Take away: once the date is set, SHUT THE FUCK UP!!
I just got mind fucked.
Never met this girl before, middle eastern, religious and claims that she never dated before.
She mentioned last week that she felt uncomfortable going on a date, so when I asked her out I suggested a walk which she agreed on.
Reached out again today to confirm logistics for tomorrow and she said that we could go workout together or run (sprint).
I was like, what the fuck? So I wrote “a sprinting session? I want to get to know you, that doesn’t sound optimal. Let’s go for a walk in x park”
To which she responded with “I’m only joking around, you don’t have to write so much, yes we can do that!”
I felt that I was maybe too tense and missed her signals so I wanted to joke around and told her that I low key felt sorry for her because she’s never been on a date before and therefore thought a sprint was a good idea.
Since this was done via text, I think she took it literally. Obviously it sounds so much more playful in real life, but now when I think about it she probably got super offended lol.
She asked: “wait, are you serious?”
Which I thought was another one of her jokes, so I responded with “aw you got sad?”
After that, she texted me a paragraph basically saying that no, she is not sad and that is not her type of humor, and she couldn’t believe that it’s how I think of her and that she will go on a walk by herself tomorrow instead and that I should have a great one!
I was like... wait, what the fuck?
So I texted her “When I’m serious, you tell me to not write essays, and when I joke around you get offended. You are complicated, I like it”
No response.
There are 3 options here:
A) text her now “oh so you really got offended?”
B) text her tomorrow 1 hour before our initial date to confirm the walk as if nothing happened
C) Next
Did I fuck up, and which option do you think I should go with?
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