Have any of you ever fucked your oneitis?

Zwordfish · 2019-06-10T07:46:23+00:00

Lol forget it dawg. It's not worth it.

WIA20XX · 2019-06-10T12:26:53+00:00

I've gotten with every mission impossible that I can think of.

Exes
one itis.
"no" girls.
"maybe" girls.
never again.
can't ever meet up.
flakes.
girls that stood me up.

The sex is sex, but the satisfaction that I thought I would get is never there.

Hot girls, stunners, dime pieces = same likelihood of good sex, but the sense of accomplishment is not there either.

There is merit in learning the skills. There is some fun in the chase but ultimately those "special" girls were really about my ego. And my ego can't be satisfied through "accomplishments".

When you see gurus leave the game or pivot, it's usually about them seeing the pursuit as hollow AND then thinking this next pursuit won't be.

Cliche, but the being content comes from within

cgaze · 2019-06-10T08:28:28+00:00

I came close and leaned why it's never worth it.

I had hardcore oneitis for this chick for years, would've killed to fuck her. Don't see/speak to her for a couple years. Swallowed the pill and improved myself in that time. By chance, we end up in the same class. Exchange maybe 10 words between us throughout the course of the entire year. Suddenly, she texts me to invite me to a formal party and an afterparty with a group. I suggest a place we could get for after, and we reserve it. Suddenly, she tells me people can't make it to the afterparty until it's just us.

Night comes and before we even get to our Airbnb, I realize she's dead to me. Imagine being so underwhelmed with someone that you sleep in the same bed on a date but don't fuck.

Comes down to this, as long as someone's your oneitis, you're never going to get with them. If you improve yourself to the point where that changes, you'll have so many options that you won't want to if you're given the chance.

bigboxguy · 2019-06-10T08:13:21+00:00

No that’s why they are you’re oneitis

lifeisweirdasfuck · 2019-06-10T09:38:01+00:00

I usually wonder how guys manage to fuck their one itis.

It just doesn't make sense.

If it's a oneitis, your behavior towards her will repel her.

So guys either fake their alphaness and aloofness and manage to fuck her, or there's an huge disparity between the SMV of the guy and the SMV of the girl (with the guy's one being higher)

Either way, as soon as she founds out you have oneitis for her she'll run away from you.

SemperPrimus · 2019-06-10T09:51:22+00:00

yes but we broke up not long after and that hurt like a mofo

bluepillcarl · 2019-06-10T15:48:02+00:00

I have and it was an amazing fuckathon all night. I went out with her one night got plastered and brought her back to my hotel so I had sex with her in every position and went until like 10am the next morning. I didn't cum so in the end I wasn't satisfied and I ended up chasing her all year again and then did her 5 more times. I wanted her to want me and she never did. Then I went through a period of regret. It wasn't worth it but I learned in the end she's just some other dumb slut and time to move on to conquer other pussy.

feasega · 2019-06-10T17:29:37+00:00

Yeah read my post about it Was pretty good but left me heart broken lmao

GandMeChattri · 2019-06-10T23:12:41+00:00

Yes.

It's not worth it.

Talinor09 · 2019-06-11T08:22:34+00:00

Yes, I saw a girl once and as cliche as it sounds it was love at first sight. I’ve never wanted anyone more, or had attraction so instantly and I barely even knew her which was strange as even if I met some 10/10 instagram superbabes I still wouldn’t have that instant chemistry, like sure i’d want to fuck them but not longing to be with them.

Anyway once I dumped my ex and met her properly I gamed her, then fucked her and we dated for a year. The sex was amazing at the start and definitely at the end after we broke up, probably the best sex I ever had.

I can’t say the relationship was horrible but it was definitely testing and broke my frame. To be fair i’m sure I hurt her too at times as I can be cold and aloof. In the end she left me but pulled me back in a few times as she couldn’t do better.

All is I can say is it’s like trying to tame a wild horse. You’ll either break the horse in or get broken in the process.

Title	Have any of you ever fucked your oneitis?
Author	SnailSwag
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Comments	19
Date	June 10, 2019 7:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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