So I hear constantly about BPD girls and shit and how they catch you by being amazing and shit.

Here's my thing, I'm very very sensitive to crazy. I'm not even just saying that to look cool, like i'm suuuuper skpetical of any behavior of girls that is even slightly out of the norm.

For example, The hottest girl I ever had sex with (it was a ONS) actually text me the next day after we fucked saying "good morning xx" and I was like "Wtf, there's no way she likes me this much, she must be crazy". So then I showed my friend the text and explained the story and he was like "dude, that just means she really likes you, you're being crazy". And it turned out that yeah, she did actually just really like me lol. Anyway, there are many other stories I can tell you to get across the point that even the SLIGHTEST behavior that is out of 'norm' will set alarms off in my head. Frankly it's actually to my detriment cos I'm clearly being paranoid.

I find myself most attracted to very emotionally level girls, crazy doesn't attract me at all, it turns me off a lot. No matter how hot they are. I'm saying this from experience too, not just theory. I always find myself most attracted to girls who are chill and normal, not super into crazy wild sex etc. I'm a vanilla ass mother fucker who just likes regular boring nerdy chicks who happen to be hot lol. The whole crazy rollercoaster wildchild shit is a mad turn off for me.

The last thing I'll say to really hammer the point home is that I just don't like when a girl likes me too much and is overly affectionate and loving, It's weird to me. I'm always thinking "bruh just chill".

Regardless, My question though is this. Even with this level of sensitivity to craziness I got where the tiniest bit of "too much" kind of behavior sets my alarms off, can a BPD girl still get to me?

I"m hoping the answer is no. So dudes who have experience with this shit, and dudes who have spotted BPD early and jumped ship before it got crazy, Please educate me on the matter.