I know it's hard to guess, but i'll try to bring few examples.

  1. DM'd a girl. Pulled her to a date. We had a great time, but unfortunatelly that day I had my mom staying in town and my place so couldn't take her home - so after date we just made out in the car - she said she enjoyed date a lot. I told her, next date at my place, i cook for her - she said great idea. But started an attention whore behaviour after. "I'm very busy". Not sure when. Bla bla. After a while i soft nexted her. She started texting me. I initiate date - she again starts "not sure when", pretty busy schedule and all.
  2. Met a group in the bar. Had some chemistry with one of the girls, but was cockblocked by her ugly girlfriend. So we exchanged numbers. she texted me first the next day talking about the hangover. bla bla. I called her- she Said no way she can meet me that day. The day after i texted her, about something weplanned together - she said she is with her friend going somewhere already - so the evening is planned. I didn't contact her since. Neither did she.

  3. Met a girl in the bar when i was leaving. Took her number. Called her up and arranged to meet in the same bar couple of weeks later. We both drank pretty much and after the bar started making out, i told her to come over to my place, she said no no no, and went home. After flakey behavior started - once saying she is out with her friends and not sure when she'll have time - other time, not answering my phone call. I never called her after.

I am not a bad kisser. Am pretty experienced with girls and sex. I tease them, i do everthing like it should be. But recently i have this flakey girl ratio going up which i think something is wrong with my behaviour or i dunno what.

**What comes to my mind:

  1. Most of this girls are travelling to my town, so they probably hangout in a lot of bars and are pretty hot, so get a lot of attention and even if she likes me the one night in the bar, next day, she gets probably 10 other guys approach her.
  2. At some point i lose my frame, and i become a "girlfriend" partner of her for the night. Like a good friend. Cause i make them laugh a lot and have a pretty good sense of humor - so that maybe is decreasing my frame? Please help me out, what else should i pay attention to?**