these statements mean and what adjustments do I need to myself to keep becoming a better version of myself.

Thanks