Obviously spilling your feelings and desires out to women is not good for your perceived attractiveness. TRP basics.

But if I’m genuinely mad or happy about some behavior of her I can’t always keep it to myself or should I?

Say I’m in an LTR and my girl flirts with some guy in front of me or doesn’t message me back or some shit.

If I directly confront her about the shit she will be informed but also she knows it got to me. If I passively punish her by withdrawing or soft nexting she doesn’t get insight into my emotions but also it’s passive aggressive as fuck and she may not get why exactly I ghosted her.